What should I do about my relationship?
I have been with my girlfriend for about 13 months now. We met each other online (not through a dating site, just happened to be fans of a subject, talked on aim, then on facebook, then texting, then calling, then we finally met, one of those once in a life time things) and I was attending a college in Indiana and she was in a college in Wisconsin. We both wanted to be together, and I finally decided to transfer schools to her school in Wisconsin. It went fine and everything, however the school ended up being more costly than I thought, and I will have to return to my much much more grant friendly school this fall in Indiana. She is going to return to her college in Wisconsin. First, the plan was for her to stay in Wisconsin during summer, work, and save up some money, and transfer to my school in Indiana. However they told her she is a few credits short of transferring so she has to go back to Wisconsin. So she has stayed with me in Indiana at my home for the summer, and we have been really sad and stressing out about what we should do. We both truly love each other and feel that even if we were apart from each other that we would still want to be together. First she was just going to go back to Wisconsin for the few credits and still come to my school but now she is questioning that and may end up just staying in her state for her schooling. She is a sophomore and I'm a junior. It's really depressing to be apart from her and I don't know what to do. We had a bit of a flare up the other night about being so sad about being a part for the first time in our relationship we actually discussed if we should break up so were not sad apart from each other but that got thrown down. Any and all feedback is really appreciated. I am just at a loss for what to do. Thanks.
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Thats just part of it man. If you're really comitted and love eachother then nothing can or will break you apart unless thats what you want and think would be best. The fact is your not the only ones going through this, theres many people with issues like that due to military,college, work, etc. As said if you're truly comitted theres nothing to worry about. One day when you're both out of college and doing well in life you'll be very thankful that you decided to stay together. This time you 2 are seperated because of college is a very very short time compared to the life you will be together. Think of it this way, you have married couples being seperated for years years due to military. this is a very common thing, if they're making it for years and years apart why wouldnt you be able to make it for your short time? You really are a lot better off than many other relationships out there even though it does suck and seems like forever.
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