Is asking a question a "threat" ?
On Facebook, some one posted a poll that asked if Obama should be assassinated. The poll was taken down as soon as Facebook found out about it, and today, the Secret Service is "investigating the THREAT made against the President". Really?..... Is asking a question REALLY the same thing as making a threat? I remind you... this country was FOUNDED on the act of high treason, our Declaration of Independence CLEARLY STATES our right and duty to cast off a failing government, and our 2nd amendment gives us the RIGHT to have the guns necessary to do that very thing. Now... I am NOT saying it is time to revolt.... I am only stating the FACTS that in our government, the RIGHT to CONSIDER and DISCUSS such acts are our DUTY..... and I ask the question again.... should a "poll" (no matter how "radical") really be considered a "threat"?
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They were talking about killing someone, on something like facebook people can get the wrong idea. You could call it psychological warfare, if you're paranoid enough.
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Even after all Bush muddled F'ed up, I still never wished the man dead. I can see how posting a question such as this on a public forum would be considered a death threat
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You should probably only capitalize the first letter of a proper noun, the first letter of the first word of a sentence or an acronym. If I walked up to a person and asked them if I should punch them in the face I think they would find that threatening. If I asked a person if they wanted to die today, they would probably find that threatening as well. If I asked someone if I should sexually abuse children they would probably call the police. So yes, asking a question can be construed as a being a threat. Funny, though...Why did the secret service tell you about their investigation? Or are you taking someone's word for it.
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Best you be practical I would think, and not equate assassination with free speech. It's not protected speech to shout fire in a crowded building. I think you already know this. It's very obvious that this isn't just discussing something. I know you are not that naive. Inciting violence towards the person the nation freely elected is a grave and serious thing.
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Thursday, November 28, 2013
Thursday, November 14, 2013
What's going on between us? Is it over?
What's going on between us? Is it over?
Let's call him A. So A and myself met around this time last year when we're auditioning for band in our new college. Both of us eventually got in and from there, we've gradually became best of friends/best buddies. Since then also, he's become a major part of my life as he's never failed to bring laughter whenever i'm with him. So after many months later, playful cupid decided to shoot love arrows on us, and so we've began dating. We have agreed that what both of us wanted in this r/s is to settled down in a stable r/s and no more dramatic love story. Everything was just so perfect and in place, and we even discussed our future. Very comfortable with each other and we laughter never fail to end our day. Though he's my 4th boyfriend but it's my first time falling in love with my best friend/best buddies. We have seen each others family and also each others' friends, everything seem so fine. Though we broke up on our first month (due to some misunderstanding) , we got back together as he said that after letting me go , he realized that i am very important to him and he couldn't afford to lose me. Like wise, i felt the same. Things got better and we continue our love story, and he's as sweet as ever. Sometime ago, we couldn't meet each other for around 10 days because he's working part time and i have my own commitment in band as there's performance coming right up. First few days of that 10 days period were alright and like as usual, though we couldn't meet but we texted from day to night and we're always on each others' mind. But soon enough everything turned sour, harsh words used on each other. I blamed myself even now that if i hadn't use these words on him, we'll still be happily together now. Anyway we have decided to give each other some time to think about us . After near 2 days of not communicating , he suggested we should just be friends. I was devastated and couldn't understand why. It has been days now and i've tried consoling myself that if that's what he wanted and if he's happy, i should be happy for him as well.But sometime, i can't help but to tear up because he left me with so much to remember.I still check his facebook page and his statuses , but i don't get it. He posted (over a few days period till now ) sad music video , then on his status he posted "Regret." , "my mind is in a mess now." , "felt so much better. ^^", "I confess.I miss you." . Now that the 10 days part time job is over, he still haven't text me ever since we broke up on saturday and not even a call. I assume he doesn't want me and no longer care about me anymore , but i still believe he patronize my personal blog. But why is his statuses so contradicting. What's exactly on his mind? What's happening to us? What should i do? Thanks for reading. Please help me.
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Well this is actually quite a difficult one. He misses you, but it's common to miss someone after a break-up (regardless of who breaks up with who). As for discussions about your future, he must be quite an unusual specimen if he open discusses his future with you. Quite often a guy will talk about his future with a girl only if she brings it up, he feels like he needs to, she pressures him to, etc. Especially among college kids. In all honesty it might be best to play the field a little bit. Go out and enjoy being single for a little bit. He dumped you... you might as well make the most of it. And hey, you might even consider homosexuality! (jk)
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U need to pack a bowl and blaze it girl he's gone :/
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its quite... um, complicated. i think u should meet up with him and ask him whats wrong.
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Let's call him A. So A and myself met around this time last year when we're auditioning for band in our new college. Both of us eventually got in and from there, we've gradually became best of friends/best buddies. Since then also, he's become a major part of my life as he's never failed to bring laughter whenever i'm with him. So after many months later, playful cupid decided to shoot love arrows on us, and so we've began dating. We have agreed that what both of us wanted in this r/s is to settled down in a stable r/s and no more dramatic love story. Everything was just so perfect and in place, and we even discussed our future. Very comfortable with each other and we laughter never fail to end our day. Though he's my 4th boyfriend but it's my first time falling in love with my best friend/best buddies. We have seen each others family and also each others' friends, everything seem so fine. Though we broke up on our first month (due to some misunderstanding) , we got back together as he said that after letting me go , he realized that i am very important to him and he couldn't afford to lose me. Like wise, i felt the same. Things got better and we continue our love story, and he's as sweet as ever. Sometime ago, we couldn't meet each other for around 10 days because he's working part time and i have my own commitment in band as there's performance coming right up. First few days of that 10 days period were alright and like as usual, though we couldn't meet but we texted from day to night and we're always on each others' mind. But soon enough everything turned sour, harsh words used on each other. I blamed myself even now that if i hadn't use these words on him, we'll still be happily together now. Anyway we have decided to give each other some time to think about us . After near 2 days of not communicating , he suggested we should just be friends. I was devastated and couldn't understand why. It has been days now and i've tried consoling myself that if that's what he wanted and if he's happy, i should be happy for him as well.But sometime, i can't help but to tear up because he left me with so much to remember.I still check his facebook page and his statuses , but i don't get it. He posted (over a few days period till now ) sad music video , then on his status he posted "Regret." , "my mind is in a mess now." , "felt so much better. ^^", "I confess.I miss you." . Now that the 10 days part time job is over, he still haven't text me ever since we broke up on saturday and not even a call. I assume he doesn't want me and no longer care about me anymore , but i still believe he patronize my personal blog. But why is his statuses so contradicting. What's exactly on his mind? What's happening to us? What should i do? Thanks for reading. Please help me.
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Well this is actually quite a difficult one. He misses you, but it's common to miss someone after a break-up (regardless of who breaks up with who). As for discussions about your future, he must be quite an unusual specimen if he open discusses his future with you. Quite often a guy will talk about his future with a girl only if she brings it up, he feels like he needs to, she pressures him to, etc. Especially among college kids. In all honesty it might be best to play the field a little bit. Go out and enjoy being single for a little bit. He dumped you... you might as well make the most of it. And hey, you might even consider homosexuality! (jk)
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U need to pack a bowl and blaze it girl he's gone :/
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its quite... um, complicated. i think u should meet up with him and ask him whats wrong.
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Thursday, November 7, 2013
Honestly people.. this is a long one, but I really need advice?
Honestly people.. this is a long one, but I really need advice?
Okay. I'm dating my best friend. I've known him for 7 years, we've been best friends for 3 years, and we've been dating for just over 2 months. He was in a long term relationship, I think for 6-7 years, something like that. His ex went to France for a year for school, and dumped him over Facebook when she got there. This was last summer. Well, I had known that he had been depressed, but I didn't know why. A mutual acquaintance told me the story, and I was being a good friend and I was there for him. (for reference - and yes, this is relevant - he cheated on his ex with me on several occasions almost 4 years ago, and I've been hopelessly in love with him pretty much since I met him. Oh, and he's five years older than me) Well these events brought us much closer together. Almost every night he drove over to my neighborhood and we went on walks together, and on several occasions he spent the night with me. Eventually we started having sex again, and he ended up taking me on my first date. That night, he told me he wanted to be with me (two months after his ex left) and it took a little over a week before we actually became a couple. For the record, we're complete opposites. He's a theater nerd indie dude, kinda grungy and stuff. Very quiet and introverted. I'm just flat out wacky, kinda trendy, and loud. That's just the background information, which is necessary in this situation. Now, I know he's still bent out of shape over his ex. When we became a couple he said "well do you want to get hurt now or later?" (I had told him I was willing to take a chance, no matter how scared I am of getting hurt) and basically ended the subject of us becoming a couple (which btw took A LOT of discussing) with "this CANNOT affect our friendship" what is that supposed to mean? Am I the rebound chick? He's kind of a ladies man, and I'm ridiculously possessive and jealous. I'm mostly keeping my insanity to myself, just so I don't ruin anything. I expressed to him my concerns yesterday, which are: What am I to him? Rebound? Does he still talk to his ex? What happens between us when she comes back? Is he going to see her? Is he going to dump me to get back with her? I feel like I have to compete with her for his affection when she isn't even trying; she has a new boyfriend and IS IN EUROPE. In response to pretty much everything I said, all he responded with was "I haven't talked to her in weeks." .......okay!? What about everything else? He did agree that he can't blame me for thinking that way, which I find important on his part. Before we got together I was forcing myself to accept that it would never happen and that I just want him to be happy - with or without me. Well, now that we're an item, I can't quite tell what's going on with him. I don't want to be intrusive and ask him 20 questions, this is a new thing for me (dating a guy with a job and a car and that's significantly older than me and that isn't an abusive psychotic freak) and I'm walking on eggshells here, because I just don't want anything to go wrong. I want some insight from anyone who reads all of this - what do you see going on here? Do I have any reason to be jealous and crazy? I've already let my guard down - should I put the wall back up? What would you do if you were in a situation like this? PLEASE - please give me some insight. Anything would be helpful. Obviously I love him unconditionally. I know that it's worth it to be with him even if I get hurt in the end - but I'm so wary of it. The last thing he wants is to hurt me, and I honestly don't see a future for us. I'm taking the chance because I don't want to spend my life wondering "what if?" I want to know what people would do if they were in my shoes, or even his.
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sorry i dont have time to read all that :(
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Well.
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Give you some insight.....that's impossible. You and only you know your feelings for this guy...we don't Ask yourself if there is any future in this relationship together. l...personally would be walking away..... But this is your feelings that we are talking about.
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First thing you need to remember is that he cheated on his ex. Doesn't matter that it was with you, but that he cheated. Secondly, you need to ask yourself if you will be ok if he cheats on you. You should stay friends and keep intimacy out of it. If you cannot do that then you need to just stay away from him. I know you don't want to hear that, because you probably think HE IS THE ONE!! ...how many times I have heard that from my own daughters !! If you let him, he will hurt you later rather than sooner. It is your choice.
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Well you are the girl after a 6 year relationship, so yes you are the rebound. I personally wouldn't have gotten myself in that situation. I don't like the dude because he said "do you wanna be hurt now or later"... so I'm not sure, but just do what makes you happy.
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can you plzzzzzzz make your Q little short
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hmm, i read it all :D by the sounds of the conversation you had, he sounds like you either are the rebound girl or that he's not expecting anything too serious or long with you. by him saying that 'this CANNOT affect our friendship', i kinda get the vibe that he's expecting that it will end in one way or another? As for his response to your questions, he probably thinks that they are based on what their current stance with each other is, maybe he felt that by saying just that, he would get across that because they dont talk, he doesnt have feelings for her and that you arent the rebound. i see where the confusion comes in... maybe just try focusing on you two for now, try to forget about the ex, if you still feel that hes caught up on her even though shes not around, its probably time to talk to him about it again. hope that helped! x
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i did read all of it i think you might be right with your rebound girl theory. you'd been the other girl a few times, and then you were a shoulder to cry on. no lie not many girls wanna deal with a depressed guy. in that time he got even more used to you, and you were like the next best thing. and he told you that this CANNOT effect your friendship... in this context it sounds like hes saying that if he f*cks up like he thinks he will, then will you please forgive him and stay his friend. you should want someone who sees you as a priority instead of an option. and he clearly doesn't see you as a priority because he didn't really reassure you of any of your concerns did he? but its fair enough that you would have so many concerns. i mean he cheated on his gf of 6-7 years with you a few times, how do you know that he didn't hook up with other girls and how do you know that hes not cheating on you? straight up, you cannot expect him to not talk to his ex and you can't even really demand that (or so i think) because demands never go over well. he also can't really answer most of your questions definitely. see how can he promise you that hes not going to break up with you. does it matter if he breaks up with you for her or for someone else? girl you're an extrovert, you've definitely got this. i think it'd be in your best interest to break up with him. stay friends with him if you want but don't hook up with him anymore because the more you do, the more respect he loses for you. why would he take a relationship with you seriously if he can have fun with you without the work? i really don't mean to sound harsh i just don't think you're giving yourself enough credit. let the ladies man do his thing, he just got out of a serious relationship don't force him into another one. if he really wanted another serious relationship he'd be putting in way more effort. good luck :)
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Well first, i DON'T think you are a rebound girl. I understand why you would get jealous, i know i would. Try and put yourself in his situation, he was with this girl for years! She would have been a big part of his life. Yes he should turn all of his attention to his new girlfriend now (you) but sounds like he needs a little more time to fully get over her. I'm not saying he still loves her. But getting over a serious relationship is going to take time. You two being nothing alike sound like a good couple (: Be good to him to help him get over this girl, you can ask him the questions you have, about her and get his serious answer. I really hope it turns out good for you both, i know how good it is dating your best friend (: If it is meant to be it WILL be. Good luck! Try not to over think little things and stay positive. He's yours.
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I'm sorry but it sounds as though he may be using you until this other girl comes back, stringing you along while hoping his ex will want to pick up where they left off when she returns. I'm guessing he's deluding himself though if she broke up with him and has moved on. Why is he being evasive with his answers? Don't trust him if he can not give you straight answers. Trust your gut instincts. If you have worries after just 2 months as a couple, what will it be like in a year or 2 or when his ex does come back? Oh, and if can cheat on someone with you, he can, and most likely will, cheat with someone else on you.
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Okay. I'm dating my best friend. I've known him for 7 years, we've been best friends for 3 years, and we've been dating for just over 2 months. He was in a long term relationship, I think for 6-7 years, something like that. His ex went to France for a year for school, and dumped him over Facebook when she got there. This was last summer. Well, I had known that he had been depressed, but I didn't know why. A mutual acquaintance told me the story, and I was being a good friend and I was there for him. (for reference - and yes, this is relevant - he cheated on his ex with me on several occasions almost 4 years ago, and I've been hopelessly in love with him pretty much since I met him. Oh, and he's five years older than me) Well these events brought us much closer together. Almost every night he drove over to my neighborhood and we went on walks together, and on several occasions he spent the night with me. Eventually we started having sex again, and he ended up taking me on my first date. That night, he told me he wanted to be with me (two months after his ex left) and it took a little over a week before we actually became a couple. For the record, we're complete opposites. He's a theater nerd indie dude, kinda grungy and stuff. Very quiet and introverted. I'm just flat out wacky, kinda trendy, and loud. That's just the background information, which is necessary in this situation. Now, I know he's still bent out of shape over his ex. When we became a couple he said "well do you want to get hurt now or later?" (I had told him I was willing to take a chance, no matter how scared I am of getting hurt) and basically ended the subject of us becoming a couple (which btw took A LOT of discussing) with "this CANNOT affect our friendship" what is that supposed to mean? Am I the rebound chick? He's kind of a ladies man, and I'm ridiculously possessive and jealous. I'm mostly keeping my insanity to myself, just so I don't ruin anything. I expressed to him my concerns yesterday, which are: What am I to him? Rebound? Does he still talk to his ex? What happens between us when she comes back? Is he going to see her? Is he going to dump me to get back with her? I feel like I have to compete with her for his affection when she isn't even trying; she has a new boyfriend and IS IN EUROPE. In response to pretty much everything I said, all he responded with was "I haven't talked to her in weeks." .......okay!? What about everything else? He did agree that he can't blame me for thinking that way, which I find important on his part. Before we got together I was forcing myself to accept that it would never happen and that I just want him to be happy - with or without me. Well, now that we're an item, I can't quite tell what's going on with him. I don't want to be intrusive and ask him 20 questions, this is a new thing for me (dating a guy with a job and a car and that's significantly older than me and that isn't an abusive psychotic freak) and I'm walking on eggshells here, because I just don't want anything to go wrong. I want some insight from anyone who reads all of this - what do you see going on here? Do I have any reason to be jealous and crazy? I've already let my guard down - should I put the wall back up? What would you do if you were in a situation like this? PLEASE - please give me some insight. Anything would be helpful. Obviously I love him unconditionally. I know that it's worth it to be with him even if I get hurt in the end - but I'm so wary of it. The last thing he wants is to hurt me, and I honestly don't see a future for us. I'm taking the chance because I don't want to spend my life wondering "what if?" I want to know what people would do if they were in my shoes, or even his.
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sorry i dont have time to read all that :(
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Well.
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Give you some insight.....that's impossible. You and only you know your feelings for this guy...we don't Ask yourself if there is any future in this relationship together. l...personally would be walking away..... But this is your feelings that we are talking about.
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First thing you need to remember is that he cheated on his ex. Doesn't matter that it was with you, but that he cheated. Secondly, you need to ask yourself if you will be ok if he cheats on you. You should stay friends and keep intimacy out of it. If you cannot do that then you need to just stay away from him. I know you don't want to hear that, because you probably think HE IS THE ONE!! ...how many times I have heard that from my own daughters !! If you let him, he will hurt you later rather than sooner. It is your choice.
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Well you are the girl after a 6 year relationship, so yes you are the rebound. I personally wouldn't have gotten myself in that situation. I don't like the dude because he said "do you wanna be hurt now or later"... so I'm not sure, but just do what makes you happy.
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can you plzzzzzzz make your Q little short
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hmm, i read it all :D by the sounds of the conversation you had, he sounds like you either are the rebound girl or that he's not expecting anything too serious or long with you. by him saying that 'this CANNOT affect our friendship', i kinda get the vibe that he's expecting that it will end in one way or another? As for his response to your questions, he probably thinks that they are based on what their current stance with each other is, maybe he felt that by saying just that, he would get across that because they dont talk, he doesnt have feelings for her and that you arent the rebound. i see where the confusion comes in... maybe just try focusing on you two for now, try to forget about the ex, if you still feel that hes caught up on her even though shes not around, its probably time to talk to him about it again. hope that helped! x
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i did read all of it i think you might be right with your rebound girl theory. you'd been the other girl a few times, and then you were a shoulder to cry on. no lie not many girls wanna deal with a depressed guy. in that time he got even more used to you, and you were like the next best thing. and he told you that this CANNOT effect your friendship... in this context it sounds like hes saying that if he f*cks up like he thinks he will, then will you please forgive him and stay his friend. you should want someone who sees you as a priority instead of an option. and he clearly doesn't see you as a priority because he didn't really reassure you of any of your concerns did he? but its fair enough that you would have so many concerns. i mean he cheated on his gf of 6-7 years with you a few times, how do you know that he didn't hook up with other girls and how do you know that hes not cheating on you? straight up, you cannot expect him to not talk to his ex and you can't even really demand that (or so i think) because demands never go over well. he also can't really answer most of your questions definitely. see how can he promise you that hes not going to break up with you. does it matter if he breaks up with you for her or for someone else? girl you're an extrovert, you've definitely got this. i think it'd be in your best interest to break up with him. stay friends with him if you want but don't hook up with him anymore because the more you do, the more respect he loses for you. why would he take a relationship with you seriously if he can have fun with you without the work? i really don't mean to sound harsh i just don't think you're giving yourself enough credit. let the ladies man do his thing, he just got out of a serious relationship don't force him into another one. if he really wanted another serious relationship he'd be putting in way more effort. good luck :)
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Well first, i DON'T think you are a rebound girl. I understand why you would get jealous, i know i would. Try and put yourself in his situation, he was with this girl for years! She would have been a big part of his life. Yes he should turn all of his attention to his new girlfriend now (you) but sounds like he needs a little more time to fully get over her. I'm not saying he still loves her. But getting over a serious relationship is going to take time. You two being nothing alike sound like a good couple (: Be good to him to help him get over this girl, you can ask him the questions you have, about her and get his serious answer. I really hope it turns out good for you both, i know how good it is dating your best friend (: If it is meant to be it WILL be. Good luck! Try not to over think little things and stay positive. He's yours.
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I'm sorry but it sounds as though he may be using you until this other girl comes back, stringing you along while hoping his ex will want to pick up where they left off when she returns. I'm guessing he's deluding himself though if she broke up with him and has moved on. Why is he being evasive with his answers? Don't trust him if he can not give you straight answers. Trust your gut instincts. If you have worries after just 2 months as a couple, what will it be like in a year or 2 or when his ex does come back? Oh, and if can cheat on someone with you, he can, and most likely will, cheat with someone else on you.
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Friday, November 1, 2013
This guy always backs away in a one step forward, two steps back kind of way.?
This guy always backs away in a one step forward, two steps back kind of way.?
We're eighteen and go to the same college and have been dating for the last couple months. He's always so sweet and amazing... when I'm with him. but everytime we hit a milestone, he backs away. What gives? For example: When he took me on our first real date, he begged me to stay longer, see him the next day, etc... Then he didn't call me for a week. When he had me meet his friends, it went super well, he was pretty much attached to me the entire time, he was so cute and sweet, and begged me to stay longer.... then didn't call for a week. When he came to my formal with me, it went so well, he was so boyfriendy and made friends with everyone, it was so perfect... didn't call for almost a week. Same goes for the first time we slept together. We're both home for our winter break right now, and last week, he drove the TWO HOURS and ditched his friends for New Years to come stay at my house and be with me on New Years and even meet all of my friends AND MY PARENTS. He tried super hard to get everyone to like him (they did), he was so amazing, he didn't want to leave the next day and we spent almost the whole day together, it was so perfect. We even discussed about how we're exclusive (we never talked about it before, I had just assumed). But he's still not my BOYFRIEND, and even though I don't want to be so into labels, I really do want that validation of our relationship. And I haven't heard from him since he left last Friday. Granted, he is taking a class over break and started school today (Monday) so this past weekend were his last days with his family. He hasn't been on Facebook at all either, so I know he's not just sitting there bored. He's probably busy. But still - how can he be too busy to call me for two seconds!? What gives? Oh also: he's never had a real girlfriend. Is he not calling because he's worried I'll smother him? What do I do?
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Ok the best thing I can tell you is to give it time. Maybe he is to busy with school and other things. You should give it a week. I am sure he will come around. I mean he tried this hard to impress your parents and he brings you around his friends. He is not embarrassed of you. Those are all good things and he is definitely into you. If I may throw in the guy I slept with was actually on new years eve and he was my first. Right now it hurts so much because we decided to keep it as friends. And it hurt because he was my first and tries to make me feel bad. So if you think this guy is the right one think twice and be sure he is not gonna hurt you.
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We're eighteen and go to the same college and have been dating for the last couple months. He's always so sweet and amazing... when I'm with him. but everytime we hit a milestone, he backs away. What gives? For example: When he took me on our first real date, he begged me to stay longer, see him the next day, etc... Then he didn't call me for a week. When he had me meet his friends, it went super well, he was pretty much attached to me the entire time, he was so cute and sweet, and begged me to stay longer.... then didn't call for a week. When he came to my formal with me, it went so well, he was so boyfriendy and made friends with everyone, it was so perfect... didn't call for almost a week. Same goes for the first time we slept together. We're both home for our winter break right now, and last week, he drove the TWO HOURS and ditched his friends for New Years to come stay at my house and be with me on New Years and even meet all of my friends AND MY PARENTS. He tried super hard to get everyone to like him (they did), he was so amazing, he didn't want to leave the next day and we spent almost the whole day together, it was so perfect. We even discussed about how we're exclusive (we never talked about it before, I had just assumed). But he's still not my BOYFRIEND, and even though I don't want to be so into labels, I really do want that validation of our relationship. And I haven't heard from him since he left last Friday. Granted, he is taking a class over break and started school today (Monday) so this past weekend were his last days with his family. He hasn't been on Facebook at all either, so I know he's not just sitting there bored. He's probably busy. But still - how can he be too busy to call me for two seconds!? What gives? Oh also: he's never had a real girlfriend. Is he not calling because he's worried I'll smother him? What do I do?
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Ok the best thing I can tell you is to give it time. Maybe he is to busy with school and other things. You should give it a week. I am sure he will come around. I mean he tried this hard to impress your parents and he brings you around his friends. He is not embarrassed of you. Those are all good things and he is definitely into you. If I may throw in the guy I slept with was actually on new years eve and he was my first. Right now it hurts so much because we decided to keep it as friends. And it hurt because he was my first and tries to make me feel bad. So if you think this guy is the right one think twice and be sure he is not gonna hurt you.
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