This guy always backs away in a one step forward, two steps back kind of way.?
We're eighteen and go to the same college and have been dating for the last couple months. He's always so sweet and amazing... when I'm with him. but everytime we hit a milestone, he backs away. What gives? For example: When he took me on our first real date, he begged me to stay longer, see him the next day, etc... Then he didn't call me for a week. When he had me meet his friends, it went super well, he was pretty much attached to me the entire time, he was so cute and sweet, and begged me to stay longer.... then didn't call for a week. When he came to my formal with me, it went so well, he was so boyfriendy and made friends with everyone, it was so perfect... didn't call for almost a week. Same goes for the first time we slept together. We're both home for our winter break right now, and last week, he drove the TWO HOURS and ditched his friends for New Years to come stay at my house and be with me on New Years and even meet all of my friends AND MY PARENTS. He tried super hard to get everyone to like him (they did), he was so amazing, he didn't want to leave the next day and we spent almost the whole day together, it was so perfect. We even discussed about how we're exclusive (we never talked about it before, I had just assumed). But he's still not my BOYFRIEND, and even though I don't want to be so into labels, I really do want that validation of our relationship. And I haven't heard from him since he left last Friday. Granted, he is taking a class over break and started school today (Monday) so this past weekend were his last days with his family. He hasn't been on Facebook at all either, so I know he's not just sitting there bored. He's probably busy. But still - how can he be too busy to call me for two seconds!? What gives? Oh also: he's never had a real girlfriend. Is he not calling because he's worried I'll smother him? What do I do?
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Ok the best thing I can tell you is to give it time. Maybe he is to busy with school and other things. You should give it a week. I am sure he will come around. I mean he tried this hard to impress your parents and he brings you around his friends. He is not embarrassed of you. Those are all good things and he is definitely into you. If I may throw in the guy I slept with was actually on new years eve and he was my first. Right now it hurts so much because we decided to keep it as friends. And it hurt because he was my first and tries to make me feel bad. So if you think this guy is the right one think twice and be sure he is not gonna hurt you.
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