Why Is He Ignoring Me?
A couple of weeks ago I hung out with this guy and he stayed over my house for a few days. We hung out with my friends just to introduce him to them so we went to dinner together and watched a movie. The next day we ended up going to the zoo and later that night he left so that was the last time I saw him. I have been seeing this guy for over three years and basically its just an open ended relationship. A couple of times he wanted to discuss our 'relationship' because was at a point worried that he was going to lose me and said he couldn't sleep with anyone else. Also he has asked me to move in with him at a point and once asked me to his girlfriend but that was when he was drunk. I didn't know how to take it so I asked to ask me another time because he was really wasted. So we do act like a couple around others like kiss, hold hands, cuddle, and ect. After that I haven't really heard from him since. Except he sent me an e-mail on facebook wishing me a happy birthday and asked if he left his charger at my place. I didn't have his charger and then I asked him if he wanted to see a certain movie. But he said no and instead he wanted to see Harry Potter which comes out this week but at that time it was coming out in two weeks. So it was a really long period to wait and see each other. Finally I started talking to him this Sunday asking if we were still going to the movie but he said "yeah sure but idk about opening night because it will be packed." I then replied back asking what day we should go and also asked him if he would like to come over. I haven't gotten a reply and its been a few days! I know thats not really a long waiting period but he's been on facebook. He updates his status like about his phone and how he was getting a new charger last Friday. Thats why I didn't call him because his phone couldn't be charged. Also recently he put a quote saying "Meeting you was fate, becoming your friend was a choice, but falling in love with you was beyond my control." I honestly don't think thats for me and I have no idea what is going on. Like did I do something? did he find someone? I have no idea what to do in a situation where the guy is clearly online but won't reply to my message. Please Help?
Singles & Dating - 3 Answers
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1 :
Stop caring. Stop caring about everything. Nothing in the world is good.
2 :
Tell him you want to discuss your relationship in person and have him come meet your somewhere (if its as far as i think maybe a small meeting point halfway). If he has found another person then i am sorry for the pain you have went through but if it's not he may just be having cold feet
3 :
This is going no where. Why would you waste your time on fretting and typing about someone who is not interested in you. You are special. Go out with friends and socialize. You will meet someone ready to have fun.
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