What do you think of these comments on Christian forum "Rapture Ready"?
http://rr-bb.com/showthread.php?151193-Christian-woman-sentenced-to-death-in-Pakistan-for-alleged-quot-blasphemy-quot-against-Mohammad&p=1965543#post1965543 (in discussing blasphemy laws in Pakistan) How ironic that the Left would love to have such a blasphemy law passed against Christians to keep them from speaking the truth about homosexuality, abortion, etc, the gods of the Left. They're caught in a conundrum because they have a fetish for Islam because they want to use it against us, yet it happens to be the most oppressive, violent, and anti-Left religion out there. They will fight to put some make-up on Islam to make it appear more tolerable so that it can expand and gain a better stranglehold in the West, but at the same time it is going to turn on them and do them in. Meanwhile, the Left wants to put us, the only ones who understand the real danger of Islam, in a very similar choke-hold of their own. Truly darkened minds and deceived by their lusts. == http://rr-bb.com/showthread.php?151041-Victims-of-the-bully They are laying a groundwork for persecuting Christians. As a mentally ill individual who has battled suicide, I can assure you depression is 100% responsible for suicide. Not bullying. I have been bullied this year, after refusing sexual advances. Am I sucidal? No. I dread going into work sometimes, I avoid him if at all possible, but I'm not killing myself over it. The media is trying to build a foundation: Christianity is hate speech (Bible verses protesting homosexuality); "Hate speech" is bullying. Bullying causes suicide (NOT TRUE). Ergo, Christian beliefs, when expressed, lead to suicide. We have to restrict this! I can see it VERY clearly. It's not about bullying at all; it's about taking away our rights to speak of Jesus and the Bible. Mark my words on this. == http://rr-bb.com/showthread.php?149133-Use-Facebook&p=1946245#post1946245 Facebook has brought more harm to my family in recent history than anything I can recall. Because of it my nephew is getting divorced. My oldest daughter is not speaking to me after I called her out over some questionable posts. My nephew's lawyer told my sister that in a recent consensus of lawyers, Facebook had played a role in 8 out of 10 divorce cases. Just this week Facebook announced their support of gay rights, stating "They were going to take an aggressive stance against Hate Speach". Thus they basically announced the censorship of christian messages and posts is going to increase. Therefore "I Believe" it is an agent of satan and his world. == http://rr-bb.com/showthread.php?150556-Left-Coast-Status-Quo-in-Election/page2 [Re: How could Democrats have won in California?] My daughter was near inconsolable and kept saying, "I don't understand", "I don't understand". I did, all to readily. I explained t her about darkness, spritual blindness, evil, stuff she already knows. But she kept shaking her head on how so many people could be SO blind as to not see what the progressive/left/demos/etc. are up to. I told her that Massachusetts, Nevada, and CA are still dark states and will continue to cling to their darkness. == http://rr-bb.com/showthread.php?148084-Post-Rapture-%28Atheist%29-Survival-Guide&p=1933906#post1933906 Post Rapture (Atheist) Survival Guide You guys will NEVER believe this!! I posted this thread first on the City-Data religious section of the forum for Atheist and other nonbelievers just a few minutes ago. It is a survival guide for Atheist who have rejected God and will be left behind. It's by Kurt Seland. Not less than 5 minutes after posting it up, it was subsequently deleted (I believe an Atheist reported me) and I received an infraction (temporary ban) from the City-Data forums for copyright infringement!! Wow!! But we all know what the REAL reason was! Here is my thread! EDIT: Deleted the thread. Wow I just realized the post by Kurt Seland is the same as Rapture Ready's! But still!! EDIT 2: Wow I have just received YET ANOTHER infraction for the very same thing!! Atheist are the devil-incarnate I swear!!! == http://rr-bb.com/showthread.php?148146-Even-little-mice-pray!&p=1934614#post1934614 Even little mice pray! Had a real God moment today when I stopped in the pet store to look at all the cute and furry critters. At the mice cage there was this one really pretty little black and white mouse. She was sitting on her hind legs, eyes closed and her two tiny front paws folded in prayer. Cutest thing ever!!!! I wonder what she was praying, "oh, please Jesus let me find a good home where there are no kittehs."
Religion & Spirituality - 6 Answers
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Instead of wasting my time reading all of that, I'm just going to conclude that you're an idiot.
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It shows how fricking insane some people are.
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I think the persecutors are the first to claim they are persecuted. That site is for morons, as you can see. The theological notion of a "rapture" was invented 170 years ago. In 1830, in Port Glasgow, Scotland, fifteen year old Margaret MacDonald had a vision concerning the return of Christ. Her vision was adopted by John Nelson Darby a British minister and founder of a denomination called the "Plymouth Brethern." In 1909, an American, C. I. Scofield, pubished an annotated version of the "King James" translation of the Bible called the "Scofield Reference Bible." Scofield's annotations were based on the theology of John Nelson Darby. The "Scofield Reference Bible" popularized the teachings of Darby. Fundamentalist Christians in the U. S. adopted Scofield's Bible as authoritative. With the rise of fundamentalism in the U. S. in recent years, the popularity of the theological notion of the "rapture" has also gained popularity.
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These people are actually insane
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Amen. Even so, come Lord Jesus. Revelation 22:20
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Jhn 3:1 ¶ There was a man of the Pharisees, named Nicodemus, a ruler of the Jews: Jhn 3:2 The same came to Jesus by night, and said unto him, Rabbi, we know that thou art a teacher come from God: for no man can do these miracles that thou doest, except God be with him. Jhn 3:3 Jesus answered and said unto him, Verily, verily, I say unto thee, Except a man be born again, he cannot see the kingdom of God. Jhn 3:4 Nicodemus saith unto him, How can a man be born when he is old? can he enter the second time into his mother's womb, and be born? Jhn 3:5 Jesus answered, Verily, verily, I say unto thee, Except a man be born of water and [of] the Spirit, he cannot enter into the kingdom of God. Jhn 3:6 That which is born of the flesh is flesh; and that which is born of the Spirit is spirit. Jhn 3:7 Marvel not that I said unto thee, Ye must be born again. Jhn 3:8 The wind bloweth where it listeth, and thou hearest the sound thereof, but canst not tell whence it cometh, and whither it goeth: so is every one that is born of the Spirit. Jhn 3:9 Nicodemus answered and said unto him, How can these things be? Jhn 3:10 Jesus answered and said unto him, Art thou a master of Israel, and knowest not these things? Jhn 3:11 Verily, verily, I say unto thee, We speak that we do know, and testify that we have seen; and ye receive not our witness. Jhn 3:12 If I have told you earthly things, and ye believe not, how shall ye believe, if I tell you [of] heavenly things? Jhn 3:13 And no man hath ascended up to heaven, but he that came down from heaven, [even] the Son of man which is in heaven. Jhn 3:14 And as Moses lifted up the serpent in the wilderness, even so must the Son of man be lifted up: Jhn 3:15 That whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have eternal life. Jhn 3:16 For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life. Jhn 3:17 For God sent not his Son into the world to condemn the world; but that the world through him might be saved. Jhn 3:18 He that believeth on him is not condemned: but he that believeth not is condemned already, because he hath not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God. http://www.biblebelievers.com/AllThis.html Brian Free - Where Would You Be http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ces45ygLzXI http://jesus-is-lord.com/index.htm http://www.thegospelhiway.org/home/
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Monday, November 14, 2011
Monday, November 7, 2011
My ex broke up with me (I STILL LOVE HIM) and wants nothing to do with me, how do I forget him!!!?
My ex broke up with me (I STILL LOVE HIM) and wants nothing to do with me, how do I forget him!!!?
I met my ex on a Middle Eastern Dating website, we talked on the phone for a week, he flew to Boston a few times to see me since he was living in Ohio trying to start his career as a doctor. Everything went great, the chemistry was there, he met my family, my friends, even my BOSS....I fell in love with him so fast, and he claimed to have the same feelings for me...we even decided he would have his family go to my family and ask for my hand (thats how our culture does it) On Thursday December 4th, I was talking to him online from work like we usually did and we started discussing the wedding, me moving to Ohio and everything seemed great. Later on that afternoon, he came online and was absolutely livid!! He told me he had gone on my FACEBOOK account and read past messages from a guy I had never met, and the messages were from a year and 3 months ago!!!! The messages included pet names,somewhat sexual content and sometimes hinted towards us meeting and maybe getting married. BELIEVE ME, I HAVE NO REASON TO LIE RIGHT NOW, I WASNT GOING TO MARRY THIS GUY, I WAS 22 AT THE TIME, IM 24 NOW, AND WAS JUST BEING IMMATURE. Needless to say, he confronted me with this information and told me I must talk to all guys like this etc. I told him that wasnt true, and that I had never met him and that I was younger and most importantly, a year and 3 months ago, I didnt know he was existant and he didnt know I was either, so how can he judge me for that!!???? DOESNT EVERYONE HAVE A PAST?? Keep in mind, this whole convo took place on MSN. He went on to block me on MSN, on Facebook, and 3 days later, changed his phone number!!!!!!!! I e mailed him a few times, first asking him why he did what he did,he responded that he had thought long and hard about it and made a final decision, so I left it alone for about 2 days and then couldnt help but e mail him again, this time I went on to the hate e mails, because like we all know, sometimes a girl uses her emotions before her mind!! He e mailed me telling me how much I hurt him in the e mails and that now there really was no chance of getting back together. I emailed him telling him that words are words, but his actions spoke a lot louder than my words...breakingf up with me, blocking me, refusing to communicate with me, changing his number, literally talking to me about marriage 4 hours before he so abruptly and insensitively broke up with me ONLINE. He went on to e mail me a few days later, this time telling me it wasnt my PAST....it was my behavior when I got upset and my reaction every time he mentioned his family. Keep in mind, I do have a temper sometimes, but have a great heart and neverrrrr hold a grudge, and he knew this very well. In regards to hsi family, I never showed anything other than respect for his family and they liked me a lot actually and I liked them. I feel like he just came up with excuses to break up with me,but his actions when he came to Boston both times were so the opposite, just full of love and affection and the way he looked at me was so loving, that I cant believe he broke up with me. It's been a month now, I still love him, I think about him, I even cry at times, but I know I need to move on, because he was able to give up on an entire future so quickly and that killed me....PLEASE HELP AND GIVE ME ADVICE!!!! </3
Singles & Dating - 1 Answers
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girl i so know how u feel my ex told me he loved me one day and the next asked if we could be friend....but now i try to talk to him he hates me now. i cried forever but ya GL.
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I met my ex on a Middle Eastern Dating website, we talked on the phone for a week, he flew to Boston a few times to see me since he was living in Ohio trying to start his career as a doctor. Everything went great, the chemistry was there, he met my family, my friends, even my BOSS....I fell in love with him so fast, and he claimed to have the same feelings for me...we even decided he would have his family go to my family and ask for my hand (thats how our culture does it) On Thursday December 4th, I was talking to him online from work like we usually did and we started discussing the wedding, me moving to Ohio and everything seemed great. Later on that afternoon, he came online and was absolutely livid!! He told me he had gone on my FACEBOOK account and read past messages from a guy I had never met, and the messages were from a year and 3 months ago!!!! The messages included pet names,somewhat sexual content and sometimes hinted towards us meeting and maybe getting married. BELIEVE ME, I HAVE NO REASON TO LIE RIGHT NOW, I WASNT GOING TO MARRY THIS GUY, I WAS 22 AT THE TIME, IM 24 NOW, AND WAS JUST BEING IMMATURE. Needless to say, he confronted me with this information and told me I must talk to all guys like this etc. I told him that wasnt true, and that I had never met him and that I was younger and most importantly, a year and 3 months ago, I didnt know he was existant and he didnt know I was either, so how can he judge me for that!!???? DOESNT EVERYONE HAVE A PAST?? Keep in mind, this whole convo took place on MSN. He went on to block me on MSN, on Facebook, and 3 days later, changed his phone number!!!!!!!! I e mailed him a few times, first asking him why he did what he did,he responded that he had thought long and hard about it and made a final decision, so I left it alone for about 2 days and then couldnt help but e mail him again, this time I went on to the hate e mails, because like we all know, sometimes a girl uses her emotions before her mind!! He e mailed me telling me how much I hurt him in the e mails and that now there really was no chance of getting back together. I emailed him telling him that words are words, but his actions spoke a lot louder than my words...breakingf up with me, blocking me, refusing to communicate with me, changing his number, literally talking to me about marriage 4 hours before he so abruptly and insensitively broke up with me ONLINE. He went on to e mail me a few days later, this time telling me it wasnt my PAST....it was my behavior when I got upset and my reaction every time he mentioned his family. Keep in mind, I do have a temper sometimes, but have a great heart and neverrrrr hold a grudge, and he knew this very well. In regards to hsi family, I never showed anything other than respect for his family and they liked me a lot actually and I liked them. I feel like he just came up with excuses to break up with me,but his actions when he came to Boston both times were so the opposite, just full of love and affection and the way he looked at me was so loving, that I cant believe he broke up with me. It's been a month now, I still love him, I think about him, I even cry at times, but I know I need to move on, because he was able to give up on an entire future so quickly and that killed me....PLEASE HELP AND GIVE ME ADVICE!!!! </3
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girl i so know how u feel my ex told me he loved me one day and the next asked if we could be friend....but now i try to talk to him he hates me now. i cried forever but ya GL.
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Tuesday, November 1, 2011
question about long distance dating - guys answers?
question about long distance dating - guys answers?
The guy that is currently my boyfriend just moved from Tennessee back to New York to live with his Dad and his new family ( his parents are divorced) we first met when we were in 7th grade and we began to lose contact during the middle of freshmen year and didn't speak again until June 2010. He was in NY visiting September 2010 and we ended up hanging out talking about the past and both mentioned we had extreme crushes when we were younger - he never knew I liked him back. We kissed right before he left and kept in contact through facebook chat, texting, and phone calls. He finally decided to move back to NY for good & is currently here now. I know my boyfriend was a big partier back in Tennessee, huge parties tons of alcohol girls and hooking up. At the time we never really discussed exclusivity but due to the fact we kept in touch for 2 months waiting for him to return for Thanksgiving braek I knew a relationship was in the works. He mentioned a story about some girl he was once invovled with was ohdee drunk throwing herself on him trying to kiss him while he was midconversation with his friends. He said he was like pushing her off - but now that he mentioned that story I feel as if there were more of those situations. We were listening to Jonny Craig in his car recently and one verse goes "I have a queen why would settle for a fucking maid." and he said that's this song describes he's whole time away from me in Tennessee. question : Relating to my circumstancs the fact that I basically grew up with him - If you really liked a girl but knew distance was going to keep you away for a while would you hook up with other girls as long as she didn't know? I had mentioned to him that I waited for him for 3 months meaning no other guys but he really didn't say no I did absolutely nothing with any other girl.
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well im currently am...well was from today...in a long distance relationship, i hadnt seen her for 2 months, but i kept faithful to her, i didnt cheat and not meaning to sound vain, i have girls asking me to jump into bed with them quite a lot, but when a guy likes a girl a lot, or even loves a girl, he wont cheat and will stay faithful :) if you're confident he really likes you, then he will have stayed faithful, in my opinion, if he rejected it once, he probably rejected it all the times he had oppertunities :) hope i helped
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Long distance relationships can work but that depends on the people involved. I have seen them work out but in most cases they tend to fail. Most guys will hook up with another girl just because what you don't know won't hurt you and will deal with the consequences if or when they arise. You either trust him or not.
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The guy that is currently my boyfriend just moved from Tennessee back to New York to live with his Dad and his new family ( his parents are divorced) we first met when we were in 7th grade and we began to lose contact during the middle of freshmen year and didn't speak again until June 2010. He was in NY visiting September 2010 and we ended up hanging out talking about the past and both mentioned we had extreme crushes when we were younger - he never knew I liked him back. We kissed right before he left and kept in contact through facebook chat, texting, and phone calls. He finally decided to move back to NY for good & is currently here now. I know my boyfriend was a big partier back in Tennessee, huge parties tons of alcohol girls and hooking up. At the time we never really discussed exclusivity but due to the fact we kept in touch for 2 months waiting for him to return for Thanksgiving braek I knew a relationship was in the works. He mentioned a story about some girl he was once invovled with was ohdee drunk throwing herself on him trying to kiss him while he was midconversation with his friends. He said he was like pushing her off - but now that he mentioned that story I feel as if there were more of those situations. We were listening to Jonny Craig in his car recently and one verse goes "I have a queen why would settle for a fucking maid." and he said that's this song describes he's whole time away from me in Tennessee. question : Relating to my circumstancs the fact that I basically grew up with him - If you really liked a girl but knew distance was going to keep you away for a while would you hook up with other girls as long as she didn't know? I had mentioned to him that I waited for him for 3 months meaning no other guys but he really didn't say no I did absolutely nothing with any other girl.
Singles & Dating - 2 Answers
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well im currently am...well was from today...in a long distance relationship, i hadnt seen her for 2 months, but i kept faithful to her, i didnt cheat and not meaning to sound vain, i have girls asking me to jump into bed with them quite a lot, but when a guy likes a girl a lot, or even loves a girl, he wont cheat and will stay faithful :) if you're confident he really likes you, then he will have stayed faithful, in my opinion, if he rejected it once, he probably rejected it all the times he had oppertunities :) hope i helped
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Long distance relationships can work but that depends on the people involved. I have seen them work out but in most cases they tend to fail. Most guys will hook up with another girl just because what you don't know won't hurt you and will deal with the consequences if or when they arise. You either trust him or not.
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Friday, October 28, 2011
I moved out left roommate by herself?
So I moved out of my roommate apt On June 12th I paid all of June rent. I didn't get on her lease and didn't sign a lease with her. I was just there helping her out while she could get back on her feet I was there for eight months and things started off good but come about Jan thing started going down hill she didn't clean any thing any time she wanted to ask me stuff she did it threw facebook even know I was in the room next to hers. I work 10 hrs or more a day and she works from home and was always there but still never cleaned she had 2 cats and I had 1 and I since the time I moved in always paid for the cat food and cat litter. I ask her once to set down and have a meeting to discussed house choirs. She didn't want to and blew me off I have a dog also and she would lock my dog up in my room with out water and food and my room would get 92degress So I had to get my own place she lived like she was a pig or something. But now shes saying I need to find her a roommate and pay for July rent because its my job to find her a roommate I was nice enough to put it on craigslist for her with her number but my email I have 6 emails saying they have been trying to call her but she wont call them back. So I was wondering since I didn't sign the lease and I am not a sub leaser if she really has any right to ask me to pay for July rent I am in Memphis TN, Thank for your help
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No, she's being ridiculous. You have been more than fair and it's time that she learned to take care of herself.
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she has no right! she's just being lazy and stupid she has to look for one not you. you did enough by putting it on craigs list
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You were right to leave and if you have nothing legally binding you to her lease and you paid the rent for June you have nothing to worry about blow her off like she did you.Its her job to find someone who wants to live with her .you no longer live with her so its her place, her lease, and her problem.hope it helps:)
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You were allot nicer than any of my past roommates were. They took off without saying anything and no rent. I had to cover the whole months rent and find another roommate. This happened a few times. You did more than you needed to already.
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So I moved out of my roommate apt On June 12th I paid all of June rent. I didn't get on her lease and didn't sign a lease with her. I was just there helping her out while she could get back on her feet I was there for eight months and things started off good but come about Jan thing started going down hill she didn't clean any thing any time she wanted to ask me stuff she did it threw facebook even know I was in the room next to hers. I work 10 hrs or more a day and she works from home and was always there but still never cleaned she had 2 cats and I had 1 and I since the time I moved in always paid for the cat food and cat litter. I ask her once to set down and have a meeting to discussed house choirs. She didn't want to and blew me off I have a dog also and she would lock my dog up in my room with out water and food and my room would get 92degress So I had to get my own place she lived like she was a pig or something. But now shes saying I need to find her a roommate and pay for July rent because its my job to find her a roommate I was nice enough to put it on craigslist for her with her number but my email I have 6 emails saying they have been trying to call her but she wont call them back. So I was wondering since I didn't sign the lease and I am not a sub leaser if she really has any right to ask me to pay for July rent I am in Memphis TN, Thank for your help
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No, she's being ridiculous. You have been more than fair and it's time that she learned to take care of herself.
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she has no right! she's just being lazy and stupid she has to look for one not you. you did enough by putting it on craigs list
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You were right to leave and if you have nothing legally binding you to her lease and you paid the rent for June you have nothing to worry about blow her off like she did you.Its her job to find someone who wants to live with her .you no longer live with her so its her place, her lease, and her problem.hope it helps:)
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You were allot nicer than any of my past roommates were. They took off without saying anything and no rent. I had to cover the whole months rent and find another roommate. This happened a few times. You did more than you needed to already.
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Friday, October 14, 2011
My friend blocked me on facebook for no reason at all??? please read?
My friend blocked me on facebook for no reason at all??? please read?
So yesterday i was updating my wedding website to include my cousin who I asked to be a bridesmaid, and i went to get her picture off of facebook to add with a discription and i found she had blocked me, and i was shocked because i hadn't done anything to her. I asked her sister to check and she was still included on her friends list and so were a few other people. I had talked to her a few days ago and we were fine. I had even sent her a blackberry curve under the understand she would pay me on the 25th for the phone, anyways her sister came to stay at my place friday night and went out saturday night, I found out friday she had suffered a miscarriage *she has two older kids*, anyways i offered my moral support and stuff, but for no reason at all i see she was bad mouthing me to her sister and her sister told me all the things she says about me, I was quited shocked because she always so nice to me but she has been knowen to fib and talked trash about her own family so as shocked as i am i am not suprised. (anyways before people go well she had a miscarriage who cares about a phone i know its just a phone but we made an agreement that also cost me 600.00 dollars, and i basically gave it away,)\ so her sister messaged her and asked if she is not going to pay for thphone to please send it back to me she messages back i did not get the phone, and then she started on this rant about her sister being selfish and that she was being mean, and that she was not offering her moral support when she was we all were and then told her she waso nly being this way because she was with Amanda the fking btch, i was shocked because i truly have done nothing to provoce her in anyway, i know that her husbands family is very controlling and in her head she thinks she is friends with good charlotte *no joke she tells me all the time* and she really has an amazing imagination, and i understand miscarring can be a tramatic event but why take it out on me and, for another thing could she be jealous that i am getting married and have support her, she has no one where she is but could jealouy really act so out of character when i tried to call her to discuss these things she hangs up on me before she says anything, please advice form mature adults
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She might have thought that you don't want her to be your bridesmaid. She could have got the wrong idea.
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Leave her alone. Whether she has a miscarriage or not,she shows her true feelings toward you. You can be nice and polite around her but stop having any kind of personal and deep relationship with her. She will hurt you again becauseshedon't really like you. Jealousy, envy, difference, misunderstanding, whatever it is be sorry for her and move on. This happened to me too and I just moved on and it is way better. A friend who I confided in one really bad day,went to a family member and told on me... That family member wrecked theall family and never told her what she was told. Problems occured for a year...in the end,we reconciled and that person will face the truth of her badmouthing one day. Be where love,honesty and good people are...leavethe rest alone!
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It sounds like high school drama. YOu just need to let her be angry at someone else because it is going to be your big day and she is trying to get empathy. Just let her work it out. If she doesn't, just confront her about it with a little support.
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ok so i think that she might be jealous of you getting married. but i think shes really heart-broken that she had a miscarriage.It takes time for her to heal, so what you should have done would have been to give her time to heal id say about a month, then talk to her. Shes also probably jealous that you can get pregnant and not her.
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Well just leave her be it's obvious she doesn't want to talk to you so ya and if keep tryin to talk to her wen she's already pissed at u ur going to make her have a bf=bitch flip.
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So yesterday i was updating my wedding website to include my cousin who I asked to be a bridesmaid, and i went to get her picture off of facebook to add with a discription and i found she had blocked me, and i was shocked because i hadn't done anything to her. I asked her sister to check and she was still included on her friends list and so were a few other people. I had talked to her a few days ago and we were fine. I had even sent her a blackberry curve under the understand she would pay me on the 25th for the phone, anyways her sister came to stay at my place friday night and went out saturday night, I found out friday she had suffered a miscarriage *she has two older kids*, anyways i offered my moral support and stuff, but for no reason at all i see she was bad mouthing me to her sister and her sister told me all the things she says about me, I was quited shocked because she always so nice to me but she has been knowen to fib and talked trash about her own family so as shocked as i am i am not suprised. (anyways before people go well she had a miscarriage who cares about a phone i know its just a phone but we made an agreement that also cost me 600.00 dollars, and i basically gave it away,)\ so her sister messaged her and asked if she is not going to pay for thphone to please send it back to me she messages back i did not get the phone, and then she started on this rant about her sister being selfish and that she was being mean, and that she was not offering her moral support when she was we all were and then told her she waso nly being this way because she was with Amanda the fking btch, i was shocked because i truly have done nothing to provoce her in anyway, i know that her husbands family is very controlling and in her head she thinks she is friends with good charlotte *no joke she tells me all the time* and she really has an amazing imagination, and i understand miscarring can be a tramatic event but why take it out on me and, for another thing could she be jealous that i am getting married and have support her, she has no one where she is but could jealouy really act so out of character when i tried to call her to discuss these things she hangs up on me before she says anything, please advice form mature adults
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She might have thought that you don't want her to be your bridesmaid. She could have got the wrong idea.
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Leave her alone. Whether she has a miscarriage or not,she shows her true feelings toward you. You can be nice and polite around her but stop having any kind of personal and deep relationship with her. She will hurt you again becauseshedon't really like you. Jealousy, envy, difference, misunderstanding, whatever it is be sorry for her and move on. This happened to me too and I just moved on and it is way better. A friend who I confided in one really bad day,went to a family member and told on me... That family member wrecked theall family and never told her what she was told. Problems occured for a year...in the end,we reconciled and that person will face the truth of her badmouthing one day. Be where love,honesty and good people are...leavethe rest alone!
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It sounds like high school drama. YOu just need to let her be angry at someone else because it is going to be your big day and she is trying to get empathy. Just let her work it out. If she doesn't, just confront her about it with a little support.
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ok so i think that she might be jealous of you getting married. but i think shes really heart-broken that she had a miscarriage.It takes time for her to heal, so what you should have done would have been to give her time to heal id say about a month, then talk to her. Shes also probably jealous that you can get pregnant and not her.
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Well just leave her be it's obvious she doesn't want to talk to you so ya and if keep tryin to talk to her wen she's already pissed at u ur going to make her have a bf=bitch flip.
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Friday, October 7, 2011
Friend blocked me on facebook and is trash talking me, for no reason??? please read?
Friend blocked me on facebook and is trash talking me, for no reason??? please read?
So yesterday i was updating my wedding website to include my cousin who I asked to be a bridesmaid, and i went to get her picture off of facebook to add with a discription and i found she had blocked me, and i was shocked because i hadn't done anything to her. I asked her sister to check and she was still included on her friends list and so were a few other people. I had talked to her a few days ago and we were fine. I had even sent her a blackberry curve under the understand she would pay me on the 25th for the phone, anyways her sister came to stay at my place friday night and went out saturday night, I found out friday she had suffered a miscarriage *she has two older kids*, anyways i offered my moral support and stuff, but for no reason at all i see she was bad mouthing me to her sister and her sister told me all the things she says about me, I was quited shocked because she always so nice to me but she has been knowen to fib and talked trash about her own family so as shocked as i am i am not suprised. (anyways before people go well she had a miscarriage who cares about a phone i know its just a phone but we made an agreement that also cost me 600.00 dollars, and i basically gave it away,)\ so her sister messaged her and asked if she is not going to pay for thphone to please send it back to me she messages back i did not get the phone, and then she started on this rant about her sister being selfish and that she was being mean, and that she was not offering her moral support when she was we all were and then told her she waso nly being this way because she was with Amanda the fking btch, i was shocked because i truly have done nothing to provoce her in anyway, i know that her husbands family is very controlling and in her head she thinks she is friends with good charlotte *no joke she tells me all the time* and she really has an amazing imagination, and i understand miscarring can be a tramatic event but why take it out on me and, for another thing could she be jealous that i am getting married and have support her, she has no one where she is but could jealouy really act so out of character when i tried to call her to discuss these things she hangs up on me before she says anything, please advice form mature adults
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I would go to her house and talk. Or attempt to talk. She's acting like a 3 year old. I know miscarriages are hard, but she's being mean to you for no reason whatsoever.
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She i problly menatly unstable thats what it sounds like to me if she thinks good chrlotte is her friend shes gotta be crazy hello!?!?! ko co ko co and she shouldnt be talking like that she needs help asap!
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to be honest she sounds like she might need some professional help, maybe you could suggest to a family member some counciling or get a doctor to check her out, (i've had experience with a person with a mental illness and they can act in the most unpredictable ways and no matter how hard you question the motives behind their actions they may never make sense.) and then deal with the buisness of the phone afterwards, people do things that make no sense whatsoever when they are under extraordinary amounts of stress which could be brought on by controlling inlaws and the miscarriage. she'll probably be experiencing all kinds of emotions on account of the miscarriage that she may not understand properly if you get what i mean, if jealousy is the one emotion she can get her head round then that could explain why she is taking it out on you, hope this helped xx
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So yesterday i was updating my wedding website to include my cousin who I asked to be a bridesmaid, and i went to get her picture off of facebook to add with a discription and i found she had blocked me, and i was shocked because i hadn't done anything to her. I asked her sister to check and she was still included on her friends list and so were a few other people. I had talked to her a few days ago and we were fine. I had even sent her a blackberry curve under the understand she would pay me on the 25th for the phone, anyways her sister came to stay at my place friday night and went out saturday night, I found out friday she had suffered a miscarriage *she has two older kids*, anyways i offered my moral support and stuff, but for no reason at all i see she was bad mouthing me to her sister and her sister told me all the things she says about me, I was quited shocked because she always so nice to me but she has been knowen to fib and talked trash about her own family so as shocked as i am i am not suprised. (anyways before people go well she had a miscarriage who cares about a phone i know its just a phone but we made an agreement that also cost me 600.00 dollars, and i basically gave it away,)\ so her sister messaged her and asked if she is not going to pay for thphone to please send it back to me she messages back i did not get the phone, and then she started on this rant about her sister being selfish and that she was being mean, and that she was not offering her moral support when she was we all were and then told her she waso nly being this way because she was with Amanda the fking btch, i was shocked because i truly have done nothing to provoce her in anyway, i know that her husbands family is very controlling and in her head she thinks she is friends with good charlotte *no joke she tells me all the time* and she really has an amazing imagination, and i understand miscarring can be a tramatic event but why take it out on me and, for another thing could she be jealous that i am getting married and have support her, she has no one where she is but could jealouy really act so out of character when i tried to call her to discuss these things she hangs up on me before she says anything, please advice form mature adults
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I would go to her house and talk. Or attempt to talk. She's acting like a 3 year old. I know miscarriages are hard, but she's being mean to you for no reason whatsoever.
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She i problly menatly unstable thats what it sounds like to me if she thinks good chrlotte is her friend shes gotta be crazy hello!?!?! ko co ko co and she shouldnt be talking like that she needs help asap!
3 :
to be honest she sounds like she might need some professional help, maybe you could suggest to a family member some counciling or get a doctor to check her out, (i've had experience with a person with a mental illness and they can act in the most unpredictable ways and no matter how hard you question the motives behind their actions they may never make sense.) and then deal with the buisness of the phone afterwards, people do things that make no sense whatsoever when they are under extraordinary amounts of stress which could be brought on by controlling inlaws and the miscarriage. she'll probably be experiencing all kinds of emotions on account of the miscarriage that she may not understand properly if you get what i mean, if jealousy is the one emotion she can get her head round then that could explain why she is taking it out on you, hope this helped xx
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Saturday, October 1, 2011
My ex broke up with me (I STILL LOVE HIM) and wants nothing to do with me, how do I forget him!!!?
My ex broke up with me (I STILL LOVE HIM) and wants nothing to do with me, how do I forget him!!!?
I met my ex on a Middle Eastern Dating website, we talked on the phone for a week, he flew to Boston a few times to see me since he was living in Ohio trying to start his career as a doctor. Everything went great, the chemistry was there, he met my family, my friends, even my BOSS....I fell in love with him so fast, and he claimed to have the same feelings for me...we even decided he would have his family go to my family and ask for my hand (thats how our culture does it) On Thursday December 4th, I was talking to him online from work like we usually did and we started discussing the wedding, me moving to Ohio and everything seemed great. Later on that afternoon, he came online and was absolutely livid!! He told me he had gone on my FACEBOOK account and read past messages from a guy I had never met, and the messages were from a year and 3 months ago!!!! The messages included pet names,somewhat sexual content and sometimes hinted towards us meeting and maybe getting married. BELIEVE ME, I HAVE NO REASON TO LIE RIGHT NOW, I WASNT GOING TO MARRY THIS GUY, I WAS 22 AT THE TIME, IM 24 NOW, AND WAS JUST BEING IMMATURE. Needless to say, he confronted me with this information and told me I must talk to all guys like this etc. I told him that wasnt true, and that I had never met him and that I was younger and most importantly, a year and 3 months ago, I didnt know he was existant and he didnt know I was either, so how can he judge me for that!!???? DOESNT EVERYONE HAVE A PAST?? Keep in mind, this whole convo took place on MSN. He went on to block me on MSN, on Facebook, and 3 days later, changed his phone number!!!!!!!! I e mailed him a few times, first asking him why he did what he did,he responded that he had thought long and hard about it and made a final decision, so I left it alone for about 2 days and then couldnt help but e mail him again, this time I went on to the hate e mails, because like we all know, sometimes a girl uses her emotions before her mind!! He e mailed me telling me how much I hurt him in the e mails and that now there really was no chance of getting back together. I emailed him telling him that words are words, but his actions spoke a lot louder than my words...breakingf up with me, blocking me, refusing to communicate with me, changing his number, literally talking to me about marriage 4 hours before he so abruptly and insensitively broke up with me ONLINE. He went on to e mail me a few days later, this time telling me it wasnt my PAST....it was my behavior when I got upset and my reaction every time he mentioned his family. Keep in mind, I do have a temper sometimes, but have a great heart and neverrrrr hold a grudge, and he knew this very well. In regards to hsi family, I never showed anything other than respect for his family and they liked me a lot actually and I liked them. I feel like he just came up with excuses to break up with me,but his actions when he came to Boston both times were so the opposite, just full of love and affection and the way he looked at me was so loving, that I cant believe he broke up with me. It's been a month now, I still love him, I think about him, I even cry at times, but I know I need to move on, because he was able to give up on an entire future so quickly and that killed me....PLEASE HELP AND GIVE ME ADVICE!!!! </3
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girl i so know how u feel my ex told me he loved me one day and the next asked if we could be friend....but now i try to talk to him he hates me now. i cried forever but ya GL.
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I met my ex on a Middle Eastern Dating website, we talked on the phone for a week, he flew to Boston a few times to see me since he was living in Ohio trying to start his career as a doctor. Everything went great, the chemistry was there, he met my family, my friends, even my BOSS....I fell in love with him so fast, and he claimed to have the same feelings for me...we even decided he would have his family go to my family and ask for my hand (thats how our culture does it) On Thursday December 4th, I was talking to him online from work like we usually did and we started discussing the wedding, me moving to Ohio and everything seemed great. Later on that afternoon, he came online and was absolutely livid!! He told me he had gone on my FACEBOOK account and read past messages from a guy I had never met, and the messages were from a year and 3 months ago!!!! The messages included pet names,somewhat sexual content and sometimes hinted towards us meeting and maybe getting married. BELIEVE ME, I HAVE NO REASON TO LIE RIGHT NOW, I WASNT GOING TO MARRY THIS GUY, I WAS 22 AT THE TIME, IM 24 NOW, AND WAS JUST BEING IMMATURE. Needless to say, he confronted me with this information and told me I must talk to all guys like this etc. I told him that wasnt true, and that I had never met him and that I was younger and most importantly, a year and 3 months ago, I didnt know he was existant and he didnt know I was either, so how can he judge me for that!!???? DOESNT EVERYONE HAVE A PAST?? Keep in mind, this whole convo took place on MSN. He went on to block me on MSN, on Facebook, and 3 days later, changed his phone number!!!!!!!! I e mailed him a few times, first asking him why he did what he did,he responded that he had thought long and hard about it and made a final decision, so I left it alone for about 2 days and then couldnt help but e mail him again, this time I went on to the hate e mails, because like we all know, sometimes a girl uses her emotions before her mind!! He e mailed me telling me how much I hurt him in the e mails and that now there really was no chance of getting back together. I emailed him telling him that words are words, but his actions spoke a lot louder than my words...breakingf up with me, blocking me, refusing to communicate with me, changing his number, literally talking to me about marriage 4 hours before he so abruptly and insensitively broke up with me ONLINE. He went on to e mail me a few days later, this time telling me it wasnt my PAST....it was my behavior when I got upset and my reaction every time he mentioned his family. Keep in mind, I do have a temper sometimes, but have a great heart and neverrrrr hold a grudge, and he knew this very well. In regards to hsi family, I never showed anything other than respect for his family and they liked me a lot actually and I liked them. I feel like he just came up with excuses to break up with me,but his actions when he came to Boston both times were so the opposite, just full of love and affection and the way he looked at me was so loving, that I cant believe he broke up with me. It's been a month now, I still love him, I think about him, I even cry at times, but I know I need to move on, because he was able to give up on an entire future so quickly and that killed me....PLEASE HELP AND GIVE ME ADVICE!!!! </3
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girl i so know how u feel my ex told me he loved me one day and the next asked if we could be friend....but now i try to talk to him he hates me now. i cried forever but ya GL.
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