What should I do now?? He stopped talking to me & his b-day is coming up?
This random guy added me to his Facebook account about 6 months ago and started flirting with me on Facebook like he would comment on my pictures, status etc. So, we became friends and then exchanged numbers. In our conversations, we discussed about our past experience in relationship. We came to realized that we both been through same stuff . To make it long story short; he confessed to me his feelings and asked me to visit him; which I denied. (he’s in Mexico and I am in USA ) He was pretty honest about everything about his past like he told me he was into drugs and has tried to commit a suicide etc and also he helped me with my resume. Since, I told him that I would not visit him he has stopped talking to me and I tried to talk to him through emails and text message. He would reply back text message right away but that’s about it and would not continue conversation. I asked him what’s bugging him he would say “nothing†and that’s it. I emailed him three times to break the ice and get him talking but still there’s no response from his side. My question is: His birthday is coming up- Do you think I should write him an another email and call him or just ask him again about his behavior ? or totally ignore him and wait for him to come and talk to me?
Friends - 6 Answers
Random Answers, Critics, Comments, Opinions :
1 :
Option 3, if he comes back to you, totally ignore him. Sounds like dude isn't worth your time. Start talking to guys in your own town too.
2 :
Honestly I think he just wanted get with you just write happybirthday on hi fb wall
3 :
I would just ignore him. If he really wants to be your friend and misses you, then he will eventually contact you. If your email friendship isnt what hes looking for then thats his problem. No reason to chase after the friendship.
4 :
ignore him.. how can you like someone you havent met.. i think you need to find someone in your own town... i would be too scared seeing someone i have met on the internet.. remember what happened to that model girl that got acid thrown in her face? Ignore him and move on x delete him off facebook too.. good luck
5 :
Any guy who resorts to pursuing a girl on Facebook by commenting on her pics and stuff is a perv. 99% sure. I'd delete and block him. No offense, but Mexico kind of scares me...especially after reading about the crime over there...
6 :
Well, if you dont wanna feel guilty for ignoring him then y dun u call or message him on his birthday and ask what he want from you, continue being ur friend or ending it up. But frankly speaking, the best option is that you tell him y u find him v. irritating and end up after talking to him for the last time. From his point of view, he stopped talking to you coz he might be thinking it's a waste of time if you're not thinking to visit him atleast for short time and he's not willing to come over too. Well sweety, Long-distance relationship doesnt last long unless you know each other but you guys are totally strangers for each other. Let us know, what ever your final decision is......Good Luck
Read more other entries :
