Is he no longer interested?
We were chatting quite a bit via text. We met online through a dating website. He lives three hours away in Chicago, and I will be attending pharmacy school there in the fall. I was in town and we met for a first date. I thought it went really well, but he's been pretty quiet since then. He told me at the end of the date that he "wasn't sure when he was going to see me again." I texted him and he responded the next day about how he would like to get to know me better and when August rolls around we can discuss "something a little more serious." He keeps liking my status updates on facebook, and he responds if I contact him via text or on facebook. Is he no longer interested and just trying to politely get rid of me? If he is, should I let him know that I know he's trying to get rid of me? Should I just stop contacting him? Thanks for all of your help. Oh... and it takes him a lot longer to respond than it used to.
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1 :
You need to find out more about this guy before invest any more feeling on him. Honestly, I don't think he's single. I have seen something like this before. Really, he's a jerk. This is another time I would like to warn young girl like you about online dating. You fall in love with whatever the guy tells you, not the things you learn with all your senses.... better get real person in real life, girl.
2 :
It doesn't seem like he's trying to get rid of you, if he didn't want you in some way the he would of got rid I've you the day after he met you. If anything he's a little scared of the idea of having girls around. It's one of those things where you just have to give it time.
3 :
He is not interested in you and trying to politely to avoid you. Don't let him know that you know he was trying to get rid of you. It's too childish. I'm sure you are mature enough to see the sign. He actually already told you straight after your first date and he wasn't sure that he is going to see you again. That means he doesn't like you in a way you do. He was trying in a nice way that this isn't working. If it was me, I will stop contacting him. To make a relationship work you need 2 people in it not only 1 person who always make the effort :)
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