Is this love. . . . . . .?
This random guy added me to his Facebook account about 6 months ago and started flirting with me on Facebook like he would comment on my pictures, status etc. So, we became friends and then exchanged numbers. In our conversations, we discussed about our past experience in relationship. We came to realized that we both been through same stuff . To make it long story short; he confessed to me his feelings and asked me to visit him; which I denied. (he’s in Mexico and I am in USA ) He was pretty honest about everything about his past like he told me he was into drugs and has tried to commit a suicide etc and also he helped me with my resume. Since, I told him that I would not visit him he has stopped talking to me and I tried to talk to him through emails and text message. He would reply back text message right away but that’s about it and would not continue conversation. I asked him what’s bugging him he would say “nothing†and that’s it. I emailed him three times to break the ice and get him talking but still there’s no response from his side. My question is: His birthday is coming up- Do you think I should write him an another email and call him or just ask him again about his behavior ? or totally ignore him and wait for him to come and talk to me?
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1 :
Be careful. He may be trying to get to you because you're American, and may manipulate your status as a citizen in order to obtain citizenship... This is completely serious. Please take this into consideration before you do anything rash.
2 :
you havent met. and he is probably a paedophile somewhere. Its not love. sorry
3 :
The guy is a mess forget him you can find better people
4 :
Sounds to me like whatever he really wanted from you, he decided he wasnt going to get it. If he doesnt want to share the effort to maintain the relationship, don't keep emotionally investing unilaterally.
5 :
you don't know the guy who are sitting in front of the computer...so be care full i think it could be love...but i just don't believe in "love far" its useless well...that's my opinion
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