Whats going on in his mind...?
This random guy added me to his Facebook account about 6 months ago and started flirting with me on Facebook like he would comment on my pictures, status etc. So, we became friends and then exchanged numbers. In our conversations, we discussed about our past experience in relationship. We came to realized that we both been through same stuff . To make it long story short; he confessed to me his feelings and asked me to visit him; which I denied. (he’s in Mexico and I am in USA ) He was pretty honest about everything about his past like he told me he was into drugs and has tried to commit a suicide etc and also he helped me with my resume. Since, I told him that I would not visit him he has stopped talking to me and I tried to talk to him through emails and text message. He would reply back text message right away but that’s about it and would not continue conversation. I asked him what’s bugging him he would say “nothing†and that’s it. I emailed him three times to break the ice and get him talking but still there’s no response from his side. My question is: His birthday is coming up- Do you think I should write him an another email and call him or just ask him again about his behavior ? or totally ignore him and wait for him to come and talk to me?
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1 :
he wants you to visit mexico because he is really a criminal posing as this loser guy. he wants you to go there so his gang can capture you and sell you as a prostitute on the black market
2 :
In his mind, he might've been thinking that you're the one. So of course you'd go and see him. When you told him no, you broke up his fantasy and snapped him back to reality. Sounds like he was expecting too much from you and didn't realize it. He won't talk to you because he's realized that it won't work... why should he bother? Don't mess with another email. Continuing to talk to him might give him the wrong idea. He might hold onto false hope that something exists between the two of you and might start asking you for more than you can provide. That, or he just doesn't want to be bothered. If this were an actual bf/ gf relationship, then more might need said. It isn't so don't do anything that might make it seem like one.
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