My first love....please I need advice!?
Without going into a life story let me just try to keep this to an overview of a few of my thoughts and feelings....I met my first love back in my teenage years, it was a night I will never forget. The night started out like any other night as a teenager, no real plans and not looking for a girlfriend at all. I arrived at the local skating rink on a Friday night, met up with friends and the night started. It was not long before this brown hair brown eyed beauty caught my eye...but she was way out of my league. I watched her throughout the night scared to death to actually approach her. After much convincing from my friends talking me up and telling me if I really liked her to go talk to her I did, knees shaking, stomach doing circles trying to remain calm I approached her to ask her to skate with my for the slow skate. She told me she was waiting for another guy she was supposed to meet up with during the second session but she would skate with me. The song was You Are Not Alone by MIchael Jackson I remember it like yesterday! The night went on and we really hit it off, completely inseparable from one another. This other guy finally arrived and was late and her lost the chance at the only girl that has touched my life like this. We talked on the phone that night and many nights to come falling asleep talking to one another on the phone at all hours of the morning. Fast forward a few years we have dated a few times by now and it has finally stopped, she has fallen for someone else. We remained friends and we went to one another to talk about all of our problems included relationships, we got eachother through a lot of tough times. It always killed me to hear she was dating someone else. Now skip another 8 years to Valentines day this year, my wife and I go into buy a couch and who is the sales person that comes up to us......yep you guessed it. We have not talked in probably years to this point, although I literally think about her daily and wish it would have never ended. I really understand the meaning of love and it is thanks to this girl I got it, however I have never felt it with anyone else...I miss her and think about her 24/7 I know some of you will say let it go you both moved on, but truth be told I don't think I really ever have. I added her on facebook a few days after running into her again and we chatted for a little while she started telling me about problems with her marriage and then just stopped and asked why she was telling me all of this...it was like time just went back a decade there for a minute and we were talking about our relationship problems again. I love her and I am married, I just need some advise. If your advise is "you are married, drop it with her" or anything of that sort then save it and keep it to yourself. I hate to be mean here but I really cannot leave the thought of us getting back together alone it has been over a decade and I long to see her, hear her voice and just think about her EVERY SINGLE DAY. I have no one I can tell this too or talk about with so you guys are it. Please help me. I wrote an annomous note the other day telling her all of my feelings for her with an email address to reply to if she is interested in figuring out who it is from. I am going ot leave it on her car for her to find, she can then do what she wants with it...but I really hope I hear something back. Comments and advise are welcome...............please you are all I have as I cannot even discuss the thought of all of this with anyone in my life, and it has been consuming me for over a decade. This is just not some random girl but more like what I believe to be my soulmate! Thanks guys!!!!
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story time!! summerise pls.
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First, I would like to know if you have any kids. I know you didn't mention them, but that doesn't mean you don't have any. I'm not going to lie, I think it's a bad idea. Are you completely sure of your feelings? Could it be that maybe you just didn't get closure? Maybe you've idealized her beyond and realistic standards. I've done that before and it was horrible. It came to the point that there was no way she could meet up to what I imagined being with her would be like. I'd hate to know that you threw away a marriage for that. You need to think logically about all of this. I know that would be hard to do, but sometimes emotions get the better of us. If you are absolutely sure of what you are feeling, well, it's not fair to your wife. But you should know there is a VERY good chance that she will hate you for this. Just don't go off half cocked. Think everything out. Be patient and make sure this is what's right. I hope you have the best of luck with whatever you decide.
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You seem to have already made your mind up of what you want. Why did she break it off to begin with when you were dating? I'd take a good look at what you have now and figure out if its worth to risk it on a maybe. First real loves last with everyone that has them, you aren't the only one, but try and be realistic and figure out if it's actually possible before you go putting a mushy note on her car. I wish you luck. You have some soul searching to do that is for certain.
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I had the same problem, but, well, if you don't want to be told to move on, then think of why you married your wife and how hurt you would be if she acted on similar feelings for her first love. It's time to reevaluate your life when these situations arise. Could you live happily without your wife or after you have hurt her? Or would you really throw it all away? Maybe you would, you said nothing about your marriage. I think this kind of situation occurs more than you think.
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I know what you mean I fell for two females I really do love them but they are married we been friends for years, They know I love them their husbands know I love them and I happy they are in my life At some stage in life we really do find true love and have to play the cards we are dealt. I'm now an old man and it's easier for me to be happy that they are where they need to be and well taken care of. It may be a different story if I was younger. She could be your soul mate under different circumstances. I have never felt this close to anyone as I feel to these to ladies. I put my arms around them and it's damn hard to let go but have nothing but their best interest at heart.
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Tuesday, May 14, 2013
Tuesday, May 7, 2013
What is the best course of action for a dispute like this?
What is the best course of action for a dispute like this?
About a year ago, I loaned someone about 200 dollars worth of DVDs (House seasons 1 - 4) so he could watch them. I've been asking for them since and he keeps promising he'll give them to me but he never does. About two months ago, he invited a friend I was with to dinner. When my friend told him he was already out, he wanted me to go, but I had no money -- so he fronted me 14 dollars for dinner. He knows I don't have cash -- I am in so much trouble right now I can't even pay my rent, my car note, my utilities, my credit card bills, nothing. I skipped all my bills this month so I could buy myself food. I DID, however, get a job offer (a NICE one) and I made some comment on Facebook about getting a "sweet job offer." 12am, the guy calls me and I answer the phone and the first thing I hear is, "What job offer?" I respond that I'm not willing to discuss that and chuckle, and he snaps "Like your not going to give me my money like I won't give you your DVDs." He immediately hangs up before I can even explain myself. I repay my debts. But the money just physically isn't there. On the other hand, I've been very kind and patient with him for over a year. That phone call, being treated like that.. enough is enough. I live in Tempe, Arizona. I am NOT familiar with the area or the legal system, but would anyone know how much would it put me out to try and take action against this guy for the return of my DVDs or their cash value? I did not have a contract or anything, it was just a friendly gesture.
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First pay him the $14 so that's out of the way. Then tell him unless he returns the DVD's you will take him to Small Claims Court - if he doesn't, go ahead with it. The local Clerk of the Courts office should be able to help you.
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Go to small claims court and ask if you can petition your discs. Also try and put a dollar amount on theses CD's to give the judge the amount you are out. It sounds like your friend has never attempted to give them back. Also try and remember what order they were in, and a small description of your address book ? Then and only them I recommend seeing a lawyer who like those kinds of details.
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About a year ago, I loaned someone about 200 dollars worth of DVDs (House seasons 1 - 4) so he could watch them. I've been asking for them since and he keeps promising he'll give them to me but he never does. About two months ago, he invited a friend I was with to dinner. When my friend told him he was already out, he wanted me to go, but I had no money -- so he fronted me 14 dollars for dinner. He knows I don't have cash -- I am in so much trouble right now I can't even pay my rent, my car note, my utilities, my credit card bills, nothing. I skipped all my bills this month so I could buy myself food. I DID, however, get a job offer (a NICE one) and I made some comment on Facebook about getting a "sweet job offer." 12am, the guy calls me and I answer the phone and the first thing I hear is, "What job offer?" I respond that I'm not willing to discuss that and chuckle, and he snaps "Like your not going to give me my money like I won't give you your DVDs." He immediately hangs up before I can even explain myself. I repay my debts. But the money just physically isn't there. On the other hand, I've been very kind and patient with him for over a year. That phone call, being treated like that.. enough is enough. I live in Tempe, Arizona. I am NOT familiar with the area or the legal system, but would anyone know how much would it put me out to try and take action against this guy for the return of my DVDs or their cash value? I did not have a contract or anything, it was just a friendly gesture.
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First pay him the $14 so that's out of the way. Then tell him unless he returns the DVD's you will take him to Small Claims Court - if he doesn't, go ahead with it. The local Clerk of the Courts office should be able to help you.
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Go to small claims court and ask if you can petition your discs. Also try and put a dollar amount on theses CD's to give the judge the amount you are out. It sounds like your friend has never attempted to give them back. Also try and remember what order they were in, and a small description of your address book ? Then and only them I recommend seeing a lawyer who like those kinds of details.
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Wednesday, May 1, 2013
I don't know what to do...?
I don't know what to do...?
My boyfriend and I broke up about a week ago. It was a really...weird break up though, and honestly I think its one we can easily work through. I went to Utah to visit family for Thanksgiving and the entire week he'd call me every day to make sure I was okay and we'd talk and at the end of every conversation he'd tell me he missed me and that he loved me. Then I get home and we're fine...until we got into our very first 'argument'. There was no yelling involved, it was more like a heated conversation, because his parents don't support us and want him to keep dating other girls, while my family wants to meet him so they're traveling thousands of miles to meet him over Christmas Break, and he tells me that he probably can't go because he has no way to get down there. Its super easy and cheep to get there. My parents are paying hundreds in gas money, and my roommate's boyfriend spent hundreds to travel up here just to see her. My boyfriend claimed that he was really stressed with a lot of things right now, and then suddenly he was suggesting we break up out of the blue. The next morning we broke up. At first I was okay with it, but then with each day that passed I've felt more and more depressed. I NEVER get depressed over a guy. Then a couple days ago he pulls a move that really pisses me off; we both had items that belonged to the other, and I thought we'd do the mature thing and exchange it after a few days of not seeing each other like adults, but instead he gives my item to his friend who gives it to my roomate to give to me, and attached to it is a note. Already pissed off that he did something out of character by not giving me my stuff in person, I read the note. It basically explained that he loved me and he wanted to marry me, but he wasn't ready. He didn't know if I wanted to be friends (I never said I didn't want to be) and how could I forgive him for the break up (It was a really random break up but it wasn't a bad one...I've had way worse) and then he proceeded to be way too hard on himself. I wasn't sure how to respond to that, so I asked my uncle who told me to play the game right back. So I did. I sent a short note basically thanking him for his note, returning his item, and then telling him that I really didn't want to discuss this over a note and that when he was ready to talk to me in person, he knew how to contact me. That was days ago, and I still haven't heard back from him. I've already been on dates with other guys, and gone out with friends to see stuff I normally would have seen with him. Usually, even if I still have feelings for the guy, I get less and less depressed as the days go by. But this time its getting to the point where I don't even want to go out because everytime I do I always think how much I want to be with him, and how I really want to work this out, but when I start imagining what I'd say, more and more I don't know if he'll want to get back together. I know he's having the same issues I'm having because on his facebook (no, I'm not stalking him, his statuses show up on my wall so I don't have to stalk him even if I wanted to) it says that he's miserable and that he's "Confused with life" so I'm not exactly sure if that means he's reconsidering or...I don't even know. All I know is the more I'm away from him, the more I realize I don't want to be. And even though he makes me mad sometimes, I still love him deeply and I want to work things out with him. I would even be okay with starting our relationship again and taking it way slower, especially since I have to go home in a few weeks for a little while to earn money, but I'm not sure how I'm supposed to explain all this when he hasn't even bothered to call me or 'accidentally walk by' or something random like that. And if or when we do talk (because I'm hoping he'll be waiting for me after my class tomorow, but that could just be my own wishful thinking) how am I supposed to phrase all of this? I'm so tired of this 'break up'. It was stupid and something that if he loves me like he says he does, he'll work out with me. Any advice on what I should say/do? Please no rude comments or comments just to get points. I will report you; I am in no mood to deal with people like that right now. Thank you!
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You would get a lot more answers in the right section - family and relationships, or singles and dating :o) Anyway, I think the key to your problems is probably the fact that his parents are not in favour of his relationship with you and want him to date other girls? If he has already told you how he feels in that note, maybe you could have given him the benefit of the doubt? Maybe it was really hard for him to break up with you but he is being pressured by his parents. How much do you know about his financial situation? How old are you both? Does he fear that if he sees you, he will fall straight back into the relationship? Does he fear that being young, it cannot last so he wants to wait. Your uncle obviously meant well, telling you to play him at his own game - but it isn't a game is it? It is real and you are hurting. Two wrongs do not make a right! You thought your boyfriend was wrong to send your stuff with a note via friends - but then you did the same thing. Be true to yourself, and trust your own feelings. What's to stop you from going to see him and talking it through with him? Is pride preventing you? If pride is stronger than love - it isn't love. And you know, what happens between your friends and their boyfriends, should not make you compare your boyfriend to theirs... his circumstances may be completely different, and he is unique and special isn't he? If you don't think so, then he is just one of a herd. I'm not trying to upset you more than you are already. I am on your side and I want you to see things from a slightly different perspective. Your angle so far is not working the way you'd like and maybe the smallest adjustment will make a big difference.
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My boyfriend and I broke up about a week ago. It was a really...weird break up though, and honestly I think its one we can easily work through. I went to Utah to visit family for Thanksgiving and the entire week he'd call me every day to make sure I was okay and we'd talk and at the end of every conversation he'd tell me he missed me and that he loved me. Then I get home and we're fine...until we got into our very first 'argument'. There was no yelling involved, it was more like a heated conversation, because his parents don't support us and want him to keep dating other girls, while my family wants to meet him so they're traveling thousands of miles to meet him over Christmas Break, and he tells me that he probably can't go because he has no way to get down there. Its super easy and cheep to get there. My parents are paying hundreds in gas money, and my roommate's boyfriend spent hundreds to travel up here just to see her. My boyfriend claimed that he was really stressed with a lot of things right now, and then suddenly he was suggesting we break up out of the blue. The next morning we broke up. At first I was okay with it, but then with each day that passed I've felt more and more depressed. I NEVER get depressed over a guy. Then a couple days ago he pulls a move that really pisses me off; we both had items that belonged to the other, and I thought we'd do the mature thing and exchange it after a few days of not seeing each other like adults, but instead he gives my item to his friend who gives it to my roomate to give to me, and attached to it is a note. Already pissed off that he did something out of character by not giving me my stuff in person, I read the note. It basically explained that he loved me and he wanted to marry me, but he wasn't ready. He didn't know if I wanted to be friends (I never said I didn't want to be) and how could I forgive him for the break up (It was a really random break up but it wasn't a bad one...I've had way worse) and then he proceeded to be way too hard on himself. I wasn't sure how to respond to that, so I asked my uncle who told me to play the game right back. So I did. I sent a short note basically thanking him for his note, returning his item, and then telling him that I really didn't want to discuss this over a note and that when he was ready to talk to me in person, he knew how to contact me. That was days ago, and I still haven't heard back from him. I've already been on dates with other guys, and gone out with friends to see stuff I normally would have seen with him. Usually, even if I still have feelings for the guy, I get less and less depressed as the days go by. But this time its getting to the point where I don't even want to go out because everytime I do I always think how much I want to be with him, and how I really want to work this out, but when I start imagining what I'd say, more and more I don't know if he'll want to get back together. I know he's having the same issues I'm having because on his facebook (no, I'm not stalking him, his statuses show up on my wall so I don't have to stalk him even if I wanted to) it says that he's miserable and that he's "Confused with life" so I'm not exactly sure if that means he's reconsidering or...I don't even know. All I know is the more I'm away from him, the more I realize I don't want to be. And even though he makes me mad sometimes, I still love him deeply and I want to work things out with him. I would even be okay with starting our relationship again and taking it way slower, especially since I have to go home in a few weeks for a little while to earn money, but I'm not sure how I'm supposed to explain all this when he hasn't even bothered to call me or 'accidentally walk by' or something random like that. And if or when we do talk (because I'm hoping he'll be waiting for me after my class tomorow, but that could just be my own wishful thinking) how am I supposed to phrase all of this? I'm so tired of this 'break up'. It was stupid and something that if he loves me like he says he does, he'll work out with me. Any advice on what I should say/do? Please no rude comments or comments just to get points. I will report you; I am in no mood to deal with people like that right now. Thank you!
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You would get a lot more answers in the right section - family and relationships, or singles and dating :o) Anyway, I think the key to your problems is probably the fact that his parents are not in favour of his relationship with you and want him to date other girls? If he has already told you how he feels in that note, maybe you could have given him the benefit of the doubt? Maybe it was really hard for him to break up with you but he is being pressured by his parents. How much do you know about his financial situation? How old are you both? Does he fear that if he sees you, he will fall straight back into the relationship? Does he fear that being young, it cannot last so he wants to wait. Your uncle obviously meant well, telling you to play him at his own game - but it isn't a game is it? It is real and you are hurting. Two wrongs do not make a right! You thought your boyfriend was wrong to send your stuff with a note via friends - but then you did the same thing. Be true to yourself, and trust your own feelings. What's to stop you from going to see him and talking it through with him? Is pride preventing you? If pride is stronger than love - it isn't love. And you know, what happens between your friends and their boyfriends, should not make you compare your boyfriend to theirs... his circumstances may be completely different, and he is unique and special isn't he? If you don't think so, then he is just one of a herd. I'm not trying to upset you more than you are already. I am on your side and I want you to see things from a slightly different perspective. Your angle so far is not working the way you'd like and maybe the smallest adjustment will make a big difference.
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Sunday, April 28, 2013
MO & AR divorce laws, legal advice about spousal support, adultery, home...any lawyers?
Long story...complicated a bit! Please be kind, this is a very emotionally disturbing situation, only serious answers please. I'll try to sum it up... Married in arkansas, resided together in Missouri. Married almost 4 years, I was a single mother of 3 going back to college when we met, and i had my own home. we married, I sold my home, we bought a $300,000+ home together. I had to quit going to college and work full-time because his promise to pay my tuition after we married was not fulfilled. I quit working all together 6 months later at his request because he works away from home and wanted me home when he was not working. June 2007, he moved out and got an apartment in arkansas, putting much of the blame on his children, stating they do not care for me. Has spent much time here in our home since then, with many unkept promises of moving back. He took a job in Asia 1 year ago and while claims to be working 3 months on and 3 WEEKS off, I just found out that he has not been working all that time and in fact has an asian girlfriend with which he is residing, believed to be in Thailand. yet he will not admit this. He has since let the mortgage get behind, his vehicle was even repossessed this week. Although I have had suspicions of all of this, I confronted him manytimes and it was always denied. I lost my part-time job this week because of emotional upset and inability to work. and have discussed many times about geting a full-time job and each time he simply refuses and says there's no need. the emotional upset is because i had not spoken tohim in 7 days, got suspicious, found internet profiles(facebook, myspace) with many asian female friends, learned he's learning the language, etc. I called the vessel he was supposed to beon and he had left 1 week earlier. learned he had been in bangkok, had lasik eye surgery, then was supposed to fly home on feb. 11th, move home permanently, catch up the mortgage, then on the 11th i got an email from him stating he wasn't coming home. 5 days went by with no word from him, he claimed he had been in jail for hitting the doctor while at his lasik check-up. Now today, 5 more days later, he confesses its over! I have no money, a home that will eventually go into foreclosure, an unfinished degree with student loans to pay, 3 children to support, no means to go to the doctor for some type of help with my upset and nervous situation. His job is a contract position, no taxes withheld, all checks deposited into an Asian bank account, possibley in Singapore. His income averages $150,000 per year. He claims he doesnt have a passport anymore either. I have suspected, but he will not admit to anything and I'm afraid he may be seeking citizenship in an Asian country and am unsure as to whether or not this will make me responsible for all of our shared debt. What are my chances of getting spousal support, at least temporarily? Should I go ahead and file for divorce now? or only tryto seek spousal support and let him show that he is the guilty and abandoning party by waiting for him to file? ***PLEASE***before any snide and hurtful remarks are made, please be aware that the only thing I am guilty for is loving someone who happens to be quite manipulative, hurtful, selfish, quite convincing, and someone whom I have always been able to trust and who I thought was my best friend as well. I am not a stupid person, I am very trusting and have always been an honest person. I am however, obviously a terrible judge of character. This situation has completely turned my world upside down, so please only serious answers from those who have serious educated answers. I do plan to get an attorney, but have to have finances first and am trying to get a sense of what I may be up against. .
Law & Ethics - 1 Answers
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WAY, way, way too long. Shorten this question and you may get more answers to help you.
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Long story...complicated a bit! Please be kind, this is a very emotionally disturbing situation, only serious answers please. I'll try to sum it up... Married in arkansas, resided together in Missouri. Married almost 4 years, I was a single mother of 3 going back to college when we met, and i had my own home. we married, I sold my home, we bought a $300,000+ home together. I had to quit going to college and work full-time because his promise to pay my tuition after we married was not fulfilled. I quit working all together 6 months later at his request because he works away from home and wanted me home when he was not working. June 2007, he moved out and got an apartment in arkansas, putting much of the blame on his children, stating they do not care for me. Has spent much time here in our home since then, with many unkept promises of moving back. He took a job in Asia 1 year ago and while claims to be working 3 months on and 3 WEEKS off, I just found out that he has not been working all that time and in fact has an asian girlfriend with which he is residing, believed to be in Thailand. yet he will not admit this. He has since let the mortgage get behind, his vehicle was even repossessed this week. Although I have had suspicions of all of this, I confronted him manytimes and it was always denied. I lost my part-time job this week because of emotional upset and inability to work. and have discussed many times about geting a full-time job and each time he simply refuses and says there's no need. the emotional upset is because i had not spoken tohim in 7 days, got suspicious, found internet profiles(facebook, myspace) with many asian female friends, learned he's learning the language, etc. I called the vessel he was supposed to beon and he had left 1 week earlier. learned he had been in bangkok, had lasik eye surgery, then was supposed to fly home on feb. 11th, move home permanently, catch up the mortgage, then on the 11th i got an email from him stating he wasn't coming home. 5 days went by with no word from him, he claimed he had been in jail for hitting the doctor while at his lasik check-up. Now today, 5 more days later, he confesses its over! I have no money, a home that will eventually go into foreclosure, an unfinished degree with student loans to pay, 3 children to support, no means to go to the doctor for some type of help with my upset and nervous situation. His job is a contract position, no taxes withheld, all checks deposited into an Asian bank account, possibley in Singapore. His income averages $150,000 per year. He claims he doesnt have a passport anymore either. I have suspected, but he will not admit to anything and I'm afraid he may be seeking citizenship in an Asian country and am unsure as to whether or not this will make me responsible for all of our shared debt. What are my chances of getting spousal support, at least temporarily? Should I go ahead and file for divorce now? or only tryto seek spousal support and let him show that he is the guilty and abandoning party by waiting for him to file? ***PLEASE***before any snide and hurtful remarks are made, please be aware that the only thing I am guilty for is loving someone who happens to be quite manipulative, hurtful, selfish, quite convincing, and someone whom I have always been able to trust and who I thought was my best friend as well. I am not a stupid person, I am very trusting and have always been an honest person. I am however, obviously a terrible judge of character. This situation has completely turned my world upside down, so please only serious answers from those who have serious educated answers. I do plan to get an attorney, but have to have finances first and am trying to get a sense of what I may be up against. .
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WAY, way, way too long. Shorten this question and you may get more answers to help you.
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Sunday, April 14, 2013
Why am I a secret from some people?
Why am I a secret from some people?
I have been seeing a girl for a few months now. We were friends for almost a year before we realized something was there and got more involved. She has a 4 year old son with an ex boyfriend/roommate who she never married. They were on the rocks for years, he cheated several times and texted out nude pics of her to their friends. They broke off their relationship right as we got serious. He knows about me, her son knows me well, and her parents know about me...I know those are the important people, but I have not met one of her friends, and while her facebook says she is in a relationship she won't accept my add to show it's me she is involved with and will not say anything on facebook about dating me. We ran into one her friends recently and they talked and she never introduced me...she claims she wants to let more time pass so people don't think she left her ex for me or something like that, but in the mean time she tells me how much she loves, and has discussed marriage. Would you be a little confused or angry if you were always showing someone off and bragging on them only to be kept secret by her?
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You said all the important people know about you. So why stress over her friends. Maybe she knows how her friends will react and don't want them to hurt you and her relationship. Friends can be devious at times. Don't worry about facebook either, facebook is known to also hurt relationships. As long as she loves you, you love her, and her son and parents accept you, there isn't anything to worry about. Don't base your relationship on her hiding you, because I seriously don't think that is the problem.
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I have been seeing a girl for a few months now. We were friends for almost a year before we realized something was there and got more involved. She has a 4 year old son with an ex boyfriend/roommate who she never married. They were on the rocks for years, he cheated several times and texted out nude pics of her to their friends. They broke off their relationship right as we got serious. He knows about me, her son knows me well, and her parents know about me...I know those are the important people, but I have not met one of her friends, and while her facebook says she is in a relationship she won't accept my add to show it's me she is involved with and will not say anything on facebook about dating me. We ran into one her friends recently and they talked and she never introduced me...she claims she wants to let more time pass so people don't think she left her ex for me or something like that, but in the mean time she tells me how much she loves, and has discussed marriage. Would you be a little confused or angry if you were always showing someone off and bragging on them only to be kept secret by her?
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You said all the important people know about you. So why stress over her friends. Maybe she knows how her friends will react and don't want them to hurt you and her relationship. Friends can be devious at times. Don't worry about facebook either, facebook is known to also hurt relationships. As long as she loves you, you love her, and her son and parents accept you, there isn't anything to worry about. Don't base your relationship on her hiding you, because I seriously don't think that is the problem.
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Sunday, April 7, 2013
Why is neither the left or right reporting this news about the WH crashers and Obama connection?
Why is neither the left or right reporting this news about the WH crashers and Obama connection?
I'm puzzled and I would just like some opinions and what is the angle - I can't figure it out! Why the secret service is investigating itself, the white house is investigating and the couple are not discussing that the husband and Obama worked at the Univ of Chicago together and he worked on Obama's campaign - they know eachother and they act like they've never met! There is no way to link so I'll paste, but here's the original stories: http://canadafreepress.com/index.php/article/17310 http://www.wnd.com/index.php?fa=PAGE.view&pageId=117478 And cut and paste for the rest of you: "Unprecedented†first state dinner in a tent “Party Crashers†had five-year relationship with Obama before state dinner Judi McLeod Bio Print friendly E-mail a friend Contact Us By Judi McLeod Saturday, November 28, 2009 While the big gun media and American Secret Service are out there investigating “party crashers†Tareq and Michaele Salahi, no one’s telling the truth: Obama knew the Salahis when he was still an Illinois senator. Polo Contacts Worldwide could make it easy for the investigating Secret Service by brown-enveloping them this picture: Hey Secret Agent Man, here’s Obama, the senator flashing his pearly whites with Randy Jackson, better known as a judge on American Idol. “Others pictured are Black Eyed Peas Rock Band; Tareq Salahi the President of the America’s Polo Cup; President Elect Obama, Fergie from Black eyed Peas and Michaele Salahi, posing this time as a former Miss USA and SuperModel.†Interesting little detail for White House gumshoes: As the above photo was published in June 2005, Barack Obama was still Senator Obama and not the President Elect. And with Michaele Salahi yesterday having been caught out—Facebook pompoms notwithstanding—as a bogus cheerleader for the Washington Red Skins and not a model for Victoria’s Secret as claimed, Canada Free Press (CFP) leaves it to FoxNews.com to find out if she ever was a “former Miss USAâ€. We do know for a fact that among the slew of memberships on charitable boards, Tareq Salahi is a former member of The American Task Force on Palestine (ATFP). The only way to know for a fact is because even though ATFP scrubbed all references to Salahi as a board member, he can still be found on Google cache. (Canada Free Press) Sad that White House Secret Service are looking like Keystone Kops in the aftermath of Obama’s very first state house dinner in the tent. While the media is fixated on the hitch in Michaele Salahi’s git-along, there can be no doubt that these recently minted “party crashers†really get around. We take you back to June 9, 2005 when Tom Nelson, operating officer of AARP, was summing up the Rock the Vote Awards night. According to the Washington Post “everyone from Sens. John McCain and Barack Obama to “American Idol†judge Randy Jackson and R&B singer Mya gathered in the National Building Museum’s Great Hall: “You were probably wondering, as you sat down at your table, ‘What the heck is the AARP doing in a Rock the Vote Event?’†Nelson noted. Time would soon tell that the AARP would show up in other fishy places. And if there is anyone who must know that this weekend’s party crasher story is a crock it’s John McCain who was at the Vote Awards Night, and who along with Barack Obama, was honored with the Rock the Nation Award, Obama “for forming a multiracial coalition in winning his seatâ€. McCain was handed his award for “his work on campaign finance reformâ€. “Just call me Funk Master McCain,†he told the audience of 1,000 in accepting his award.: (washingtonpost.com, June 9, 2005. Meanwhile, don’t know why Obama’s long time associates possibly could be mistaken for party crashers when they came into the tent with a Bravo Reality TV Show “Real Housewives of DC†professional camera crew and makeup artist in tow unless he was hoping for a Reality gig for wife Michelle, CBS celebrity Katie Couric or Chief of Staff Rahm Emanuel. Obama could end the “party crasher†goose chase for White House Secret Service in a proverbial New York Minute by coming clean on his almost 5-year-old social/political relationship with Tareq and Michaele Salahi. It could save money in these recessionary times and put an end to the drama of Washington’s “unprecedented†first state dinner in a tent WorldNetDaily Exclusive White House 'gatecrashers' tied to terror sympathizer Salahi served in same anti-Israel group as Obama's Palestinian professor pal -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Posted: November 29, 2009 5:12 pm Eastern By Aaron Klein © 2009 WorldNetDaily Rashid Khalidi The Virginia couple who allegedly crashed a White House state dinner is tied to Rashid Khalidi, a pro-Palestinian professor who excuses terrorism and has been a close associate to President Obama. Michaele and Tareq Salahi met Obama in To THINK, I'm truly not slamming anyone, since I don't believe the government of either side! Just confused wondering why.
Politics - 5 Answers
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1 :
Do tell. Somehow, I knew it was Obama's fault.
2 :
They don't want to let people know that Hussein is hanging around muslim terrorists. They were busy talking about Tiger Woods' fire hydrant. Fox News is far from conservative, it's exactly the same as CNN and other liberal news outlets.
3 :
If that is true, then why didn't Obama just come right out and say so? He is such a wishy washy person and does not like to be clear and precise about anything. And libs on answers support him? the Loons following the Loon I guess.
4 :
Headline News reported they were 0bama's coke connection.
5 :
Well if the guy DID know the President from before and said that then it probably helped him get in. But who really cares? What are they supposed to pay the taxpayer back for the shrimp cocktails they ate?
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I'm puzzled and I would just like some opinions and what is the angle - I can't figure it out! Why the secret service is investigating itself, the white house is investigating and the couple are not discussing that the husband and Obama worked at the Univ of Chicago together and he worked on Obama's campaign - they know eachother and they act like they've never met! There is no way to link so I'll paste, but here's the original stories: http://canadafreepress.com/index.php/article/17310 http://www.wnd.com/index.php?fa=PAGE.view&pageId=117478 And cut and paste for the rest of you: "Unprecedented†first state dinner in a tent “Party Crashers†had five-year relationship with Obama before state dinner Judi McLeod Bio Print friendly E-mail a friend Contact Us By Judi McLeod Saturday, November 28, 2009 While the big gun media and American Secret Service are out there investigating “party crashers†Tareq and Michaele Salahi, no one’s telling the truth: Obama knew the Salahis when he was still an Illinois senator. Polo Contacts Worldwide could make it easy for the investigating Secret Service by brown-enveloping them this picture: Hey Secret Agent Man, here’s Obama, the senator flashing his pearly whites with Randy Jackson, better known as a judge on American Idol. “Others pictured are Black Eyed Peas Rock Band; Tareq Salahi the President of the America’s Polo Cup; President Elect Obama, Fergie from Black eyed Peas and Michaele Salahi, posing this time as a former Miss USA and SuperModel.†Interesting little detail for White House gumshoes: As the above photo was published in June 2005, Barack Obama was still Senator Obama and not the President Elect. And with Michaele Salahi yesterday having been caught out—Facebook pompoms notwithstanding—as a bogus cheerleader for the Washington Red Skins and not a model for Victoria’s Secret as claimed, Canada Free Press (CFP) leaves it to FoxNews.com to find out if she ever was a “former Miss USAâ€. We do know for a fact that among the slew of memberships on charitable boards, Tareq Salahi is a former member of The American Task Force on Palestine (ATFP). The only way to know for a fact is because even though ATFP scrubbed all references to Salahi as a board member, he can still be found on Google cache. (Canada Free Press) Sad that White House Secret Service are looking like Keystone Kops in the aftermath of Obama’s very first state house dinner in the tent. While the media is fixated on the hitch in Michaele Salahi’s git-along, there can be no doubt that these recently minted “party crashers†really get around. We take you back to June 9, 2005 when Tom Nelson, operating officer of AARP, was summing up the Rock the Vote Awards night. According to the Washington Post “everyone from Sens. John McCain and Barack Obama to “American Idol†judge Randy Jackson and R&B singer Mya gathered in the National Building Museum’s Great Hall: “You were probably wondering, as you sat down at your table, ‘What the heck is the AARP doing in a Rock the Vote Event?’†Nelson noted. Time would soon tell that the AARP would show up in other fishy places. And if there is anyone who must know that this weekend’s party crasher story is a crock it’s John McCain who was at the Vote Awards Night, and who along with Barack Obama, was honored with the Rock the Nation Award, Obama “for forming a multiracial coalition in winning his seatâ€. McCain was handed his award for “his work on campaign finance reformâ€. “Just call me Funk Master McCain,†he told the audience of 1,000 in accepting his award.: (washingtonpost.com, June 9, 2005. Meanwhile, don’t know why Obama’s long time associates possibly could be mistaken for party crashers when they came into the tent with a Bravo Reality TV Show “Real Housewives of DC†professional camera crew and makeup artist in tow unless he was hoping for a Reality gig for wife Michelle, CBS celebrity Katie Couric or Chief of Staff Rahm Emanuel. Obama could end the “party crasher†goose chase for White House Secret Service in a proverbial New York Minute by coming clean on his almost 5-year-old social/political relationship with Tareq and Michaele Salahi. It could save money in these recessionary times and put an end to the drama of Washington’s “unprecedented†first state dinner in a tent WorldNetDaily Exclusive White House 'gatecrashers' tied to terror sympathizer Salahi served in same anti-Israel group as Obama's Palestinian professor pal -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Posted: November 29, 2009 5:12 pm Eastern By Aaron Klein © 2009 WorldNetDaily Rashid Khalidi The Virginia couple who allegedly crashed a White House state dinner is tied to Rashid Khalidi, a pro-Palestinian professor who excuses terrorism and has been a close associate to President Obama. Michaele and Tareq Salahi met Obama in To THINK, I'm truly not slamming anyone, since I don't believe the government of either side! Just confused wondering why.
Politics - 5 Answers
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1 :
Do tell. Somehow, I knew it was Obama's fault.
2 :
They don't want to let people know that Hussein is hanging around muslim terrorists. They were busy talking about Tiger Woods' fire hydrant. Fox News is far from conservative, it's exactly the same as CNN and other liberal news outlets.
3 :
If that is true, then why didn't Obama just come right out and say so? He is such a wishy washy person and does not like to be clear and precise about anything. And libs on answers support him? the Loons following the Loon I guess.
4 :
Headline News reported they were 0bama's coke connection.
5 :
Well if the guy DID know the President from before and said that then it probably helped him get in. But who really cares? What are they supposed to pay the taxpayer back for the shrimp cocktails they ate?
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Monday, April 1, 2013
Am I sensitive? I hope girls answer me too?
Am I sensitive? I hope girls answer me too?
I know a girl for a while now she is not my girlfriend but my favorite friend, and I know that she likes me a lot, she always texts me for hangouts, I ask/text much less for hangouts because I am shy. Well sometimes when I text her she either texts back late, or doesn’t reply and saying she didn’t receive anything. I don’t think she is lying because I see a lot of good signs from her for liking me her as she invites me for hangouts and tells me to be with her. Few weeks ago she went on training abroad and texted saying I miss you, which make believe she is not lying at all about receiving my texts, and I know that she is a good girl. For Example: Today I was planning to gather with very good friends of us, I texted her saying that "can you join us at that restaurant tonight?" but she didn't reply at all, while yesterday she texted me about "what about a brunch on friday?". Another Example, I texted her after I helped her in a social problem asked her "Do you feel better now after what happened and etc ?" the next few days she said I didn't receive anything. also After week I texted her for a gathering and she replied a bit late. I tried to discuss this issue with people online and specially with those I met today at the restaurant, it appeared that many people suffer from this negative feeling after texting, which is better the not replying. Also I she complains sometimes about her mobile (BlackBerry) for being not good, I even noticed her telling someone on facebook "If I only can get my mobile work properly". So what do you think the problem is? Do you think its normal? Do you think I am sensitive (Many people say that I am sensitive? please tell me anything this girl is my best friend :) Thank you in advance :)
Singles & Dating - 4 Answers
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"Sensitive", screw that. You are who you are. Don't put a label on yourself. You don't have to be a tough guy like all the other dipsh*ts in this society say. Having said that, you are a "friend" guy. This chick likes you as a friend. You will NEVER have sex with her. NEVER. She made up her mind already. There is NOTHING you can do. Please move on for the betterment of yourself. You will NEVER have sex with this girl. She is using you for when she has nothing better to do. Again please move on.
2 :
well i guess her phone could not be working or she could be saying that idku sound a little sensitive but nothing to worry about you seem like a nice caring guy. just go with ur gut
3 :
I have a couple of advice tips for you. 1. Just call her if you want to invite her somewhere, or to do something. Thats more likely gonna go through than a text! I know you might be nervous, but just call her to invite her and then get off the phone...it's simple! 2. If you send a text and she doesn't reply within 5 - 10 minutes then RESEND the text, because sometimes resending texts will make her get the text. My phone does that ALL the time...I don't get a lot of texts, so the people sending it have to resend...or I'll send texts and the other people don't get them unless I resend. But definitely just call her instead, it's better. 3. Stop worrying so much! Im sensitive too, I get told that all the time too, but we just gotta quit worrying about every little thing man. Get a grip lol and don't be so shy...she likes you, you like her...ask her out already! lol I hope the best for ya! Hope ya get the girl =]
4 :
Ask one of her friends if they ever have that happen to them where they text her and she never answers back saying that she never got anything. if your nervous to ask one of her friends then just talk to her tell her your like her and want to be more then best friends. the worst she can say is no. it might change your relationship for a bit but if you guys really are great friends shell realize she loves and misses your company and even if she doesnt want to go out with you shell still be friends with you
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I know a girl for a while now she is not my girlfriend but my favorite friend, and I know that she likes me a lot, she always texts me for hangouts, I ask/text much less for hangouts because I am shy. Well sometimes when I text her she either texts back late, or doesn’t reply and saying she didn’t receive anything. I don’t think she is lying because I see a lot of good signs from her for liking me her as she invites me for hangouts and tells me to be with her. Few weeks ago she went on training abroad and texted saying I miss you, which make believe she is not lying at all about receiving my texts, and I know that she is a good girl. For Example: Today I was planning to gather with very good friends of us, I texted her saying that "can you join us at that restaurant tonight?" but she didn't reply at all, while yesterday she texted me about "what about a brunch on friday?". Another Example, I texted her after I helped her in a social problem asked her "Do you feel better now after what happened and etc ?" the next few days she said I didn't receive anything. also After week I texted her for a gathering and she replied a bit late. I tried to discuss this issue with people online and specially with those I met today at the restaurant, it appeared that many people suffer from this negative feeling after texting, which is better the not replying. Also I she complains sometimes about her mobile (BlackBerry) for being not good, I even noticed her telling someone on facebook "If I only can get my mobile work properly". So what do you think the problem is? Do you think its normal? Do you think I am sensitive (Many people say that I am sensitive? please tell me anything this girl is my best friend :) Thank you in advance :)
Singles & Dating - 4 Answers
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1 :
"Sensitive", screw that. You are who you are. Don't put a label on yourself. You don't have to be a tough guy like all the other dipsh*ts in this society say. Having said that, you are a "friend" guy. This chick likes you as a friend. You will NEVER have sex with her. NEVER. She made up her mind already. There is NOTHING you can do. Please move on for the betterment of yourself. You will NEVER have sex with this girl. She is using you for when she has nothing better to do. Again please move on.
2 :
well i guess her phone could not be working or she could be saying that idku sound a little sensitive but nothing to worry about you seem like a nice caring guy. just go with ur gut
3 :
I have a couple of advice tips for you. 1. Just call her if you want to invite her somewhere, or to do something. Thats more likely gonna go through than a text! I know you might be nervous, but just call her to invite her and then get off the phone...it's simple! 2. If you send a text and she doesn't reply within 5 - 10 minutes then RESEND the text, because sometimes resending texts will make her get the text. My phone does that ALL the time...I don't get a lot of texts, so the people sending it have to resend...or I'll send texts and the other people don't get them unless I resend. But definitely just call her instead, it's better. 3. Stop worrying so much! Im sensitive too, I get told that all the time too, but we just gotta quit worrying about every little thing man. Get a grip lol and don't be so shy...she likes you, you like her...ask her out already! lol I hope the best for ya! Hope ya get the girl =]
4 :
Ask one of her friends if they ever have that happen to them where they text her and she never answers back saying that she never got anything. if your nervous to ask one of her friends then just talk to her tell her your like her and want to be more then best friends. the worst she can say is no. it might change your relationship for a bit but if you guys really are great friends shell realize she loves and misses your company and even if she doesnt want to go out with you shell still be friends with you
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