My friend blocked me on facebook for no reason at all??? please read?
So yesterday i was updating my wedding website to include my cousin who I asked to be a bridesmaid, and i went to get her picture off of facebook to add with a discription and i found she had blocked me, and i was shocked because i hadn't done anything to her. I asked her sister to check and she was still included on her friends list and so were a few other people. I had talked to her a few days ago and we were fine. I had even sent her a blackberry curve under the understand she would pay me on the 25th for the phone, anyways her sister came to stay at my place friday night and went out saturday night, I found out friday she had suffered a miscarriage *she has two older kids*, anyways i offered my moral support and stuff, but for no reason at all i see she was bad mouthing me to her sister and her sister told me all the things she says about me, I was quited shocked because she always so nice to me but she has been knowen to fib and talked trash about her own family so as shocked as i am i am not suprised. (anyways before people go well she had a miscarriage who cares about a phone i know its just a phone but we made an agreement that also cost me 600.00 dollars, and i basically gave it away,)\ so her sister messaged her and asked if she is not going to pay for thphone to please send it back to me she messages back i did not get the phone, and then she started on this rant about her sister being selfish and that she was being mean, and that she was not offering her moral support when she was we all were and then told her she waso nly being this way because she was with Amanda the fking btch, i was shocked because i truly have done nothing to provoce her in anyway, i know that her husbands family is very controlling and in her head she thinks she is friends with good charlotte *no joke she tells me all the time* and she really has an amazing imagination, and i understand miscarring can be a tramatic event but why take it out on me and, for another thing could she be jealous that i am getting married and have support her, she has no one where she is but could jealouy really act so out of character when i tried to call her to discuss these things she hangs up on me before she says anything, please advice form mature adults
Friends - 5 Answers
Random Answers, Critics, Comments, Opinions :
1 :
She might have thought that you don't want her to be your bridesmaid. She could have got the wrong idea.
2 :
Leave her alone. Whether she has a miscarriage or not,she shows her true feelings toward you. You can be nice and polite around her but stop having any kind of personal and deep relationship with her. She will hurt you again becauseshedon't really like you. Jealousy, envy, difference, misunderstanding, whatever it is be sorry for her and move on. This happened to me too and I just moved on and it is way better. A friend who I confided in one really bad day,went to a family member and told on me... That family member wrecked theall family and never told her what she was told. Problems occured for a year...in the end,we reconciled and that person will face the truth of her badmouthing one day. Be where love,honesty and good people are...leavethe rest alone!
3 :
It sounds like high school drama. YOu just need to let her be angry at someone else because it is going to be your big day and she is trying to get empathy. Just let her work it out. If she doesn't, just confront her about it with a little support.
4 :
ok so i think that she might be jealous of you getting married. but i think shes really heart-broken that she had a miscarriage.It takes time for her to heal, so what you should have done would have been to give her time to heal id say about a month, then talk to her. Shes also probably jealous that you can get pregnant and not her.
5 :
Well just leave her be it's obvious she doesn't want to talk to you so ya and if keep tryin to talk to her wen she's already pissed at u ur going to make her have a bf=bitch flip.
Read more other entries :
