Why am I a secret from some people?
I have been seeing a girl for a few months now. We were friends for almost a year before we realized something was there and got more involved. She has a 4 year old son with an ex boyfriend/roommate who she never married. They were on the rocks for years, he cheated several times and texted out nude pics of her to their friends. They broke off their relationship right as we got serious. He knows about me, her son knows me well, and her parents know about me...I know those are the important people, but I have not met one of her friends, and while her facebook says she is in a relationship she won't accept my add to show it's me she is involved with and will not say anything on facebook about dating me. We ran into one her friends recently and they talked and she never introduced me...she claims she wants to let more time pass so people don't think she left her ex for me or something like that, but in the mean time she tells me how much she loves, and has discussed marriage. Would you be a little confused or angry if you were always showing someone off and bragging on them only to be kept secret by her?
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You said all the important people know about you. So why stress over her friends. Maybe she knows how her friends will react and don't want them to hurt you and her relationship. Friends can be devious at times. Don't worry about facebook either, facebook is known to also hurt relationships. As long as she loves you, you love her, and her son and parents accept you, there isn't anything to worry about. Don't base your relationship on her hiding you, because I seriously don't think that is the problem.
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