Am I sensitive? I hope girls answer me too?
I know a girl for a while now she is not my girlfriend but my favorite friend, and I know that she likes me a lot, she always texts me for hangouts, I ask/text much less for hangouts because I am shy. Well sometimes when I text her she either texts back late, or doesn’t reply and saying she didn’t receive anything. I don’t think she is lying because I see a lot of good signs from her for liking me her as she invites me for hangouts and tells me to be with her. Few weeks ago she went on training abroad and texted saying I miss you, which make believe she is not lying at all about receiving my texts, and I know that she is a good girl. For Example: Today I was planning to gather with very good friends of us, I texted her saying that "can you join us at that restaurant tonight?" but she didn't reply at all, while yesterday she texted me about "what about a brunch on friday?". Another Example, I texted her after I helped her in a social problem asked her "Do you feel better now after what happened and etc ?" the next few days she said I didn't receive anything. also After week I texted her for a gathering and she replied a bit late. I tried to discuss this issue with people online and specially with those I met today at the restaurant, it appeared that many people suffer from this negative feeling after texting, which is better the not replying. Also I she complains sometimes about her mobile (BlackBerry) for being not good, I even noticed her telling someone on facebook "If I only can get my mobile work properly". So what do you think the problem is? Do you think its normal? Do you think I am sensitive (Many people say that I am sensitive? please tell me anything this girl is my best friend :) Thank you in advance :)
Singles & Dating - 8 Answers
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1 :
Quit being such a pussy. Best regards, Nigel.
2 :
just chill out and stop trippin it's not cool. take a pill and everything will be ok, i promise =)
3 :
yeah grow a pair!
4 :
well if u LIKE her go after her, if not u can just stay at the position that u r at
5 :
She is just busy or has other things to do. I would agree that you are a bit sensitive. Try to chill and stay calm. I understand she is your best friend, but maybe she needs a little space.
6 :
no your just fine. you just need to relax take a breather and chill. she might just be busy is all. im the same way as you. i txt this guy i like all the time. sometimes he's too busy. sometimes he's not. either way i get excited. you know you can try waiting for her txt. then when she txts you. you wait for like 30 mins. if she txts again within that time she cares. hope i helped :)
7 :
obviously her phone service sucks
8 :
Well buddy, I'm no girl. I don't see how a crappy texting history can determine if your sensitive... It just shows that something is not coming through right. If you like the girl, and she likes you. You should ask her out, If your not in a previous relationship. But I'm sure your sensitive. If you want to know if you are.. Just pay attention to how you act. If you cry at a sad movie, then most likely. If you laugh at something important to others, then I would guess not. If you want to know if your too sensitive, well.. Thats for you to decide. I won't hurt people, So I'm called sensitive, but I'm in a happy relationship being who I am. Being sensitive is just how emotional you are, and how much you care for things. Its really judged by you. I'm sure you are, You sound nice. And Inviting her to things and being kind to her will show her that your nice and some what sensitive. But over all. I would say your a nice mix of not to sensitive, but not sensitive at all.
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