Do I Have A Right To Be Angry at My Ex?
What should I do? My boyfriend lied to me and deeply hurt me! my boyfriend and i were on a break. he didnt call me for three weeks (he was at academic camp and needed to focus). i finally told him maybe we should just be friends. he got upset, asked if there was another guy, and said he still liked me. so i said fine but things needed to change. he said ok and asked if we were good. i said we were. today i log onto facebook and see a message from him. it's addressed to about 15 people and says he will not be coming back to my high school next year and that he is going to boarding school. he did not have the decency to tell me. i texted him, upset, and he said sorry i only told my best friend, (who is a girl by the way). i said sorry was ok when he canceled dates (he did that a lot) or when he didn't call. this was not sorry. how could he have falled to mention this? i am very hurt. we were friends for 2 years before we started dating and suddenly i'm his girlfriend and i'm part of the other people catagory. he said he'd call later. while we were friends i was always there for him. i'm a caring person. i dodn't know what to. he was my first real boyfriend. he wants to be friends, but i don't trust him and i have lost respect for him. i told him last night i thought he acted like a jerk in the scenario. he said he wasn't and promised to call tonight to discuss it. i don't see the point. when would we see each other as friends? i'm ready to move on. if he calls (which he prob won't) what do i say? but mostly, am i right to be upset? everyone else is happy for him but i can't help but be incredibly angry.
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hes a jerk. no, really. u have the right to be angry.. and if he calls.. well.. be normal, but not overly friendly nor hostile. if your overly friendly it seems ur trying to suck up and if ur angry it only shows u still care a great lot. So, in otherwords be nice and wish him luck at his new school (he'll need it with his personality) to let him know indirectly you're over him and you will NOT be totally hungover and turn into a friends with benefit. If you want to forget about him.. i recommend you to stop all contact because time fades things like this away and tell him dw about calling u everynight cos u'll be busy.. painting ur nails. He'll get the point.. haha goodluck
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