Looks like I'm losing this girl what should I do?
Girl I been talking to 3 months. We got on so good, but about a month ago she told me she didn't want a boyfriend but then she still kept flirting with me and still contacted me. We have got on very well and feel like bf/gf....we just laugh so much. When she looks at me her eyes are warm, she has a great time. I checked her Facebook mobile uploads and there is a pic of her hugging this guy, while her friend is taking the snap from her car. The guy has been messaging her FB flirty things, and she messages him back putting kisses and stuff. She does that with some guys but with him it seems more warm. It looked to romantic. His arms around her waist and hers around his neck. Not good. Last monday night we discussed possible doing something the next day although she was busy. I called the txt her the next day and she didn't respond. Then she txt me last Wednesday asking me if I was working. I gave her sweet txt in the evening and she responded and asked again if I was working for Thursday. My managers messed up my times so I never got to work with her. 5 days she didn't answer my calls. On friday I went to speak to her on facebook chat and she logged of right away. WTF! I log back on and she was on and went again. Today she was on the chat never logged out but never said anything. In person our chemistry is amazing. I managed to speak to her today and told her how I felt, I told her she is someone I would introduce to my family and I think we have a connection. She told me she doesn't know what she wants right now or who she wants to be with. She said she doesn't want anyone(me) to feel she is theirs, and act funny when she speaks to people. She says lots of guys ask her out and they want something serious but she isn't ready. After I mentioned it she reluctantly agreed with me we have a connection. I joked with her saying I worked hard at my job and need a reward she goes "go and get one then" I said "I don't need to go far" :S I said I'm bringing this up because we got to know eachother so we shouldn't let it go. She says "I'm not, but we didn't see eachother that much and this is only early" she said "if I have a relationship now it won't last long trust me" I felt like I was talking about it too deep about it and I told her "It could be a month or 2 or 3. Maybe you will be ready" she was like "yeaaaa I dunno" She felt awkward but we haven't had a chat about us in 4 weeks. She even put the phone down and when I called back said something happpened with her phone. She agreed to go to work with me on Thursday. What should I do? she is normally upbeat, but said she was stressed, she thinks single is boring but doesn't want a relationship. It's like 11 weeks of being an unoffical couple meant nothing.
Singles & Dating - 3 Answers
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1 :
She probably just wants a no strings attached relationship and obviously doesn't want to settle down yet. If that isn't what you want them you'll have to find somebody else or just wait until she's ready for that kind of a relationship.
2 :
Sorry, but she's just not that into you. Simple, if a girl wants someone she will go out and get them. She is keeping her options open with all these other men, and knows exactly what she's doing. Forget about her.
3 :
Please get the hint. She does not want to hurt your feelings but your persistence is making her have to put you off. Unfortunately your 11 weeks as an unofficial couple did not mean to her what it has to you.
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