My ex broke up with me (I STILL LOVE HIM) and wants nothing to do with me, how do I forget him!!!?
I met my ex on a Middle Eastern Dating website, we talked on the phone for a week, he flew to Boston a few times to see me since he was living in Ohio trying to start his career as a doctor. Everything went great, the chemistry was there, he met my family, my friends, even my BOSS....I fell in love with him so fast, and he claimed to have the same feelings for me...we even decided he would have his family go to my family and ask for my hand (thats how our culture does it) On Thursday December 4th, I was talking to him online from work like we usually did and we started discussing the wedding, me moving to Ohio and everything seemed great. Later on that afternoon, he came online and was absolutely livid!! He told me he had gone on my FACEBOOK account and read past messages from a guy I had never met, and the messages were from a year and 3 months ago!!!! The messages included pet names,somewhat sexual content and sometimes hinted towards us meeting and maybe getting married. BELIEVE ME, I HAVE NO REASON TO LIE RIGHT NOW, I WASNT GOING TO MARRY THIS GUY, I WAS 22 AT THE TIME, IM 24 NOW, AND WAS JUST BEING IMMATURE. Needless to say, he confronted me with this information and told me I must talk to all guys like this etc. I told him that wasnt true, and that I had never met him and that I was younger and most importantly, a year and 3 months ago, I didnt know he was existant and he didnt know I was either, so how can he judge me for that!!???? DOESNT EVERYONE HAVE A PAST?? Keep in mind, this whole convo took place on MSN. He went on to block me on MSN, on Facebook, and 3 days later, changed his phone number!!!!!!!! I e mailed him a few times, first asking him why he did what he did,he responded that he had thought long and hard about it and made a final decision, so I left it alone for about 2 days and then couldnt help but e mail him again, this time I went on to the hate e mails, because like we all know, sometimes a girl uses her emotions before her mind!! He e mailed me telling me how much I hurt him in the e mails and that now there really was no chance of getting back together. I emailed him telling him that words are words, but his actions spoke a lot louder than my words...breakingf up with me, blocking me, refusing to communicate with me, changing his number, literally talking to me about marriage 4 hours before he so abruptly and insensitively broke up with me ONLINE. He went on to e mail me a few days later, this time telling me it wasnt my PAST....it was my behavior when I got upset and my reaction every time he mentioned his family. Keep in mind, I do have a temper sometimes, but have a great heart and neverrrrr hold a grudge, and he knew this very well. In regards to hsi family, I never showed anything other than respect for his family and they liked me a lot actually and I liked them. I feel like he just came up with excuses to break up with me,but his actions when he came to Boston both times were so the opposite, just full of love and affection and the way he looked at me was so loving, that I cant believe he broke up with me. It's been a month now, I still love him, I think about him, I even cry at times, but I know I need to move on, because he was able to give up on an entire future so quickly and that killed me....PLEASE HELP AND GIVE ME ADVICE!!!! </3
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girl i so know how u feel my ex told me he loved me one day and the next asked if we could be friend....but now i try to talk to him he hates me now. i cried forever but ya GL.
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