What's going on between us? Is it over?
Let's call him A. So A and myself met around this time last year when we're auditioning for band in our new college. Both of us eventually got in and from there, we've gradually became best of friends/best buddies. Since then also, he's become a major part of my life as he's never failed to bring laughter whenever i'm with him. So after many months later, playful cupid decided to shoot love arrows on us, and so we've began dating. We have agreed that what both of us wanted in this r/s is to settled down in a stable r/s and no more dramatic love story. Everything was just so perfect and in place, and we even discussed our future. Very comfortable with each other and we laughter never fail to end our day. Though he's my 4th boyfriend but it's my first time falling in love with my best friend/best buddies. We have seen each others family and also each others' friends, everything seem so fine. Though we broke up on our first month (due to some misunderstanding) , we got back together as he said that after letting me go , he realized that i am very important to him and he couldn't afford to lose me. Like wise, i felt the same. Things got better and we continue our love story, and he's as sweet as ever. Sometime ago, we couldn't meet each other for around 10 days because he's working part time and i have my own commitment in band as there's performance coming right up. First few days of that 10 days period were alright and like as usual, though we couldn't meet but we texted from day to night and we're always on each others' mind. But soon enough everything turned sour, harsh words used on each other. I blamed myself even now that if i hadn't use these words on him, we'll still be happily together now. Anyway we have decided to give each other some time to think about us . After near 2 days of not communicating , he suggested we should just be friends. I was devastated and couldn't understand why. It has been days now and i've tried consoling myself that if that's what he wanted and if he's happy, i should be happy for him as well.But sometime, i can't help but to tear up because he left me with so much to remember.I still check his facebook page and his statuses , but i don't get it. He posted (over a few days period till now ) sad music video , then on his status he posted "Regret." , "my mind is in a mess now." , "felt so much better. ^^", "I confess.I miss you." . Now that the 10 days part time job is over, he still haven't text me ever since we broke up on saturday and not even a call. I assume he doesn't want me and no longer care about me anymore , but i still believe he patronize my personal blog. But why is his statuses so contradicting. What's exactly on his mind? What's happening to us? What should i do? Thanks for reading. Please help me.
Singles & Dating - 3 Answers
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1 :
Well this is actually quite a difficult one. He misses you, but it's common to miss someone after a break-up (regardless of who breaks up with who). As for discussions about your future, he must be quite an unusual specimen if he open discusses his future with you. Quite often a guy will talk about his future with a girl only if she brings it up, he feels like he needs to, she pressures him to, etc. Especially among college kids. In all honesty it might be best to play the field a little bit. Go out and enjoy being single for a little bit. He dumped you... you might as well make the most of it. And hey, you might even consider homosexuality! (jk)
2 :
U need to pack a bowl and blaze it girl he's gone :/
3 :
its quite... um, complicated. i think u should meet up with him and ask him whats wrong.
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