Please Help Soon, I am just overwhelmed!!!?
My BF said he needed time to study for his Final Exam, which he has been excluded from. Though we both thought it to be a good idea to take it to see what he has retained. The problem is, he spends most of his time playing on the internet instead of studying. Tonight I called him, because I missed him so much. I spent the day with the daughter of my Ex of 11 years. She is like my daughter and he is my best friend and family considering I have no biological family. He gets along well with my current BF and evens helps him if needed. I became upset with my bf because last night he told me I could not snuggle with him because he had to study until Tuesday, instead I found out he has been playing on the internet instead of studying. This made me feel a bit unwanted. He then became angry and blamed it all on me, saying I do not respect him. I RESPECT DIRECTNESS, LOYALTY AND HONESTY. He made a comment that hurt the feeling of my ex's daughter who is 12 years old. My bf and her spent two days together playing video games until daylight both time and she stayed at his home and he enjoyed as much or more than her. When I questioned his hurting her feelings, he said he did not care, "she is not my daughter". No she is not, but she is a 12 yo child with feelings. I am not concerned that he needs alone time, just tell the truth as to why you need it. I even let him go to bars alone when I am at my newly purchased condo (that I purchased with my ex due to financial reasons. Before the purchase I discussed this with my current bf and it is all okay with him. I love this guy, but am overwhelmed that, I am sometimes blocked from seeing his Facebook, He shows no pics of us on his FB, hides them from everyone. He only shows himself shirtless, his cat and his accomplishments. What do you think? 21 minutes ago - 4 days left to answer. Additional Details I will go as far to say that I have seen many email between my bf and his ex of 3 years. He treated him the same. WHen his is out with friends, even one he met just days ago, I am ignored until he has time. He tells his friends negative things about me and then expects me to want to hang out with them after he tells me they do not like me, though they have never met me... He has been caught kissing guys in the bar ( 3 times)when I was back home visiting my ma. Went to a guys home at 2 am he met in the bar and said it was to make a new friend. This guy had his hand on my BF's back the whole night. He lied at first then came clean when I questioned it. I honestly believe in my heart he has never done anything more. I always want him to put himself first. This is why I help him gain his independence (own apt, own car, etc.) For the record, I do not think he has cheated. Yet his actions are not appropriate. For some odd reason he thinksI want to prevent him from finishing school, when all I ever do is want him to achieve all of his dreams and goals.
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1 :
Your boyfriend is a total jerk. Break off with him. Today. A week from now you will be so glad you did. There are lots of good ones out there waiting for you.
2 :
I see you've gotten yourself into a lot of drama here, Well i think your boyfriend shows a lack of sensitivity and kindness, don't you think you'd be better off with someone who is kind and warm hearted? Don't settle with something that you don't want, go for what you really want. You have feelings of love for him but i think if the feeling were so mutual then he would behave in a much more decent manner, and the fact that he hides so much from you really makes me wonder what's going on with him. I think it would be best if you left him, otherwise your going to end up many years down the line betrayed or unsatisfied. I do not like the way he treats you and how he disses you in front of his friends. It may be painful to leave someone that you've been with for such a time but its now or never, im sure there are many more, much more lovely men to be with then him.
3 :
This guy talks about respecting him and gives 0 to you. He should not be saying anything about your daughter to hurt her feelings, and saying shes not his daughter so he doesnt care is ridiculous. Your boyfriend is off kissing guys whilst your not around, do you really trust this guy? I think you should sit down and have a think about what you want out of this relationship because this guy sounds like an a**.
4 :
That guy is crazy and I don't undertstand why you are with him.
5 :
He must be really hung for you to keep hanging on to him.
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