From a guy's point of view, was this a ploy to get in my pants?
This guy that I went to high school with found me on myspace, added me as a friend, then sent me a message saying, "Always wanted to talk to you in high school, but was too shy." I was shocked because I had no idea he even knew who I was. We didn't know each other back then and never talked. He kept wanting to get together, but I never said anything. Then I found out he was leaving that states to go overseas for a job, so I finally gave him my number. We went out, had dinner. Then the week after he texted me saying he as "horny." I texted back and said, "Me too." So, we had sex the second time we got together. The night before he left the states, he texted me again and asked me if I wanted to go down on him, I said I couldn't and that was that. He said that I could visit him and when he got back we could "discuss" it. I was keeping in touch with him on facebook and I was writing to him saying stuff how much I missed him, how are you, etc, etc. He said that he missed me too. At first he replied to my messages, then he stopped writing. Then as a joke I wrote him a comment on his page and said, "Where's your woman?" He got pissed and deleted me. I apologized and wouldn't take it back. Later he said the reason he deleted me was because I was being obsessive and posessive and everything that I've written to him proves that theory. I just wrote him messages that I missed him, happy holidays, if he liked the pictures that I posted. It wasn't like him to just cut me off like that. I found out that he got married last month. I had no idea he was seeing someone. He could've at least told me he was in a relationship, then I would've stopped writing. Guys, what do you think about this? Did just use me?
Singles & Dating - 7 Answers
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1 :
I've only read the first sentence and that's all I have to read to know that guy just totally used you.
2 :
Used you.
3 :
Get a grip, grow up, and think about whether any guy respects any girls with morals like yours.
4 :
What females need to understand is if a guy tries to get sexual with you before you date him then yes he is using you. if you like a guy and want to date then dont give it up until you know thats not all he wants.
5 :
unfortunately, yes i do think he used you. i'm so sorry hun. learn from your mistake and move on from him. he's a dead end. good luck!
6 :
Why are you banging guys you barely know on the 2nd date, that was your very first and huge mistake...It's nice when they tell you sweet things but just because you're both horny doesn't mean you have to have sex with a guy who says i wish i could have spoke to you when i was in high school. He used you and cheated on his hidden gf. What a great guy......
7 :
Yes...he used you...but you gave it up on the 2nd date...so..I think it all balances out. Just let it go, and learn not to drop your panties so early in a relationship, if you're gonna feel bad about it afterwards.
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