friend advice, help please 10 points!?
***this might be a bit long but 10 points for whoever answers the best*** okay, so in like 5 weeks im going on a 7 day cruise that my parents got me for my birthday, and they purchased 2 tickets so i can take a friend. like 10 weeks ago i asked stacie, my best friend of 10+ years if she wanted to go (of course she said yes, because EVERYTHING is 100% free to her.) well, like 1-2 weeks after we discussed it, she invited me to go to las vegas with her for 2 days (friday and saturday, she asked me on wednesday) and i told her i cant friday, but what about saturday and sunday instead, well she agreed and was like yeah i can do that, were gonna have so much fun yada yada. well on friday i get home from work, and i see on her facebook "having a blast in las vegas with krista!" so of course im pissed off, and rightfully so(at least in my mind), so after she got back i confronted her about it, and she was like "sorry but i didnt want to wait" or something like that, and we got into a big argument because i didnt make any plans that weekend and stuff. well we didnt talk for awhile, and i wasn't about to talk to her until she apologized because she hadn't, and after like 2 weeks i asked my other good friend kendra if she wanted to go on the cruise with me, and she said yes. a few days later i talked to kendra about it again and she still was going, then a few days later i talked to stacie and she apologized, but i didnt mention the cruise (because i want to take kendra), and i talked to kendra today because she still was making sure were going and i told her yes. im afraid stacie is going to be p!ssed when she finds out im going with kendra, and i dont wanna fight with her again, because she is my best friend ever. so IDK what to do, im taking kendra and not stacie, but IDK! HELP!
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1 :
Tell kendra there was a change of plains and its now cancelled and your moms in the hospitle... Than take staci!
2 :
yu shuld explain whut happened with stacie to kendra.. That is , if yu change yur mind to take stacie. If yu really wanna take kendra.. then shell be mad, obviously.. but hopefully shell understand?..
3 :
Okay what I would do is, Talk to Stacie. Ask her about Vegas. Then tell her your sorry you were asking her to wait and you really don't want to fight. Then say, well I'm thinking about taking kendra on the cruise. I know I asked you but when you took ( BLANK ) to vegas I knida asked kendra. I hope everything works out!
4 :
just explain it to her if she fights with you. if stacie is really your friend she will understand.
5 :
Just tell her that you're sorry but you got pissed and invited someone else and you can't tell kendra that you're taking her. Oh and be like you dont want to fight again. Basically, what you just said in this question :D. Have fun! ~Nikki
6 :
Just explain the situation to her and how devastated you were when you found out that she went to Vegas without you. That'll for sure get her to apologize & I'm positive that she'll understand:) & I hope you have funnn on your cruise:)
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