Should I be concerned or am i being stupid?
i am going out with this one guy who i really really have feelings for. we've been going out for 2 weeks almost. one day we were talking about ex-girlfriends(which i clearly is not the best topic to discuss with a new bf) and the conversation went to whats the longest relationship you've been in and his reply was 3 months. so naturally in a total casual way i asked who it was. and he put her name with a smiley face and nothing else. i found it rather odd and on her facebook there is a couple pictures where hes commented on them saying stuff like "OMG YOUR GORGEOUS" and "I missss u so much!" he put these comments on before we were going out but i cant help but feel he still may have feelings for her. am i wrong and am i thinking into it too much? because when i brought up if he still had feelings for any past relationships he said no, but its not like i was really expecting a yes out of him. no im not going out of my way to stalk anyone and their pictures, the only reason why i noticed is because she was my friend too that i haven't seen in awhile and i was going to comment on one of her pictures and happened to see it. i don't want to bring it up again because ill feel noisy. what should i do? i don't know how to feel about this. but i cant help but feel a slight bit of jealousy. mind u, they went out almost 3 years ago but the comment were this year...
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1 :
Sounds fishy, don't give him your all untill your sure you are his no 1
2 :
Of course he probably still has feelings for her. I will be honest, two weeks is not very much and it would be very natural and normal for him to still have feelings for other girls. He has not had enough time to devote all of those emotions to you yet. Be patient and let it go unless you think he is cheating. Eventually, he will grow to like you more or less and you will either get stronger or break up.
3 :
He's commented on her and how she looks. He's gotta still have feelings for her or be wouldn't have written that
4 :
Whoa @ the massive wall of text you got there. My bf is on his ex's facebook. All you needed was seven words. And yes you're being stupid.
5 :
As u know no guy can forget the ex of his life nor a girl can do. Waht u need to do is if he's a really genuine guy who has feeings fr u and devotes all his time to u then u go ahead :) give him a chance. AND please dont let ur past bother ur present, it can be worse. all the best to u both.
6 :
First of all facebook stalking is normal lol! I should know because my fiance taught me how. I love the girl I am with to death but like you if something is bothering me I will work to fix it. When I met her I noticed the same things and didnt say anything. After a month or two I said something casual about why I never comment on her pics "because it looks weird with me commenting after your ex bf". As soon as I mentioned that she deleted everything and now almost two years later we are going to ge married and she is the best thing ever. But..... Those pics and comments had to go.
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