when do you think he'll contact me again?!!?
i've been friends with one of my girlfriends for about 7 years now. I met her cousin about 6 months after we became friends. he's a really sweet guy and made it very obvious that he liked me but at the time I was married so I told him we could be friends only. we text messaged and emailed each other alot. we lost contact about 4 years ago when he moved to california for the army. I divorced my then husband shortly after we lost touch. he found my on facebook tuesday morning and emailed me to say hi, it had been awhile and he'd love to hang out sometime. he asked me where I was living,working,etc. we ended up exchaging numbers/email addresses. 30 seconds after I gave him my number, he signed off facebook and started texting me. we both found out we're both single and he now lives about 45 mins away from me. we had great converstion via text messaging for about an hour and half then we both had to go (he was at college and I needed to sleep to work night shift). he told me things like: -you are still absolutely gorgeous, corny I know but had to throw it out there b/c it's true -i'm so glad we got back in touch -god, there is something about you that I absolutely love (besides you being sexy)-when i said that was probably the ONLY thing-he told me seriously it's not-there is something about you that mesmorizes me. -I love how well we get along (this was after talking for an hour) -sweet dreams beautiful (this was the last thing he texted me) and I told him I'd talk to him soon we made plans to get together soon to play poker w/a few of his friends and his cousin (my girlfriend)-his suggestion. no exact date was discussed. I haven't heard from him since and i'm just wondering when he'll contact me again. I don't want to contact him b/c I don't want to see overzealous or clingy. plus, I think me being a little hard to get is a good thing (he's the type of guy that likes the chase). we got along really well when we first met-it was painfully obvious the attraction between us no matter how hard we tried to hide it. But b/c I was married at the time, I didn't want to let things go any further than the playful flirting we did. my friend's family and friends could even tell we liked each other and gave us both a hard time about it (playfully). our birthdays are 2 days apart so I know we're quite compatible personality wise. so when do you think he'll contact me again? he told me I could text or email him anytime and I told him to do the same... thoughts?!! sorry if I seem hyper about this but I'm dying to talk to him again but I know I'll come off clingy so I'm letting him call/text first!! thanks all
Marriage & Divorce - 1 Answers
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Give him a week of no contact. Then contact him yourself. If he blows you off then, you will know he was only blowing smoke up your butt.
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Sunday, November 28, 2010
Sunday, November 14, 2010
when will he contact me again?!!?
when will he contact me again?!!?
i've been friends with one of my girlfriends for about 7 years now. I met her cousin about 6 months after we became friends. he's a really sweet guy and made it very obvious that he liked me but at the time I was married so I told him we could be friends only. we text messaged and emailed each other alot. we lost contact about 4 years ago when he moved to california for the army. I divorced my then husband shortly after we lost touch. he found my on facebook tuesday morning and emailed me to say hi, it had been awhile and he'd love to hang out sometime. he asked me where I was living,working,etc. we ended up exchaging numbers/email addresses. 30 seconds after I gave him my number, he signed off facebook and started texting me. we both found out we're both single and he now lives about 45 mins away from me. we had great converstion via text messaging for about an hour and half then we both had to go (he was at college and I needed to sleep to work night shift). he told me things like: -you are still absolutely gorgeous, corny I know but had to throw it out there b/c it's true -i'm so glad we got back in touch -god, there is something about you that I absolutely love (besides you being sexy)-when i said that was probably the ONLY thing-he told me seriously it's not-there is something about you that mesmorizes me. -I love how well we get along (this was after talking for an hour) -sweet dreams beautiful (this was the last thing he texted me) and I told him I'd talk to him soon we made plans to get together soon to play poker w/a few of his friends and his cousin (my girlfriend)-his suggestion. no exact date was discussed. I haven't heard from him since and i'm just wondering when he'll contact me again. I don't want to contact him b/c I don't want to see overzealous or clingy. plus, I think me being a little hard to get is a good thing (he's the type of guy that likes the chase). we got along really well when we first met-it was painfully obvious the attraction between us no matter how hard we tried to hide it. But b/c I was married at the time, I didn't want to let things go any further than the playful flirting we did. my friend's family and friends could even tell we liked each other and gave us both a hard time about it (playfully). our birthdays are 2 days apart so I know we're quite compatible personality wise. so when do you think he'll contact me again? he told me I could text or email him anytime and I told him to do the same. he was the one that came after me and initiated all of this so I don't think he'd go to that extent just to ignore me again.. thoughts?!! sorry if I seem hyper about this but I'm dying to talk to him again but I know I'll come off clingy so I'm letting him call/text first!! thanks all
Singles & Dating - 1 Answers
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he initiated everything; so shouldnt it be your turn? i just scanned your story; but it depends on how long you've waited for hiim to talk to you 1-2 days, then it's okay for you to go for it and if he's really into you and not a player; then he'd be ecstatic (:
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i've been friends with one of my girlfriends for about 7 years now. I met her cousin about 6 months after we became friends. he's a really sweet guy and made it very obvious that he liked me but at the time I was married so I told him we could be friends only. we text messaged and emailed each other alot. we lost contact about 4 years ago when he moved to california for the army. I divorced my then husband shortly after we lost touch. he found my on facebook tuesday morning and emailed me to say hi, it had been awhile and he'd love to hang out sometime. he asked me where I was living,working,etc. we ended up exchaging numbers/email addresses. 30 seconds after I gave him my number, he signed off facebook and started texting me. we both found out we're both single and he now lives about 45 mins away from me. we had great converstion via text messaging for about an hour and half then we both had to go (he was at college and I needed to sleep to work night shift). he told me things like: -you are still absolutely gorgeous, corny I know but had to throw it out there b/c it's true -i'm so glad we got back in touch -god, there is something about you that I absolutely love (besides you being sexy)-when i said that was probably the ONLY thing-he told me seriously it's not-there is something about you that mesmorizes me. -I love how well we get along (this was after talking for an hour) -sweet dreams beautiful (this was the last thing he texted me) and I told him I'd talk to him soon we made plans to get together soon to play poker w/a few of his friends and his cousin (my girlfriend)-his suggestion. no exact date was discussed. I haven't heard from him since and i'm just wondering when he'll contact me again. I don't want to contact him b/c I don't want to see overzealous or clingy. plus, I think me being a little hard to get is a good thing (he's the type of guy that likes the chase). we got along really well when we first met-it was painfully obvious the attraction between us no matter how hard we tried to hide it. But b/c I was married at the time, I didn't want to let things go any further than the playful flirting we did. my friend's family and friends could even tell we liked each other and gave us both a hard time about it (playfully). our birthdays are 2 days apart so I know we're quite compatible personality wise. so when do you think he'll contact me again? he told me I could text or email him anytime and I told him to do the same. he was the one that came after me and initiated all of this so I don't think he'd go to that extent just to ignore me again.. thoughts?!! sorry if I seem hyper about this but I'm dying to talk to him again but I know I'll come off clingy so I'm letting him call/text first!! thanks all
Singles & Dating - 1 Answers
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he initiated everything; so shouldnt it be your turn? i just scanned your story; but it depends on how long you've waited for hiim to talk to you 1-2 days, then it's okay for you to go for it and if he's really into you and not a player; then he'd be ecstatic (:
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Sunday, November 7, 2010
please more answers-when will I hear from him again?!!?
please more answers-when will I hear from him again?!!?
i've been friends with one of my girlfriends for about 7 years now. I met her cousin about 6 months after we became friends. he's a really sweet guy and made it very obvious that he liked me but at the time I was married so I told him we could be friends only. we text messaged and emailed each other alot. we lost contact about 4 years ago when he moved to california for the army. I divorced my then husband shortly after we lost touch. he found my on facebook tuesday morning and emailed me to say hi, it had been awhile and he'd love to hang out sometime. he asked me where I was living,working,etc. we ended up exchaging numbers/email addresses. 30 seconds after I gave him my number, he signed off facebook and started texting me. we both found out we're both single and he now lives about 45 mins away from me. we had great converstion via text messaging for about an hour and half then we both had to go (he was at college and I needed to sleep to work night shift). he told me things like: -you are still absolutely gorgeous, corny I know but had to throw it out there b/c it's true -i'm so glad we got back in touch -god, there is something about you that I absolutely love (besides you being sexy)-when i said that was probably the ONLY thing-he told me seriously it's not-there is something about you that mesmorizes me. -I love how well we get along (this was after talking for an hour) -sweet dreams beautiful (this was the last thing he texted me) and I told him I'd talk to him soon we made plans to get together soon to play poker w/a few of his friends and his cousin (my girlfriend)-his suggestion. no exact date was discussed. I haven't heard from him since and i'm just wondering when he'll contact me again. I don't want to contact him b/c I don't want to see overzealous or clingy. plus, I think me being a little hard to get is a good thing (he's the type of guy that likes the chase). we got along really well when we first met-it was painfully obvious the attraction between us no matter how hard we tried to hide it. But b/c I was married at the time, I didn't want to let things go any further than the playful flirting we did. my friend's family and friends could even tell we liked each other and gave us both a hard time about it (playfully). our birthdays are 2 days apart so I know we're quite compatible personality wise. i'm 2 years older (i'm 30, he's 28) so when do you think he'll contact me again? he told me I could text or email him anytime and I told him to do the same. he was the one that came after me and initiated all of this so I don't think he'd go to that extent just to ignore me again.. thoughts?!! sorry if I seem hyper about this but I'm dying to talk to him again but I know I'll come off clingy so I'm letting him call/text first!! thanks all
Marriage & Divorce - 2 Answers
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He will call you when the moon turns blue.
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Personally, I would just move on from all of this. Yes, it was flattering at the time but people change over the years and we don't always know them like we think we do. If this guy was truly interested in you, then this guy would've wanted to take you out somewhere special where he could be alone with you and visit with you in person. Living 45 minutes away is not that far to drive in order to get together with someone you care about or want to see again. I don't call that "nervous". I call that "chickening out". You are right not to come across as clingy. I would keep things to the texting or phoning each other once in awhile but I wouldn't expect much more than that from this relationship. This guy is just not interested at this time in the way you would like to hope he is or he would make more of an effort to see you in person and do it sooner than later. Believe me, I've heard all those words from a guy too and I think it's just a bunch of crap in the heat of the excitement of meeting up again online. It's not a trap I've chosen to fall into. Take pride in who you are and realize what's more important...yourself or waiting around for this guy who may never commit. :)
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i've been friends with one of my girlfriends for about 7 years now. I met her cousin about 6 months after we became friends. he's a really sweet guy and made it very obvious that he liked me but at the time I was married so I told him we could be friends only. we text messaged and emailed each other alot. we lost contact about 4 years ago when he moved to california for the army. I divorced my then husband shortly after we lost touch. he found my on facebook tuesday morning and emailed me to say hi, it had been awhile and he'd love to hang out sometime. he asked me where I was living,working,etc. we ended up exchaging numbers/email addresses. 30 seconds after I gave him my number, he signed off facebook and started texting me. we both found out we're both single and he now lives about 45 mins away from me. we had great converstion via text messaging for about an hour and half then we both had to go (he was at college and I needed to sleep to work night shift). he told me things like: -you are still absolutely gorgeous, corny I know but had to throw it out there b/c it's true -i'm so glad we got back in touch -god, there is something about you that I absolutely love (besides you being sexy)-when i said that was probably the ONLY thing-he told me seriously it's not-there is something about you that mesmorizes me. -I love how well we get along (this was after talking for an hour) -sweet dreams beautiful (this was the last thing he texted me) and I told him I'd talk to him soon we made plans to get together soon to play poker w/a few of his friends and his cousin (my girlfriend)-his suggestion. no exact date was discussed. I haven't heard from him since and i'm just wondering when he'll contact me again. I don't want to contact him b/c I don't want to see overzealous or clingy. plus, I think me being a little hard to get is a good thing (he's the type of guy that likes the chase). we got along really well when we first met-it was painfully obvious the attraction between us no matter how hard we tried to hide it. But b/c I was married at the time, I didn't want to let things go any further than the playful flirting we did. my friend's family and friends could even tell we liked each other and gave us both a hard time about it (playfully). our birthdays are 2 days apart so I know we're quite compatible personality wise. i'm 2 years older (i'm 30, he's 28) so when do you think he'll contact me again? he told me I could text or email him anytime and I told him to do the same. he was the one that came after me and initiated all of this so I don't think he'd go to that extent just to ignore me again.. thoughts?!! sorry if I seem hyper about this but I'm dying to talk to him again but I know I'll come off clingy so I'm letting him call/text first!! thanks all
Marriage & Divorce - 2 Answers
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He will call you when the moon turns blue.
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Personally, I would just move on from all of this. Yes, it was flattering at the time but people change over the years and we don't always know them like we think we do. If this guy was truly interested in you, then this guy would've wanted to take you out somewhere special where he could be alone with you and visit with you in person. Living 45 minutes away is not that far to drive in order to get together with someone you care about or want to see again. I don't call that "nervous". I call that "chickening out". You are right not to come across as clingy. I would keep things to the texting or phoning each other once in awhile but I wouldn't expect much more than that from this relationship. This guy is just not interested at this time in the way you would like to hope he is or he would make more of an effort to see you in person and do it sooner than later. Believe me, I've heard all those words from a guy too and I think it's just a bunch of crap in the heat of the excitement of meeting up again online. It's not a trap I've chosen to fall into. Take pride in who you are and realize what's more important...yourself or waiting around for this guy who may never commit. :)
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Monday, November 1, 2010
What do you think of these comments on Christian forum "Rapture Ready"?
What do you think of these comments on Christian forum "Rapture Ready"?
http://rr-bb.com/showthread.php?151193-Christian-woman-sentenced-to-death-in-Pakistan-for-alleged-quot-blasphemy-quot-against-Mohammad&p=1965543#post1965543 (in discussing blasphemy laws in Pakistan) How ironic that the Left would love to have such a blasphemy law passed against Christians to keep them from speaking the truth about homosexuality, abortion, etc, the gods of the Left. They're caught in a conundrum because they have a fetish for Islam because they want to use it against us, yet it happens to be the most oppressive, violent, and anti-Left religion out there. They will fight to put some make-up on Islam to make it appear more tolerable so that it can expand and gain a better stranglehold in the West, but at the same time it is going to turn on them and do them in. Meanwhile, the Left wants to put us, the only ones who understand the real danger of Islam, in a very similar choke-hold of their own. Truly darkened minds and deceived by their lusts. == http://rr-bb.com/showthread.php?151041-Victims-of-the-bully They are laying a groundwork for persecuting Christians. As a mentally ill individual who has battled suicide, I can assure you depression is 100% responsible for suicide. Not bullying. I have been bullied this year, after refusing sexual advances. Am I sucidal? No. I dread going into work sometimes, I avoid him if at all possible, but I'm not killing myself over it. The media is trying to build a foundation: Christianity is hate speech (Bible verses protesting homosexuality); "Hate speech" is bullying. Bullying causes suicide (NOT TRUE). Ergo, Christian beliefs, when expressed, lead to suicide. We have to restrict this! I can see it VERY clearly. It's not about bullying at all; it's about taking away our rights to speak of Jesus and the Bible. Mark my words on this. == http://rr-bb.com/showthread.php?149133-Use-Facebook&p=1946245#post1946245 Facebook has brought more harm to my family in recent history than anything I can recall. Because of it my nephew is getting divorced. My oldest daughter is not speaking to me after I called her out over some questionable posts. My nephew's lawyer told my sister that in a recent consensus of lawyers, Facebook had played a role in 8 out of 10 divorce cases. Just this week Facebook announced their support of gay rights, stating "They were going to take an aggressive stance against Hate Speach". Thus they basically announced the censorship of christian messages and posts is going to increase. Therefore "I Believe" it is an agent of satan and his world. == http://rr-bb.com/showthread.php?150556-Left-Coast-Status-Quo-in-Election/page2 [Re: How could Democrats have won in California?] My daughter was near inconsolable and kept saying, "I don't understand", "I don't understand". I did, all to readily. I explained t her about darkness, spritual blindness, evil, stuff she already knows. But she kept shaking her head on how so many people could be SO blind as to not see what the progressive/left/demos/etc. are up to. I told her that Massachusetts, Nevada, and CA are still dark states and will continue to cling to their darkness. == http://rr-bb.com/showthread.php?148084-Post-Rapture-%28Atheist%29-Survival-Guide&p=1933906#post1933906 Post Rapture (Atheist) Survival Guide You guys will NEVER believe this!! I posted this thread first on the City-Data religious section of the forum for Atheist and other nonbelievers just a few minutes ago. It is a survival guide for Atheist who have rejected God and will be left behind. It's by Kurt Seland. Not less than 5 minutes after posting it up, it was subsequently deleted (I believe an Atheist reported me) and I received an infraction (temporary ban) from the City-Data forums for copyright infringement!! Wow!! But we all know what the REAL reason was! Here is my thread! EDIT: Deleted the thread. Wow I just realized the post by Kurt Seland is the same as Rapture Ready's! But still!! EDIT 2: Wow I have just received YET ANOTHER infraction for the very same thing!! Atheist are the devil-incarnate I swear!!! == http://rr-bb.com/showthread.php?148146-Even-little-mice-pray!&p=1934614#post1934614 Even little mice pray! Had a real God moment today when I stopped in the pet store to look at all the cute and furry critters. At the mice cage there was this one really pretty little black and white mouse. She was sitting on her hind legs, eyes closed and her two tiny front paws folded in prayer. Cutest thing ever!!!! I wonder what she was praying, "oh, please Jesus let me find a good home where there are no kittehs."
Religion & Spirituality - 6 Answers
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Instead of wasting my time reading all of that, I'm just going to conclude that you're an idiot.
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It shows how fricking insane some people are.
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I think the persecutors are the first to claim they are persecuted. That site is for morons, as you can see. The theological notion of a "rapture" was invented 170 years ago. In 1830, in Port Glasgow, Scotland, fifteen year old Margaret MacDonald had a vision concerning the return of Christ. Her vision was adopted by John Nelson Darby a British minister and founder of a denomination called the "Plymouth Brethern." In 1909, an American, C. I. Scofield, pubished an annotated version of the "King James" translation of the Bible called the "Scofield Reference Bible." Scofield's annotations were based on the theology of John Nelson Darby. The "Scofield Reference Bible" popularized the teachings of Darby. Fundamentalist Christians in the U. S. adopted Scofield's Bible as authoritative. With the rise of fundamentalism in the U. S. in recent years, the popularity of the theological notion of the "rapture" has also gained popularity.
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These people are actually insane
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Amen. Even so, come Lord Jesus. Revelation 22:20
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Jhn 3:1 ¶ There was a man of the Pharisees, named Nicodemus, a ruler of the Jews: Jhn 3:2 The same came to Jesus by night, and said unto him, Rabbi, we know that thou art a teacher come from God: for no man can do these miracles that thou doest, except God be with him. Jhn 3:3 Jesus answered and said unto him, Verily, verily, I say unto thee, Except a man be born again, he cannot see the kingdom of God. Jhn 3:4 Nicodemus saith unto him, How can a man be born when he is old? can he enter the second time into his mother's womb, and be born? Jhn 3:5 Jesus answered, Verily, verily, I say unto thee, Except a man be born of water and [of] the Spirit, he cannot enter into the kingdom of God. Jhn 3:6 That which is born of the flesh is flesh; and that which is born of the Spirit is spirit. Jhn 3:7 Marvel not that I said unto thee, Ye must be born again. Jhn 3:8 The wind bloweth where it listeth, and thou hearest the sound thereof, but canst not tell whence it cometh, and whither it goeth: so is every one that is born of the Spirit. Jhn 3:9 Nicodemus answered and said unto him, How can these things be? Jhn 3:10 Jesus answered and said unto him, Art thou a master of Israel, and knowest not these things? Jhn 3:11 Verily, verily, I say unto thee, We speak that we do know, and testify that we have seen; and ye receive not our witness. Jhn 3:12 If I have told you earthly things, and ye believe not, how shall ye believe, if I tell you [of] heavenly things? Jhn 3:13 And no man hath ascended up to heaven, but he that came down from heaven, [even] the Son of man which is in heaven. Jhn 3:14 And as Moses lifted up the serpent in the wilderness, even so must the Son of man be lifted up: Jhn 3:15 That whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have eternal life. Jhn 3:16 For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life. Jhn 3:17 For God sent not his Son into the world to condemn the world; but that the world through him might be saved. Jhn 3:18 He that believeth on him is not condemned: but he that believeth not is condemned already, because he hath not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God. http://www.biblebelievers.com/AllThis.html Brian Free - Where Would You Be http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ces45ygLzXI http://jesus-is-lord.com/index.htm http://www.thegospelhiway.org/home/
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http://rr-bb.com/showthread.php?151193-Christian-woman-sentenced-to-death-in-Pakistan-for-alleged-quot-blasphemy-quot-against-Mohammad&p=1965543#post1965543 (in discussing blasphemy laws in Pakistan) How ironic that the Left would love to have such a blasphemy law passed against Christians to keep them from speaking the truth about homosexuality, abortion, etc, the gods of the Left. They're caught in a conundrum because they have a fetish for Islam because they want to use it against us, yet it happens to be the most oppressive, violent, and anti-Left religion out there. They will fight to put some make-up on Islam to make it appear more tolerable so that it can expand and gain a better stranglehold in the West, but at the same time it is going to turn on them and do them in. Meanwhile, the Left wants to put us, the only ones who understand the real danger of Islam, in a very similar choke-hold of their own. Truly darkened minds and deceived by their lusts. == http://rr-bb.com/showthread.php?151041-Victims-of-the-bully They are laying a groundwork for persecuting Christians. As a mentally ill individual who has battled suicide, I can assure you depression is 100% responsible for suicide. Not bullying. I have been bullied this year, after refusing sexual advances. Am I sucidal? No. I dread going into work sometimes, I avoid him if at all possible, but I'm not killing myself over it. The media is trying to build a foundation: Christianity is hate speech (Bible verses protesting homosexuality); "Hate speech" is bullying. Bullying causes suicide (NOT TRUE). Ergo, Christian beliefs, when expressed, lead to suicide. We have to restrict this! I can see it VERY clearly. It's not about bullying at all; it's about taking away our rights to speak of Jesus and the Bible. Mark my words on this. == http://rr-bb.com/showthread.php?149133-Use-Facebook&p=1946245#post1946245 Facebook has brought more harm to my family in recent history than anything I can recall. Because of it my nephew is getting divorced. My oldest daughter is not speaking to me after I called her out over some questionable posts. My nephew's lawyer told my sister that in a recent consensus of lawyers, Facebook had played a role in 8 out of 10 divorce cases. Just this week Facebook announced their support of gay rights, stating "They were going to take an aggressive stance against Hate Speach". Thus they basically announced the censorship of christian messages and posts is going to increase. Therefore "I Believe" it is an agent of satan and his world. == http://rr-bb.com/showthread.php?150556-Left-Coast-Status-Quo-in-Election/page2 [Re: How could Democrats have won in California?] My daughter was near inconsolable and kept saying, "I don't understand", "I don't understand". I did, all to readily. I explained t her about darkness, spritual blindness, evil, stuff she already knows. But she kept shaking her head on how so many people could be SO blind as to not see what the progressive/left/demos/etc. are up to. I told her that Massachusetts, Nevada, and CA are still dark states and will continue to cling to their darkness. == http://rr-bb.com/showthread.php?148084-Post-Rapture-%28Atheist%29-Survival-Guide&p=1933906#post1933906 Post Rapture (Atheist) Survival Guide You guys will NEVER believe this!! I posted this thread first on the City-Data religious section of the forum for Atheist and other nonbelievers just a few minutes ago. It is a survival guide for Atheist who have rejected God and will be left behind. It's by Kurt Seland. Not less than 5 minutes after posting it up, it was subsequently deleted (I believe an Atheist reported me) and I received an infraction (temporary ban) from the City-Data forums for copyright infringement!! Wow!! But we all know what the REAL reason was! Here is my thread! EDIT: Deleted the thread. Wow I just realized the post by Kurt Seland is the same as Rapture Ready's! But still!! EDIT 2: Wow I have just received YET ANOTHER infraction for the very same thing!! Atheist are the devil-incarnate I swear!!! == http://rr-bb.com/showthread.php?148146-Even-little-mice-pray!&p=1934614#post1934614 Even little mice pray! Had a real God moment today when I stopped in the pet store to look at all the cute and furry critters. At the mice cage there was this one really pretty little black and white mouse. She was sitting on her hind legs, eyes closed and her two tiny front paws folded in prayer. Cutest thing ever!!!! I wonder what she was praying, "oh, please Jesus let me find a good home where there are no kittehs."
Religion & Spirituality - 6 Answers
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Instead of wasting my time reading all of that, I'm just going to conclude that you're an idiot.
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It shows how fricking insane some people are.
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I think the persecutors are the first to claim they are persecuted. That site is for morons, as you can see. The theological notion of a "rapture" was invented 170 years ago. In 1830, in Port Glasgow, Scotland, fifteen year old Margaret MacDonald had a vision concerning the return of Christ. Her vision was adopted by John Nelson Darby a British minister and founder of a denomination called the "Plymouth Brethern." In 1909, an American, C. I. Scofield, pubished an annotated version of the "King James" translation of the Bible called the "Scofield Reference Bible." Scofield's annotations were based on the theology of John Nelson Darby. The "Scofield Reference Bible" popularized the teachings of Darby. Fundamentalist Christians in the U. S. adopted Scofield's Bible as authoritative. With the rise of fundamentalism in the U. S. in recent years, the popularity of the theological notion of the "rapture" has also gained popularity.
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These people are actually insane
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Amen. Even so, come Lord Jesus. Revelation 22:20
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Jhn 3:1 ¶ There was a man of the Pharisees, named Nicodemus, a ruler of the Jews: Jhn 3:2 The same came to Jesus by night, and said unto him, Rabbi, we know that thou art a teacher come from God: for no man can do these miracles that thou doest, except God be with him. Jhn 3:3 Jesus answered and said unto him, Verily, verily, I say unto thee, Except a man be born again, he cannot see the kingdom of God. Jhn 3:4 Nicodemus saith unto him, How can a man be born when he is old? can he enter the second time into his mother's womb, and be born? Jhn 3:5 Jesus answered, Verily, verily, I say unto thee, Except a man be born of water and [of] the Spirit, he cannot enter into the kingdom of God. Jhn 3:6 That which is born of the flesh is flesh; and that which is born of the Spirit is spirit. Jhn 3:7 Marvel not that I said unto thee, Ye must be born again. Jhn 3:8 The wind bloweth where it listeth, and thou hearest the sound thereof, but canst not tell whence it cometh, and whither it goeth: so is every one that is born of the Spirit. Jhn 3:9 Nicodemus answered and said unto him, How can these things be? Jhn 3:10 Jesus answered and said unto him, Art thou a master of Israel, and knowest not these things? Jhn 3:11 Verily, verily, I say unto thee, We speak that we do know, and testify that we have seen; and ye receive not our witness. Jhn 3:12 If I have told you earthly things, and ye believe not, how shall ye believe, if I tell you [of] heavenly things? Jhn 3:13 And no man hath ascended up to heaven, but he that came down from heaven, [even] the Son of man which is in heaven. Jhn 3:14 And as Moses lifted up the serpent in the wilderness, even so must the Son of man be lifted up: Jhn 3:15 That whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have eternal life. Jhn 3:16 For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life. Jhn 3:17 For God sent not his Son into the world to condemn the world; but that the world through him might be saved. Jhn 3:18 He that believeth on him is not condemned: but he that believeth not is condemned already, because he hath not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God. http://www.biblebelievers.com/AllThis.html Brian Free - Where Would You Be http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ces45ygLzXI http://jesus-is-lord.com/index.htm http://www.thegospelhiway.org/home/
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Thursday, October 28, 2010
My boyfriend still talks to his ex girlfriend and IT BOTHERS THE HECK OUTTA ME i cant do it anymore!?
My boyfriend still talks to his ex girlfriend and IT BOTHERS THE HECK OUTTA ME i cant do it anymore!?
Let me tell you the whole story, not in detail because it way too much. But close so you can understand where I'm coming from. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 6 months now. We are pretty serious. We hardly have fights, only a few disagreements. And we pretty much get along with everything. HOWEVER, his ex girlfriend has been the biggest problem, ever since the beginning. But I live in NY and she lives in CALI. In the very very beginning of our relationship, his mother and himself got into a huge argument and she brought his ex UP (lets call her "Lisa") His mother does not like me, and there really is no reason for that because I am very respectful and polite, she is just one of those "mothers". So yeah she brought up Lisa saying "what is Lisa gonna think when she finds out Mary is here?!" (Mary is my fake name for the story) So i was pissed and me and him discussed the whole matter and talked and talked and his mom was just being a bI***. They broke up a couple months before, she lives in cali he lives in ny. they werent together. he even proved it to me by texting her. it was all resolved. Fine. but.... After that he told me they were just friends. Now just to tell you, they were together for about 3 years and he moved to California to live with her for 2 years and she came here to live with him for about 3 months. So them being friends kinda pissed me off, but i trust him and she lives in Cali you know? He told me he has no feelings for her what so ever and I trust him. But every time me and him hung out she would text him and it would piss me the hell off. She invited him on a cruise. WTF. but he said no. A month later we talked about it and resolved it, he obviously told her not to text him anymore bcuz after that she didnt text him. ok... but now... His mom is a bi*** and she is always bringing her up. Why? Idk, like here's an example. One time I got my period and I needed feminine products and I was at his house. So I asked him mom if she had any, and she said (in these exact words) "Check in the downstairs bathroom. His ex Lisa had them under the sink" Why would she say that? Just to piss me off of course. I talked to him about it, and he apologized and tried talkin to his mom, but she is just naturally bi***y. She stopped bringing her up, but she is still bi***. ok thats solved butttt.... I always find sh** laying around his room, like once i found a photo album of them . I got pissed he apologized put it away. Once I found a note. and so on and so on. You get the point. We discussed this. His room is pretty messy, so he doesnt do it on purpose but still , like you put that stuff away. You know? NoW... i AM NOT a jealous person but wouldnt you be pissed off if they still were friends after all of this drama? No matter how many miles away she is, it still bothers me. We got into arguements (as you can see) about it, and he told me he wont talk to her anymore/ but she face books him all the time. and i know facebook is something kiddish, but it bothers me. Why does she have to face book him? and we just had a talk about it. I told him how i felt, but he told me i shouldnt worry. I am not worrying. It just bothers me. It the fact that all of this drama happened and the fact that her facebook still has pictures of them together. Yeah she cant control her and what she does, but he can control what she does. I asked him to delete her, so this drama could end. But he isnt gonna delete. He isnt gona stop being friends with her. And whats his reason? HE FEELS BAD BECAUSE SHE IS LONELY IN CALIFORNIA. HE DOESNT WANNA JUST BE A "JERK". I dont know what to do. I've had so many convos with him about this and about how it bothers me. But he says hes not the type of guy who stops talking to someone because someone else said they have to . Are you serious? I dont know what to do. I love him, i dont want our relationship to end. WTF SHOULD I DO!? I'm not being paranoid. I trust him. It's the fact that she is still in love with him and he knows it. And the fact that I always find stuff from when they were together in his room. And some added note, he cheated on her and she knows, yet she still wants to be friends with him. It just doesnt make any sense. To me anyway
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wow . you are really controlling ...
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Plain and simple, if he doesnt stop talking to her leave him. if he really wants you, he'll do what it takes. He is still attached to her for some reason. Whatever the reason is is not your concern its his and he has to work that out...with you or without you. You have to allow hime to do that even if he doesnt know he needs the time.
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Well you told him to stop talking to her right and how you felt? I guess you can always go are you still in love with her? And that I am sorry but I am leaving you because if you really cared about me and my feelings you would stop talking to her and you haven't so that says that you still love her and your not over her. Sorry :'( been there and it's a hurtful road but I luckily found the man who truly loves me and respects me a year later after a guy that is kinda like yours.
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okay well wow! but seeing as he has been with that other girl for 3 years! i think that is pretty serious and i understand him when he says he does not want to stop being friends because im sure in a way he still cares for her. So i think first you should talk to HER (with ur bf knowing about it tho) about their whole "friend relationship" If you are certain he is in love with you then he won't mind but do not attack her or anyting to make her dislike you because then hes gonna be in a pickle. Then of course when thats resolved talk to his mother about how rude she is being. best of luck! if worse comes to worse, move on!! you don't need inlaw drama.
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stop being so paranoid and chasing him off from ur life... instead of being pissed with him still in contact with the ex, u should instead improve on ur relationship with him.. come as u say she not even physically there to ruin ur relationship. come on they been together for few yrs sure he still have lingering feelings its only natural. U should instead be a better gf then her to make him stop thinking of her... U wanna pisse the gf off ask ur bf put pictures of u 2 together.. Seriously u getting way to involve about his ex... on his mom it takes time to get in her books and 1st is stop being paranoid
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Let me tell you the whole story, not in detail because it way too much. But close so you can understand where I'm coming from. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 6 months now. We are pretty serious. We hardly have fights, only a few disagreements. And we pretty much get along with everything. HOWEVER, his ex girlfriend has been the biggest problem, ever since the beginning. But I live in NY and she lives in CALI. In the very very beginning of our relationship, his mother and himself got into a huge argument and she brought his ex UP (lets call her "Lisa") His mother does not like me, and there really is no reason for that because I am very respectful and polite, she is just one of those "mothers". So yeah she brought up Lisa saying "what is Lisa gonna think when she finds out Mary is here?!" (Mary is my fake name for the story) So i was pissed and me and him discussed the whole matter and talked and talked and his mom was just being a bI***. They broke up a couple months before, she lives in cali he lives in ny. they werent together. he even proved it to me by texting her. it was all resolved. Fine. but.... After that he told me they were just friends. Now just to tell you, they were together for about 3 years and he moved to California to live with her for 2 years and she came here to live with him for about 3 months. So them being friends kinda pissed me off, but i trust him and she lives in Cali you know? He told me he has no feelings for her what so ever and I trust him. But every time me and him hung out she would text him and it would piss me the hell off. She invited him on a cruise. WTF. but he said no. A month later we talked about it and resolved it, he obviously told her not to text him anymore bcuz after that she didnt text him. ok... but now... His mom is a bi*** and she is always bringing her up. Why? Idk, like here's an example. One time I got my period and I needed feminine products and I was at his house. So I asked him mom if she had any, and she said (in these exact words) "Check in the downstairs bathroom. His ex Lisa had them under the sink" Why would she say that? Just to piss me off of course. I talked to him about it, and he apologized and tried talkin to his mom, but she is just naturally bi***y. She stopped bringing her up, but she is still bi***. ok thats solved butttt.... I always find sh** laying around his room, like once i found a photo album of them . I got pissed he apologized put it away. Once I found a note. and so on and so on. You get the point. We discussed this. His room is pretty messy, so he doesnt do it on purpose but still , like you put that stuff away. You know? NoW... i AM NOT a jealous person but wouldnt you be pissed off if they still were friends after all of this drama? No matter how many miles away she is, it still bothers me. We got into arguements (as you can see) about it, and he told me he wont talk to her anymore/ but she face books him all the time. and i know facebook is something kiddish, but it bothers me. Why does she have to face book him? and we just had a talk about it. I told him how i felt, but he told me i shouldnt worry. I am not worrying. It just bothers me. It the fact that all of this drama happened and the fact that her facebook still has pictures of them together. Yeah she cant control her and what she does, but he can control what she does. I asked him to delete her, so this drama could end. But he isnt gonna delete. He isnt gona stop being friends with her. And whats his reason? HE FEELS BAD BECAUSE SHE IS LONELY IN CALIFORNIA. HE DOESNT WANNA JUST BE A "JERK". I dont know what to do. I've had so many convos with him about this and about how it bothers me. But he says hes not the type of guy who stops talking to someone because someone else said they have to . Are you serious? I dont know what to do. I love him, i dont want our relationship to end. WTF SHOULD I DO!? I'm not being paranoid. I trust him. It's the fact that she is still in love with him and he knows it. And the fact that I always find stuff from when they were together in his room. And some added note, he cheated on her and she knows, yet she still wants to be friends with him. It just doesnt make any sense. To me anyway
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wow . you are really controlling ...
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Plain and simple, if he doesnt stop talking to her leave him. if he really wants you, he'll do what it takes. He is still attached to her for some reason. Whatever the reason is is not your concern its his and he has to work that out...with you or without you. You have to allow hime to do that even if he doesnt know he needs the time.
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Well you told him to stop talking to her right and how you felt? I guess you can always go are you still in love with her? And that I am sorry but I am leaving you because if you really cared about me and my feelings you would stop talking to her and you haven't so that says that you still love her and your not over her. Sorry :'( been there and it's a hurtful road but I luckily found the man who truly loves me and respects me a year later after a guy that is kinda like yours.
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okay well wow! but seeing as he has been with that other girl for 3 years! i think that is pretty serious and i understand him when he says he does not want to stop being friends because im sure in a way he still cares for her. So i think first you should talk to HER (with ur bf knowing about it tho) about their whole "friend relationship" If you are certain he is in love with you then he won't mind but do not attack her or anyting to make her dislike you because then hes gonna be in a pickle. Then of course when thats resolved talk to his mother about how rude she is being. best of luck! if worse comes to worse, move on!! you don't need inlaw drama.
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stop being so paranoid and chasing him off from ur life... instead of being pissed with him still in contact with the ex, u should instead improve on ur relationship with him.. come as u say she not even physically there to ruin ur relationship. come on they been together for few yrs sure he still have lingering feelings its only natural. U should instead be a better gf then her to make him stop thinking of her... U wanna pisse the gf off ask ur bf put pictures of u 2 together.. Seriously u getting way to involve about his ex... on his mom it takes time to get in her books and 1st is stop being paranoid
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Thursday, October 14, 2010
SHOULD I pay any rent at all?
SHOULD I pay any rent at all?
Short version: We never agreed on terms, and I never moved in. His demands were nuts, so I backed out. Do I owe anything at all? Long version: I thought I'd agreed to move in to a shared 5 bedroom house with 4 existing roommates, into a room that would be available once the master tenant moved out and into another room. I met with the last potential roommate and told the master tenant I wanted to move in, and we settled on giving him a week ('till the 9th of May) to move rooms and I expected to move in and pay rent from that date. Yesterday (Monday, May 3) I went over to drop off a check to seal the deal, and the master tenant demanded I pay from the first. He thought I'd said some things during our interview discussions to indicate that I'd pay from the first. I don't think even think the things he claims were said would have set that expectation: When I first saw the place Apr 26, he said that he wanted to get it filled ASAP - with someone who could take it from the 1st if possible. He asked when I could move, and I said I didn't have to give 30 days notice, and yes I could afford to pay double rent for the time it took to move my stuff. We didn't discuss a lease/occupancy time period other than him requiring (and me verbally agreeing in principle to, that is saying "I'd be ok with") a 1-2 month mutual no-bad-feelings trial period, and a stated monthly rent. Also, he mentioned wanting a tenant to move in ASAP, by the 1st if possible. Seems to me that if you expect someone to pay rent from before they move in, your expectation isn't reasonable if you have no rental agreement, no rent in hand, no clear oral agreement, and the delayed move is because the room is fully occupied and needs to be cleared out. I don't want to live with someone who is so unclear on the distinction between what he wants and what others agree to provide, and so adamantly asserts his needs as primary. (There were prior warning signs I knew about (e.g. loud arguing and violent behavior toward a lover, and an incident where he put his needs first, above those of the group) but talks with the roommates had for a time convinced me he wasn't excessively demanding of others and a good communicator.) Because this particular kind of personality conflict (over unreasonable expectations) is very bothersome to me, I don't want to move in anymore, as I feel it's likely to recur often, and told him that. He is repeatedly calling, chatting, and emailing (on and off Facebook), telling me not to f*** him, to not s***w him over, and not mess up his relationship with his landlord, and is insistent that pay him a month's rent because I agreed to move in. SHOULD I pay? If so, what? There's nothing material in writing - just him offering the place, the rent, and me texting that I wanted to move in. No consideration has changed hands, and I don't think there was a 'meeting of the minds' for an oral agreement either. I ask because he is so adamant that I pay that I'm questioning my own judgement. I'm also curious about any legal thoughts or opinion, but we have friends in common, so a legal answer that doesn't take ethics into consideration isn't what I'm looking for. Legally, everything is in my favor: no written agreement, no oral agreement, no consideration, and < $1000 in question. Venue: California. So legally, it's a no-brainer, IMO. I think there's a decent argument that I pay for three days rent - from when I said I would move in 'till I realized the terms were not agreeable - and that a perfect gentleman would offer to pay that - and that a perfect gentleman would refuse the payment. Should I pay that? What do you think I should do, and why? Debdeb: "The guy who is actually preventing you from moving in sooner thinks you should pay for 8 days of the month that he occupied your room. Is that right?" Yup. Just to be complete, I should mention that after a lengthy battle (several long phone calls) he did say that though I needed to pay the full rent now, he'd give me back $100 or so, or more if he was able to rent it out before the end of the month. And after I got so fed up I said I wasn't moving in, he did offer to accept just the rent from the 9th to the end of the month. <sarcasm>Generous, don't you think?</sarcasm> Anyway, thanks for the reality check. I really appreciate it.
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I think you'd be nuts if you did move in! You don't owe him anything. He's crazy out of control, and you don't need his drama. Do not pay him anything. To pay him anything at this point would be an admission that you agreed to move in under whatever conditions he's currently claiming exist. Change your phone number and whatever else you have to change so he can no longer pester you.
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There's a lot of words there, but what I think I see is that you agreed to move into the room on May 9, expecting to pay partial rent in May starting that day. Nothing is signed. The guy who is actually preventing you from moving in sooner thinks you should pay for 8 days of the month that he occupied your room. Is that right? He wants to fill the room by May 1 if possible, but he won't be out of it until May 8. What am I missing here? How could anyone think you should pay for the time when he prevented you from occupying the room? I don't think you owe anything, and I'd stay away from this demanding bozo.
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Short version: We never agreed on terms, and I never moved in. His demands were nuts, so I backed out. Do I owe anything at all? Long version: I thought I'd agreed to move in to a shared 5 bedroom house with 4 existing roommates, into a room that would be available once the master tenant moved out and into another room. I met with the last potential roommate and told the master tenant I wanted to move in, and we settled on giving him a week ('till the 9th of May) to move rooms and I expected to move in and pay rent from that date. Yesterday (Monday, May 3) I went over to drop off a check to seal the deal, and the master tenant demanded I pay from the first. He thought I'd said some things during our interview discussions to indicate that I'd pay from the first. I don't think even think the things he claims were said would have set that expectation: When I first saw the place Apr 26, he said that he wanted to get it filled ASAP - with someone who could take it from the 1st if possible. He asked when I could move, and I said I didn't have to give 30 days notice, and yes I could afford to pay double rent for the time it took to move my stuff. We didn't discuss a lease/occupancy time period other than him requiring (and me verbally agreeing in principle to, that is saying "I'd be ok with") a 1-2 month mutual no-bad-feelings trial period, and a stated monthly rent. Also, he mentioned wanting a tenant to move in ASAP, by the 1st if possible. Seems to me that if you expect someone to pay rent from before they move in, your expectation isn't reasonable if you have no rental agreement, no rent in hand, no clear oral agreement, and the delayed move is because the room is fully occupied and needs to be cleared out. I don't want to live with someone who is so unclear on the distinction between what he wants and what others agree to provide, and so adamantly asserts his needs as primary. (There were prior warning signs I knew about (e.g. loud arguing and violent behavior toward a lover, and an incident where he put his needs first, above those of the group) but talks with the roommates had for a time convinced me he wasn't excessively demanding of others and a good communicator.) Because this particular kind of personality conflict (over unreasonable expectations) is very bothersome to me, I don't want to move in anymore, as I feel it's likely to recur often, and told him that. He is repeatedly calling, chatting, and emailing (on and off Facebook), telling me not to f*** him, to not s***w him over, and not mess up his relationship with his landlord, and is insistent that pay him a month's rent because I agreed to move in. SHOULD I pay? If so, what? There's nothing material in writing - just him offering the place, the rent, and me texting that I wanted to move in. No consideration has changed hands, and I don't think there was a 'meeting of the minds' for an oral agreement either. I ask because he is so adamant that I pay that I'm questioning my own judgement. I'm also curious about any legal thoughts or opinion, but we have friends in common, so a legal answer that doesn't take ethics into consideration isn't what I'm looking for. Legally, everything is in my favor: no written agreement, no oral agreement, no consideration, and < $1000 in question. Venue: California. So legally, it's a no-brainer, IMO. I think there's a decent argument that I pay for three days rent - from when I said I would move in 'till I realized the terms were not agreeable - and that a perfect gentleman would offer to pay that - and that a perfect gentleman would refuse the payment. Should I pay that? What do you think I should do, and why? Debdeb: "The guy who is actually preventing you from moving in sooner thinks you should pay for 8 days of the month that he occupied your room. Is that right?" Yup. Just to be complete, I should mention that after a lengthy battle (several long phone calls) he did say that though I needed to pay the full rent now, he'd give me back $100 or so, or more if he was able to rent it out before the end of the month. And after I got so fed up I said I wasn't moving in, he did offer to accept just the rent from the 9th to the end of the month. <sarcasm>Generous, don't you think?</sarcasm> Anyway, thanks for the reality check. I really appreciate it.
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I think you'd be nuts if you did move in! You don't owe him anything. He's crazy out of control, and you don't need his drama. Do not pay him anything. To pay him anything at this point would be an admission that you agreed to move in under whatever conditions he's currently claiming exist. Change your phone number and whatever else you have to change so he can no longer pester you.
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There's a lot of words there, but what I think I see is that you agreed to move into the room on May 9, expecting to pay partial rent in May starting that day. Nothing is signed. The guy who is actually preventing you from moving in sooner thinks you should pay for 8 days of the month that he occupied your room. Is that right? He wants to fill the room by May 1 if possible, but he won't be out of it until May 8. What am I missing here? How could anyone think you should pay for the time when he prevented you from occupying the room? I don't think you owe anything, and I'd stay away from this demanding bozo.
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Thursday, October 7, 2010
need motivation and people's opinion?
need motivation and people's opinion?
okay,this may be long but I hope someone can help. So I'm a community college student and I am on this "crossroad" dilemma. I apply to transfer to a 4 year university in California after being at a community college for 3 years. I am already got in to 1 and I'm on my last 2 weeks waiting for 4 more admission decisions. As I wait for these decisions, I have been thinking about my life within the last 3 years after high school graduation. The last 3 years have been weird. What happen is that i live a sort of uncommon life in comparison to my friends to my friends and peers. I dedicate myself to my studies these days that I happen to become a loner. I rarely go out with friends anymore. And some of group of friends that I kind of wish I could spend more time have a flaw: they're friends with an ex-girlfriend of mine. I have low paying job since I want to get a car but the only problem is I only work once a week and finding a better paying job are away and definitely need a car. Almost all my peers have cars and they're enjoying the heck out of their lives. From my observation is that I feel that I'm missing out the fun in my early 20's. First of all, my closest friends don't go to college and they work. So I can't discuss school related stuff as often. Plus,they're into video games, which I'm not. Another draw back is that those who do go to school (community college or university) are not majoring in science so I feel the weird one. I love science because of the fact that while its difficult,I'm actually learning stuff. Not to criticize liberal art majors but the harder courses make you think "outside the box" like in calculus or chemistry (funny thing though is that I need some psychological help in my question;irony,lol!). Anyways, the biggest problem I have is when people ask me why I don't have a girlfriend. Now, I have dated about once or twice but at those times, I just felt uncomfortable being with another person. I just didn't felt in the mood of a relationship; I didn't have feelings for that person. So it bugs me when some of my friends (guy or girl) ask me why I'm not in one. For me, I feel that I want to transfer out to a good school because I don't want to work in low paying job as I am right now;I really care about education and it saddens me that some just view it as a chore or something. But while my friends respect my decision, my ex-girlfriends ask me the same question. At this point, I am like "wth???why do you care?". What happen is that I use to try to get her back with me for 2 years after she broke up with me. So I decided that once she was in college,I will never ever talk to her again (in person). We have always been friends online since we broke up but we have added and deleted each other several times. The last time she deleted me, I decided I will not be Mr. Nice Guy anymore. She added me again in December but I vow not to chat her on facebook. She has always started the conversation the few times I spoke to her in Fb. But the last 2 times she kept mentioning "her man" and that she was serious about him and she was going to drop out of college for him (her current boyfriend is about to graduate next year and they plan to come back to California since she is at Iowa). And while I could care less now, yesterday she ask about "any lucky gals out there for me?" after she had mention her bf many times before. It feels she is rubbing it in my face because she knows I was in deep love for her 3 years ago. So in essence,I am asking what should I do about my life as I go on with my life.Should I work hard to get a car(I don't think I need a car since I plan to dorm when I transfer)?What should I do with my closest friends(should I try to be into video games because that's like the one thing they're super into)?what should I do with my ex-girlfriend(I wanted to delete her on Facebook but I want to show that I'm stronger than her and that I have move on. Seriously, I feel like I'm competing against her. I don't care about relationships right now because I have not gotten that feeling to be someone yet.EEERRR,but I want to show that the day she left me was her biggest mistake(btw,the break up was on 2008)). I can wait to transfer out so I can finally meet some people with the same interest like me and possibly find a good girl that cares about me.
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It's a long read. First, don't look back. Stop thinking about the past three years. Instead focus on the next three years. About your friends: If your friends have different interests than yours, then try to look for new friends that shares the same interest as you are. Remember, birds of a same feather flocks together, so it's understandable that you will not be compelled to stick with your old friends. About your ex-girlfriend: Move on. Meet someone else. The easiest way to get him out of your mind is to meet someone else. About motivation: Set a goal. If you think you need to get a car to get yourself motivated, then do it. Don't let yourself get distracted by things. I recommend reading the link below to get you more motivated.
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okay,this may be long but I hope someone can help. So I'm a community college student and I am on this "crossroad" dilemma. I apply to transfer to a 4 year university in California after being at a community college for 3 years. I am already got in to 1 and I'm on my last 2 weeks waiting for 4 more admission decisions. As I wait for these decisions, I have been thinking about my life within the last 3 years after high school graduation. The last 3 years have been weird. What happen is that i live a sort of uncommon life in comparison to my friends to my friends and peers. I dedicate myself to my studies these days that I happen to become a loner. I rarely go out with friends anymore. And some of group of friends that I kind of wish I could spend more time have a flaw: they're friends with an ex-girlfriend of mine. I have low paying job since I want to get a car but the only problem is I only work once a week and finding a better paying job are away and definitely need a car. Almost all my peers have cars and they're enjoying the heck out of their lives. From my observation is that I feel that I'm missing out the fun in my early 20's. First of all, my closest friends don't go to college and they work. So I can't discuss school related stuff as often. Plus,they're into video games, which I'm not. Another draw back is that those who do go to school (community college or university) are not majoring in science so I feel the weird one. I love science because of the fact that while its difficult,I'm actually learning stuff. Not to criticize liberal art majors but the harder courses make you think "outside the box" like in calculus or chemistry (funny thing though is that I need some psychological help in my question;irony,lol!). Anyways, the biggest problem I have is when people ask me why I don't have a girlfriend. Now, I have dated about once or twice but at those times, I just felt uncomfortable being with another person. I just didn't felt in the mood of a relationship; I didn't have feelings for that person. So it bugs me when some of my friends (guy or girl) ask me why I'm not in one. For me, I feel that I want to transfer out to a good school because I don't want to work in low paying job as I am right now;I really care about education and it saddens me that some just view it as a chore or something. But while my friends respect my decision, my ex-girlfriends ask me the same question. At this point, I am like "wth???why do you care?". What happen is that I use to try to get her back with me for 2 years after she broke up with me. So I decided that once she was in college,I will never ever talk to her again (in person). We have always been friends online since we broke up but we have added and deleted each other several times. The last time she deleted me, I decided I will not be Mr. Nice Guy anymore. She added me again in December but I vow not to chat her on facebook. She has always started the conversation the few times I spoke to her in Fb. But the last 2 times she kept mentioning "her man" and that she was serious about him and she was going to drop out of college for him (her current boyfriend is about to graduate next year and they plan to come back to California since she is at Iowa). And while I could care less now, yesterday she ask about "any lucky gals out there for me?" after she had mention her bf many times before. It feels she is rubbing it in my face because she knows I was in deep love for her 3 years ago. So in essence,I am asking what should I do about my life as I go on with my life.Should I work hard to get a car(I don't think I need a car since I plan to dorm when I transfer)?What should I do with my closest friends(should I try to be into video games because that's like the one thing they're super into)?what should I do with my ex-girlfriend(I wanted to delete her on Facebook but I want to show that I'm stronger than her and that I have move on. Seriously, I feel like I'm competing against her. I don't care about relationships right now because I have not gotten that feeling to be someone yet.EEERRR,but I want to show that the day she left me was her biggest mistake(btw,the break up was on 2008)). I can wait to transfer out so I can finally meet some people with the same interest like me and possibly find a good girl that cares about me.
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It's a long read. First, don't look back. Stop thinking about the past three years. Instead focus on the next three years. About your friends: If your friends have different interests than yours, then try to look for new friends that shares the same interest as you are. Remember, birds of a same feather flocks together, so it's understandable that you will not be compelled to stick with your old friends. About your ex-girlfriend: Move on. Meet someone else. The easiest way to get him out of your mind is to meet someone else. About motivation: Set a goal. If you think you need to get a car to get yourself motivated, then do it. Don't let yourself get distracted by things. I recommend reading the link below to get you more motivated.
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