(This is a big story) My cousin, forced to be closeted?
For years, I have had a mild sexual relationship with my cousin (we are both boys). He always wanted to blow me and he asked me to **** him, but I thought that was way too far. I must add here that he has kind of a feeble mind, not able to act very thoughtfully, generally of restricted perception (don't think that I ever took advantage over him). He lives in a town where people are very rustic and close-minded, trying to create relationships among them so that they remain a closed society and their belongings and money stay within their town. My cousin's father and generally all of his kin always tried to keep my cousin feeble-minded and as a "possession", an "item" to do their bidding if you will. My cousin has undergone so much fear and restriction that is even closeted to himself. He likes to think that there is always a "complicated relationship" with girls he adds on facebook, he has girl porn in his mobile and always makes "straight" comments about girls he sees. This is not himself. This is what he has been forced to think and has even believed it. He is himself, which is gay and feminine, only when we get "dirty" together. There he will talk to me about male actors or athletes he likes or stuff he thinks of but this is for a very short period. Note that me and my other cousin are the only boys he has ever been dirty with. They now want to marry him with a distant cousin of his so that the belongings of these two get joined and become a big sum (he recently received a big fat fortune from an aunt of his, lots of money and real estate). They will not ask him of course, they will brainwash and force him. Although I am not responsible for anything, I feel I have some bit of responsibility. Being closeted to my family myself, I can't preach for freedom for him. We were discussing this with my other cousin (that is a straight boy but likes a little guy blowjob once in a while) and we were saying that he will always be gloomy and depressed because this is not what he wants. He will one day know what he want and he will destroy his family for that. But then it will be a bad time. Do you think I can do something to stop this torture he undergoes, WITHOUT even understanding it? Weird thing is, he thinks this is a normal life he leads. He only thinks it is not when we get to talk ourselves together. He is gay. I did not assume myself that. He has been telling me. We are old enough, me being 18, he being 20. He can't move out alone, he can't even make a proper phonecall, his mind gets overloaded. Plus, he is a distant cousin, so no real incest there.
Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgendered - 4 Answers
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1 :
I hope you have considered that perhaps he is bisexual and you are the one who cannot face reality.
2 :
Uhm...having a "mild" sexual relationship with your own cousin is nasty. Incest is just wrong. Anyways, you didn't state how old you guys are?...If your old enough, then he needs to move out to a different part of the town where he can be his gay self and away from his family. If you guys are young just act normal if you know you'll both be ridiculed for it and wait until you are 18 to get out of there.
3 :
welll... its his life., he will eventually realized that his gay oone day. ajst give him time:)
4 :
Go to church as soon as you can. Not b/c of the homosexuality, but b/c you are screwing around with a family member. STOP ASAP. This is sick and disgusting.
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