Please Help Soon, I am just overwhelmed!!!?
My BF said he needed time to study for his Final Exam, which he has been excluded from. Though we both thought it to be a good idea to take it to see what he has retained. The problem is, he spends most of his time playing on the internet instead of studying. Tonight I called him, because I missed him so much. I spent the day with the daughter of my Ex of 11 years. She is like my daughter and he is my best friend and family considering I have no biological family. He gets along well with my current BF and evens helps him if needed. I became upset with my bf because last night he told me I could not snuggle with him because he had to study until Tuesday, instead I found out he has been playing on the internet instead of studying. This made me feel a bit unwanted. He then became angry and blamed it all on me, saying I do not respect him. I RESPECT DIRECTNESS, LOYALTY AND HONESTY. He made a comment that hurt the feeling of my ex's daughter who is 12 years old. My bf and her spent two days together playing video games until daylight both time and she stayed at his home and he enjoyed as much or more than her. When I questioned his hurting her feelings, he said he did not care, "she is not my daughter". No she is not, but she is a 12 yo child with feelings. I am not concerned that he needs alone time, just tell the truth as to why you need it. I even let him go to bars alone when I am at my newly purchased condo (that I purchased with my ex due to financial reasons. Before the purchase I discussed this with my current bf and it is all okay with him. I love this guy, but am overwhelmed that, I am sometimes blocked from seeing his Facebook, He shows no pics of us on his FB, hides them from everyone. He only shows himself shirtless, his cat and his accomplishments. What do you think? I will go as far to say that I have seen many email between my bf and his ex of 3 years. He treated him the same. WHen his is out with friends, even one he met just days ago, I am ignored until he has time. He tells his friends negative things about me and then expects me to want to hang out with them after he tells me they do not like me, though they have never met me... He has been caught kissing guys in the bar ( 3 times)when I was back home visiting my ma. Went to a guys home at 2 am he met in the bar and said it was to make a new friend. This guy had his hand on my BF's back the whole night. He lied at first then came clean when I questioned it. I honestly believe in my heart he has never done anything more. I always want him to put himself first. This is why I help him gain his independence (own apt, own car, etc.) For the record, I do not think he has cheated. Yet his actions are not appropriate. For some odd reason he thinksI want to prevent him from finishing school, when all I ever do is want him to achieve all of his dreams and goals.
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1 :
i think hes been cheating on you
2 :
The writing is on the wall. But, you care not to read it. Baby, you talking about the down low. You are on a ride faster than nascar. Undo these tie-es, an get some closer. Move on.
3 :
Why punish yourself with this loser? Move on.
4 :
He's not giving you what, so why bother with him anymore? He's shady, and ask yourself if you're willing to put up with that or not. His shirtless FB pic and accomplishments list says it all: he's in love with himself, more than anyone, and you can see it in his actions.
5 :
Ciome on kids grow up and smell the coffee..Your BF is either stupid or not interested ,your Exs daughter should not be left with him .... Stop getting involved with blokes just date nice lads and enjoy your tender years Mr Right will turn up when you are not looking for a relationship yes never trust anyone who uses social networking sites ..Dont live a life of texting and mobile phones
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