when will he contact me again?!!?
i've been friends with one of my girlfriends for about 7 years now. I met her cousin about 6 months after we became friends. he's a really sweet guy and made it very obvious that he liked me but at the time I was married so I told him we could be friends only. we text messaged and emailed each other alot. we lost contact about 4 years ago when he moved to california for the army. I divorced my then husband shortly after we lost touch. he found my on facebook tuesday morning and emailed me to say hi, it had been awhile and he'd love to hang out sometime. he asked me where I was living,working,etc. we ended up exchaging numbers/email addresses. 30 seconds after I gave him my number, he signed off facebook and started texting me. we both found out we're both single and he now lives about 45 mins away from me. we had great converstion via text messaging for about an hour and half then we both had to go (he was at college and I needed to sleep to work night shift). he told me things like: -you are still absolutely gorgeous, corny I know but had to throw it out there b/c it's true -i'm so glad we got back in touch -god, there is something about you that I absolutely love (besides you being sexy)-when i said that was probably the ONLY thing-he told me seriously it's not-there is something about you that mesmorizes me. -I love how well we get along (this was after talking for an hour) -sweet dreams beautiful (this was the last thing he texted me) and I told him I'd talk to him soon we made plans to get together soon to play poker w/a few of his friends and his cousin (my girlfriend)-his suggestion. no exact date was discussed. I haven't heard from him since and i'm just wondering when he'll contact me again. I don't want to contact him b/c I don't want to see overzealous or clingy. plus, I think me being a little hard to get is a good thing (he's the type of guy that likes the chase). we got along really well when we first met-it was painfully obvious the attraction between us no matter how hard we tried to hide it. But b/c I was married at the time, I didn't want to let things go any further than the playful flirting we did. my friend's family and friends could even tell we liked each other and gave us both a hard time about it (playfully). our birthdays are 2 days apart so I know we're quite compatible personality wise. so when do you think he'll contact me again? he told me I could text or email him anytime and I told him to do the same. he was the one that came after me and initiated all of this so I don't think he'd go to that extent just to ignore me again.. thoughts?!! sorry if I seem hyper about this but I'm dying to talk to him again but I know I'll come off clingy so I'm letting him call/text first!! thanks all
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he initiated everything; so shouldnt it be your turn? i just scanned your story; but it depends on how long you've waited for hiim to talk to you 1-2 days, then it's okay for you to go for it and if he's really into you and not a player; then he'd be ecstatic (:
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