Does she "love/wanna marry" me or not? marry and love are same things in Indian culture.?
Please take some time to read the whole case. Your unbiased opinion will keep my mind at peace. I met this girl cos she lives in the same graduate residence as I am. We both are doing our masters in different lines, but are in the same university. 1st encounter was when she was surprised to find that i speak the same mother tongue as she does. later she used to start talking with me when ever she saw me..i can say in a little bit flirtly way. I am a medical student, so study keeps me busy...but later i started thinking why not.....she is a good girl!! she later once asked for my mobile number and requested to me to save hers on my mobile too. I started loving her company and thought i sud ask her if she loves me..with the intention of marriage...cos this thing was churning my mind night and day. She never came with me for jogging in d morning, eventhough i caled her innumberable times, but when her cousin (male)was there she called me if i wanted to go on a walk...we walked on the seaside (alas! 3 of us) for atleast 3 hours.. When i popped her thr question she told she never thought that i would ask her for marriage cos she thought i never liked her.... I then told her that since she gets confused.....plz ask about advice to a person who really cares for her life.....which are her parents. She never told YES or NO. I was getting impatient, so after a week i told that she must tell me. She told its a NO. I will marry only the person that my dad, mom and bro selects for me. And i am confident that nothng can happen between us. And i dont wanna talk about this matter. If u wanna be friends then we can, else do wat u like. She even asked her roommate and few other friends of hers regarding me and told them that i proposed her. After a day I accepted her friend request and asked her to be just a friend and nothng more. NOW....since am back to my home country for 5 months...she chats regularly with me....more than my other friends....and her chating is quite flirty. She tell she doesnt have to worry about herself cos I am always ther to carry her, take care of her. I asked her frankly why she was again behaving differently for which she told that she din knew b4 that i was so intelligent/smart, so she will see the matter again. She told me upon asking her that after i asked her for marriage....she asked her dad for which her dad asked two questions : 1. How long do u know this man? and do u know im fully.......for which she told 1 month and she doesnt know me totally.....then her dad asked...2. Do you love him really? she was speechless and told her dad that forget this matter.. Now i cant understand, i see her waiting for me on yahoo messenger, cos after we chat , she goes offline....if i dont send her any messg for few days....she will send some casual messge asking wats going on... I asked her again if she has any love fo me......again she says NO. And she told that, plz dont ask me repeatedly.....I will tell you myself. Cos I cant take disicions as fast as you do....i take lot of time....cos she had made many mistakes in knowing a person in the past...and she also tells that may be....she wont be able to take care of everyone in my family... She shows all her shopping stuff to me on webcam, talks about everythng that bothers her when she is depressed or tired, asks me how she shud answer in interviews. I have noticed that she remembers everythng i say, but never really replies to any of my offline messages.She is a constant name in my recent visitors list on orkut and facebook. Has seen each and every pic that i upload. I many times tell her that her this approach was wrong...and she sud have done it this way.....for her personal matters....which she listens and does as i say...because she talks to me her problems (just a few though) After i proposed her, we even discussed about how we can start and manage our lives financially without the support of our parents. One fact is, there are a lot of boys after her and trying to be in contact with her. When i met her once after proposing, she told me that i was the 32nd boy to propose her. Can you all please give me your opinion as to wat exactly she is thinking. Is she thinking of me for marriage but will see everythng about me b4 doing that.....OR has she just formed a habit of chatting with me?
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im sorry to say that I think she's leading you on.. forget about her! You deserve someone who will love you
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