Am I sensitive? I hope girls answer me too?
I know a girl for a while now she is not my girlfriend but my favorite friend, and I know that she likes me a lot, she always texts me for hangouts, I ask/text much less for hangouts because I am shy. Well sometimes when I text her she either texts back late, or doesn’t reply and saying she didn’t receive anything. I don’t think she is lying because I see a lot of good signs from her for liking me her as she invites me for hangouts and tells me to be with her. Few weeks ago she went on training abroad and texted saying I miss you, which make believe she is not lying at all about receiving my texts, and I know that she is a good girl. For Example: Today I was planning to gather with very good friends of us, I texted her saying that "can you join us at that restaurant tonight?" but she didn't reply at all, while yesterday she texted me about "what about a brunch on friday?". Another Example, I texted her after I helped her in a social problem asked her "Do you feel better now after what happened and etc ?" the next few days she said I didn't receive anything. also After week I texted her for a gathering and she replied a bit late. I tried to discuss this issue with people online and specially with those I met today at the restaurant, it appeared that many people suffer from this negative feeling after texting, which is better the not replying. Also I she complains sometimes about her mobile (BlackBerry) for being not good, I even noticed her telling someone on facebook "If I only can get my mobile work properly". So what do you think the problem is? Do you think its normal? Do you think I am sensitive (Many people say that I am sensitive? please tell me anything this girl is my best friend :) Thank you in advance :)
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1 :
"Sensitive", screw that. You are who you are. Don't put a label on yourself. You don't have to be a tough guy like all the other dipsh*ts in this society say. Having said that, you are a "friend" guy. This chick likes you as a friend. You will NEVER have sex with her. NEVER. She made up her mind already. There is NOTHING you can do. Please move on for the betterment of yourself. You will NEVER have sex with this girl. She is using you for when she has nothing better to do. Again please move on.
2 :
well i guess her phone could not be working or she could be saying that idku sound a little sensitive but nothing to worry about you seem like a nice caring guy. just go with ur gut
3 :
I have a couple of advice tips for you. 1. Just call her if you want to invite her somewhere, or to do something. Thats more likely gonna go through than a text! I know you might be nervous, but just call her to invite her and then get off the phone...it's simple! 2. If you send a text and she doesn't reply within 5 - 10 minutes then RESEND the text, because sometimes resending texts will make her get the text. My phone does that ALL the time...I don't get a lot of texts, so the people sending it have to resend...or I'll send texts and the other people don't get them unless I resend. But definitely just call her instead, it's better. 3. Stop worrying so much! Im sensitive too, I get told that all the time too, but we just gotta quit worrying about every little thing man. Get a grip lol and don't be so shy...she likes you, you like her...ask her out already! lol I hope the best for ya! Hope ya get the girl =]
4 :
Ask one of her friends if they ever have that happen to them where they text her and she never answers back saying that she never got anything. if your nervous to ask one of her friends then just talk to her tell her your like her and want to be more then best friends. the worst she can say is no. it might change your relationship for a bit but if you guys really are great friends shell realize she loves and misses your company and even if she doesnt want to go out with you shell still be friends with you
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