Am I sensitive? I hope girls answer me too?
Pupa Your Open QuestionShow me another » Am I sensitive? I hope girls answer me too? I know a girl for a while now she is not my girlfriend but my favorite friend, and I know that she likes me a lot, she always texts me for hangouts, I ask/text much less for hangouts because I am shy. Well sometimes when I text her she either texts back late, or doesn’t reply and saying she didn’t receive anything. I don’t think she is lying because I see a lot of good signs from her for liking me her as she invites me for hangouts and tells me to be with her. Few weeks ago she went on training abroad and texted saying I miss you, which make believe she is not lying at all about receiving my texts, and I know that she is a good girl. For Example: Today I was planning to gather with very good friends of us, I texted her saying that "can you join us at that restaurant tonight?" but she didn't reply at all, while yesterday she texted me about "what about a brunch on friday?". Another Example, I texted her after I helped her in a social problem asked her "Do you feel better now after what happened and etc ?" the next few days she said I didn't receive anything. also After week I texted her for a gathering and she replied a bit late. I tried to discuss this issue with people online and specially with those I met today at the restaurant, it appeared that many people suffer from this negative feeling after texting, which is better the not replying. Also I she complains sometimes about her mobile (BlackBerry) for being not good, I even noticed her telling someone on facebook "If I only can get my mobile work properly". So what do you think the problem is? Do you think its normal? Do you think I am sensitive (Many people say that I am sensitive? please tell me anything this girl is my best friend :) Thank you in advance :)
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no ur good. answer mine plz. http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AuM9P2dHiArheTeZMku_Vorty6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20100723000944AAQacP8
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i think she's interested in you & it truly does sound sincere that her phone isn't working properly. spend more time with her in person so you won't have as much communication problems.
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It sounds like she hangs out with you when it is convenient for her. Honestly, you should look for someone that doesn't have so many... erm... 'phone problems'.
4 :
pussy and sensitive its all the same thing.
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i say ur not sensitive at all and try to go on a date with her ok
6 :
nah... I wouldn't consider you sensitive. It's just that you are into this girl, right? which them makes you like idk like so into getting her text messages? yeah, I think that's it.
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Well, I think maybe she's busy or her excuses are correct. I think it's normal. Are you sensitive? No, not really, you just really really like this girl. ^_^ I think it's cute that you care so much about her and whatnot. I don't think she's meaning to do these things to you on purpose. I hope I helped out!
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Thursday, March 28, 2013
Thursday, March 14, 2013
Does she "love/wanna marry" me or not? marry and love are same things in Indian culture.?
Does she "love/wanna marry" me or not? marry and love are same things in Indian culture.?
Please take some time to read the whole case. Your unbiased opinion will keep my mind at peace. I met this girl cos she lives in the same graduate residence as I am. We both are doing our masters in different lines, but are in the same university. 1st encounter was when she was surprised to find that i speak the same mother tongue as she does. later she used to start talking with me when ever she saw me..i can say in a little bit flirtly way. I am a medical student, so study keeps me busy...but later i started thinking why not.....she is a good girl!! she later once asked for my mobile number and requested to me to save hers on my mobile too. I started loving her company and thought i sud ask her if she loves me..with the intention of marriage...cos this thing was churning my mind night and day. She never came with me for jogging in d morning, eventhough i caled her innumberable times, but when her cousin (male)was there she called me if i wanted to go on a walk...we walked on the seaside (alas! 3 of us) for atleast 3 hours.. When i popped her thr question she told she never thought that i would ask her for marriage cos she thought i never liked her.... I then told her that since she gets confused.....plz ask about advice to a person who really cares for her life.....which are her parents. She never told YES or NO. I was getting impatient, so after a week i told that she must tell me. She told its a NO. I will marry only the person that my dad, mom and bro selects for me. And i am confident that nothng can happen between us. And i dont wanna talk about this matter. If u wanna be friends then we can, else do wat u like. She even asked her roommate and few other friends of hers regarding me and told them that i proposed her. After a day I accepted her friend request and asked her to be just a friend and nothng more. NOW....since am back to my home country for 5 months...she chats regularly with me....more than my other friends....and her chating is quite flirty. She tell she doesnt have to worry about herself cos I am always ther to carry her, take care of her. I asked her frankly why she was again behaving differently for which she told that she din knew b4 that i was so intelligent/smart, so she will see the matter again. She told me upon asking her that after i asked her for marriage....she asked her dad for which her dad asked two questions : 1. How long do u know this man? and do u know im fully.......for which she told 1 month and she doesnt know me totally.....then her dad asked...2. Do you love him really? she was speechless and told her dad that forget this matter.. Now i cant understand, i see her waiting for me on yahoo messenger, cos after we chat , she goes offline....if i dont send her any messg for few days....she will send some casual messge asking wats going on... I asked her again if she has any love fo me......again she says NO. And she told that, plz dont ask me repeatedly.....I will tell you myself. Cos I cant take disicions as fast as you do....i take lot of time....cos she had made many mistakes in knowing a person in the past...and she also tells that may be....she wont be able to take care of everyone in my family... She shows all her shopping stuff to me on webcam, talks about everythng that bothers her when she is depressed or tired, asks me how she shud answer in interviews. I have noticed that she remembers everythng i say, but never really replies to any of my offline messages.She is a constant name in my recent visitors list on orkut and facebook. Has seen each and every pic that i upload. I many times tell her that her this approach was wrong...and she sud have done it this way.....for her personal matters....which she listens and does as i say...because she talks to me her problems (just a few though) After i proposed her, we even discussed about how we can start and manage our lives financially without the support of our parents. One fact is, there are a lot of boys after her and trying to be in contact with her. When i met her once after proposing, she told me that i was the 32nd boy to propose her. Can you all please give me your opinion as to wat exactly she is thinking. Is she thinking of me for marriage but will see everythng about me b4 doing that.....OR has she just formed a habit of chatting with me?
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im sorry to say that I think she's leading you on.. forget about her! You deserve someone who will love you
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Please take some time to read the whole case. Your unbiased opinion will keep my mind at peace. I met this girl cos she lives in the same graduate residence as I am. We both are doing our masters in different lines, but are in the same university. 1st encounter was when she was surprised to find that i speak the same mother tongue as she does. later she used to start talking with me when ever she saw me..i can say in a little bit flirtly way. I am a medical student, so study keeps me busy...but later i started thinking why not.....she is a good girl!! she later once asked for my mobile number and requested to me to save hers on my mobile too. I started loving her company and thought i sud ask her if she loves me..with the intention of marriage...cos this thing was churning my mind night and day. She never came with me for jogging in d morning, eventhough i caled her innumberable times, but when her cousin (male)was there she called me if i wanted to go on a walk...we walked on the seaside (alas! 3 of us) for atleast 3 hours.. When i popped her thr question she told she never thought that i would ask her for marriage cos she thought i never liked her.... I then told her that since she gets confused.....plz ask about advice to a person who really cares for her life.....which are her parents. She never told YES or NO. I was getting impatient, so after a week i told that she must tell me. She told its a NO. I will marry only the person that my dad, mom and bro selects for me. And i am confident that nothng can happen between us. And i dont wanna talk about this matter. If u wanna be friends then we can, else do wat u like. She even asked her roommate and few other friends of hers regarding me and told them that i proposed her. After a day I accepted her friend request and asked her to be just a friend and nothng more. NOW....since am back to my home country for 5 months...she chats regularly with me....more than my other friends....and her chating is quite flirty. She tell she doesnt have to worry about herself cos I am always ther to carry her, take care of her. I asked her frankly why she was again behaving differently for which she told that she din knew b4 that i was so intelligent/smart, so she will see the matter again. She told me upon asking her that after i asked her for marriage....she asked her dad for which her dad asked two questions : 1. How long do u know this man? and do u know im fully.......for which she told 1 month and she doesnt know me totally.....then her dad asked...2. Do you love him really? she was speechless and told her dad that forget this matter.. Now i cant understand, i see her waiting for me on yahoo messenger, cos after we chat , she goes offline....if i dont send her any messg for few days....she will send some casual messge asking wats going on... I asked her again if she has any love fo me......again she says NO. And she told that, plz dont ask me repeatedly.....I will tell you myself. Cos I cant take disicions as fast as you do....i take lot of time....cos she had made many mistakes in knowing a person in the past...and she also tells that may be....she wont be able to take care of everyone in my family... She shows all her shopping stuff to me on webcam, talks about everythng that bothers her when she is depressed or tired, asks me how she shud answer in interviews. I have noticed that she remembers everythng i say, but never really replies to any of my offline messages.She is a constant name in my recent visitors list on orkut and facebook. Has seen each and every pic that i upload. I many times tell her that her this approach was wrong...and she sud have done it this way.....for her personal matters....which she listens and does as i say...because she talks to me her problems (just a few though) After i proposed her, we even discussed about how we can start and manage our lives financially without the support of our parents. One fact is, there are a lot of boys after her and trying to be in contact with her. When i met her once after proposing, she told me that i was the 32nd boy to propose her. Can you all please give me your opinion as to wat exactly she is thinking. Is she thinking of me for marriage but will see everythng about me b4 doing that.....OR has she just formed a habit of chatting with me?
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im sorry to say that I think she's leading you on.. forget about her! You deserve someone who will love you
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Thursday, March 7, 2013
I'm so confused about this girl? (long post, detailed story)?
I'm so confused about this girl? (long post, detailed story)?
Ok so I know this girl on Facebook (she lives near me) who broke up with her boyfriend about a month ago. Now while she was still seeing her boyfriend, I expressed some of my interest to her. Like I told her I think she's a cool person inside and out and that she's pretty. So then after I made my interest clear, I backed off some because she was taken at the time. But while her and I talked, we discussed a variety of topics such as: religion, movies, music, and how people can be judgmental of others. So then about maybe two weeks later, she broke up with her boyfriend. So after I found that out, I gave her a little space.About three-four days later, I sent her a private message saying "What's new?" and she didn't reply to me. So then a couple days after that, I sent her another message saying "Hows it going?" and she didn't reply to that either. But later that week on September 25th, she messaged me on Facebook IM on her own will. We talked for about and hour and 45 minutes that night. During that conversation, we talked more about our plans for the future like college and all. Then we got into to talking about movies again. I asked her if she saw any new movies and she told me she saw "The Town." So that got me into bringing up "The Social Network" which is a new movie and it comes out today. She said she wants to see The Social Network really bad. I asked her if she wanted to see it and she asked me when it being released and I told her October 1st. She just said, "Oh okay." So once she said that, I assumed that she didn't want to go just yet because it was too soon after her break up. She didn't give me her cell phone number or anything to get in touch with me. So it's been like 5-6 days since she's said a word to me on Facebook. I still send her basic messages occasionally saying "Hows it going?: and she still doesn't' answer me. I keep thinking if I wait for her, she will come to me again like she did last time and maybe tell me she wants to go the movie. But I've hardly seen her on Facebook IM since that night. I've been noticing more guys have been posting comments on her Facebook page too. This makes me nervous because the girl is really pretty. I just hope that she expected to go the movie tonight because it wasn't like she sounded enthused about going. She hasn't messaged me back since we talked about the movie either. I feel like she's turning me into a half a stalker too because I'm always tempted to check her page and see which guys are talking to her and to see if they're single or not. A lot of single guys have been talking to her more. I had told her the release date of the movie because she asked me when it was coming out. In our September 25th conversation, she was saying how she would have to check out the things I like. Like if I told her about a TV show I watch, she said "I gotta check that out sometime." She seemed interested or at least pretended to be interested in the things I was talking about and used a lot of smiley faces. So yesterday afternoon I just sent her a message on Facebook asking her if she wanted to see The Social Network next weekend. I gave her until next weekend on purpose so she would have more to time to think about it. I just sent her the message about the movie because I'm hearing all kinds of advice. I've heard that I should just be a friend to her. I've heard that I should just ask her out already. I'm hearing both sides. I would message her more on Facebook IM but she hasn't been on it the last few. I'm thinking she will come onto Facebook IM early this morning like she did last Saturday (9/25). But I looked in her Mobile Uploads folder and she uploaded a picture of her ex boyfriend laying on the couch with one of his male relatives and she posted "hahahaha" as a comment. Is that bad? Nina: Thank you.
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She doesn't like you the way that you like her. Stop obsessing over her, she is not obsessing over you. Besides, she just broke up with her boyfriend, therefore she is probably only using you to get an ego boost and she also could use a little male attention considering her situation with her ex bf. Move on to someone who is CRAZY about you, where you don't need to sit and 'wonder' if she likes you, you'll just know!
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i agree with Drummer
3 :
Ok well that is one story you have. But she just needs time trust me I was with my bf for 8 months and when we left it took me a long time to go out with someone else again. Just time. And try sending her messages saying you miss her and you hope she is ok cause you are worried about her. And let her know you are here for her if she needs anything. And dont freak cause she will most likely want you. She just needs time. k? her heart is broken and just needs time to heal. So instead of worrying try making her feel good about her and the kinda person she is by telling her good things about her. I am here if you need anything else friend:) Good Luck and if you want let me know how it goes:)!
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Ok so I know this girl on Facebook (she lives near me) who broke up with her boyfriend about a month ago. Now while she was still seeing her boyfriend, I expressed some of my interest to her. Like I told her I think she's a cool person inside and out and that she's pretty. So then after I made my interest clear, I backed off some because she was taken at the time. But while her and I talked, we discussed a variety of topics such as: religion, movies, music, and how people can be judgmental of others. So then about maybe two weeks later, she broke up with her boyfriend. So after I found that out, I gave her a little space.About three-four days later, I sent her a private message saying "What's new?" and she didn't reply to me. So then a couple days after that, I sent her another message saying "Hows it going?" and she didn't reply to that either. But later that week on September 25th, she messaged me on Facebook IM on her own will. We talked for about and hour and 45 minutes that night. During that conversation, we talked more about our plans for the future like college and all. Then we got into to talking about movies again. I asked her if she saw any new movies and she told me she saw "The Town." So that got me into bringing up "The Social Network" which is a new movie and it comes out today. She said she wants to see The Social Network really bad. I asked her if she wanted to see it and she asked me when it being released and I told her October 1st. She just said, "Oh okay." So once she said that, I assumed that she didn't want to go just yet because it was too soon after her break up. She didn't give me her cell phone number or anything to get in touch with me. So it's been like 5-6 days since she's said a word to me on Facebook. I still send her basic messages occasionally saying "Hows it going?: and she still doesn't' answer me. I keep thinking if I wait for her, she will come to me again like she did last time and maybe tell me she wants to go the movie. But I've hardly seen her on Facebook IM since that night. I've been noticing more guys have been posting comments on her Facebook page too. This makes me nervous because the girl is really pretty. I just hope that she expected to go the movie tonight because it wasn't like she sounded enthused about going. She hasn't messaged me back since we talked about the movie either. I feel like she's turning me into a half a stalker too because I'm always tempted to check her page and see which guys are talking to her and to see if they're single or not. A lot of single guys have been talking to her more. I had told her the release date of the movie because she asked me when it was coming out. In our September 25th conversation, she was saying how she would have to check out the things I like. Like if I told her about a TV show I watch, she said "I gotta check that out sometime." She seemed interested or at least pretended to be interested in the things I was talking about and used a lot of smiley faces. So yesterday afternoon I just sent her a message on Facebook asking her if she wanted to see The Social Network next weekend. I gave her until next weekend on purpose so she would have more to time to think about it. I just sent her the message about the movie because I'm hearing all kinds of advice. I've heard that I should just be a friend to her. I've heard that I should just ask her out already. I'm hearing both sides. I would message her more on Facebook IM but she hasn't been on it the last few. I'm thinking she will come onto Facebook IM early this morning like she did last Saturday (9/25). But I looked in her Mobile Uploads folder and she uploaded a picture of her ex boyfriend laying on the couch with one of his male relatives and she posted "hahahaha" as a comment. Is that bad? Nina: Thank you.
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She doesn't like you the way that you like her. Stop obsessing over her, she is not obsessing over you. Besides, she just broke up with her boyfriend, therefore she is probably only using you to get an ego boost and she also could use a little male attention considering her situation with her ex bf. Move on to someone who is CRAZY about you, where you don't need to sit and 'wonder' if she likes you, you'll just know!
2 :
i agree with Drummer
3 :
Ok well that is one story you have. But she just needs time trust me I was with my bf for 8 months and when we left it took me a long time to go out with someone else again. Just time. And try sending her messages saying you miss her and you hope she is ok cause you are worried about her. And let her know you are here for her if she needs anything. And dont freak cause she will most likely want you. She just needs time. k? her heart is broken and just needs time to heal. So instead of worrying try making her feel good about her and the kinda person she is by telling her good things about her. I am here if you need anything else friend:) Good Luck and if you want let me know how it goes:)!
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Friday, March 1, 2013
My Girl friend left me. I am passing very hard time.:(?
My Girl friend left me. I am passing very hard time.:(?
I met a girl last December,2009. few days later i sent her friend request in facebook.We used to chat and make fun. I came to knew she had been going out with a boy last 2 year! One day she sent me a message that she is very upset, coz her bf cheat with her.that boy flirted with another girls beside their relation!She knew her all password of her bf. but her bf changed all password. One day she could get in to his fb account by using his old pass!! she saw her bf was flirting with another girl! few days later his bf dumped her.She was really upset. I gave her call by my cell .I could hear she is crying! the time was jan 2010. everyday i used to call her and try to console her.she did cut her hand two times. I met her and gave her some band aid.I tried to make her happy all time as a friend. when she smiled, i was so happy that time.One day her bf came to knew that she had a new friend and supported her a lot.Some times he got her cell busy. This guy couldn't take it easily.He took my number from her forcefully and callled me.He thread that if i call her again he will kill me.He blamed me for their break up.I tried to understand him gently.this guy was too rough.he used very bad slang during talking with me. I could understand he is very cheap guy. he couldn't respect any human being. When this guy cmae to know abt me, he tried to get back to her.This girl never wanted to give him chance. he used to disturb her by mobile, land phone.One day she informed me that they had physical relation with him..Anyway, after that they hooked up 4 times,but it wasn't working. she was frustrated.She shared all thing with me.we used to talk regularly by cell.we stared to feel for each other.we got committed on May,2010.I stared to love her.i couldn't tolerate her sad face.whatever she needs,.i tried to give her.I went to India for travel on July,2010. I uesd to call her much than my parents.We've been very happy together, we've been discussing about out future and we're ready to go through life together side by side. She had Canadian passport.one day she told me she has to go for higher degree.I made plan i will come their.She wen to canada on september,2010. But it didnt effect on relation. we trying to contact everyday.One day she gave me a mail that she couldn't forget her ex bf. her one part still fell for him.I got hurt .She said sorry, she was trying to say me that she wants to be honest with me.She never get back to guy. she wanted to spend her whole life with me. I discovered some changes of her from jan 2011. One day i came to knew she gave her cell number to her ex bf.Some times we used to chat in skype. one day i found her online e, knocked her, she told me she is busy with her friends. but we had a important conversation.but she didnt care that. i checked out her account and find that she catted with her ex. I told her, she told me she couldn't forget him, when her ex knocked her, she couldnt control . she felt sorry for me. she wanted some times and told me it will be ok.i trust her a lot.i am starting prepare my papers to go Canada. But i could understand she always give priority and importance to ex bf than me. 3 days ago she told me she cant continuing our relation. coz she fells her ex bf,, and they contact regularly.She said sorry, request me to forgive her. I was crying that time. coz i love her a lot. i did a lot of things for her.Her ex bf very bad guy.he used to torture her.I am passing very hard time. i want her.:(
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Unfortuantly there goe's a saying you want what you can't have Applies to people, items, and various wants.
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I met a girl last December,2009. few days later i sent her friend request in facebook.We used to chat and make fun. I came to knew she had been going out with a boy last 2 year! One day she sent me a message that she is very upset, coz her bf cheat with her.that boy flirted with another girls beside their relation!She knew her all password of her bf. but her bf changed all password. One day she could get in to his fb account by using his old pass!! she saw her bf was flirting with another girl! few days later his bf dumped her.She was really upset. I gave her call by my cell .I could hear she is crying! the time was jan 2010. everyday i used to call her and try to console her.she did cut her hand two times. I met her and gave her some band aid.I tried to make her happy all time as a friend. when she smiled, i was so happy that time.One day her bf came to knew that she had a new friend and supported her a lot.Some times he got her cell busy. This guy couldn't take it easily.He took my number from her forcefully and callled me.He thread that if i call her again he will kill me.He blamed me for their break up.I tried to understand him gently.this guy was too rough.he used very bad slang during talking with me. I could understand he is very cheap guy. he couldn't respect any human being. When this guy cmae to know abt me, he tried to get back to her.This girl never wanted to give him chance. he used to disturb her by mobile, land phone.One day she informed me that they had physical relation with him..Anyway, after that they hooked up 4 times,but it wasn't working. she was frustrated.She shared all thing with me.we used to talk regularly by cell.we stared to feel for each other.we got committed on May,2010.I stared to love her.i couldn't tolerate her sad face.whatever she needs,.i tried to give her.I went to India for travel on July,2010. I uesd to call her much than my parents.We've been very happy together, we've been discussing about out future and we're ready to go through life together side by side. She had Canadian passport.one day she told me she has to go for higher degree.I made plan i will come their.She wen to canada on september,2010. But it didnt effect on relation. we trying to contact everyday.One day she gave me a mail that she couldn't forget her ex bf. her one part still fell for him.I got hurt .She said sorry, she was trying to say me that she wants to be honest with me.She never get back to guy. she wanted to spend her whole life with me. I discovered some changes of her from jan 2011. One day i came to knew she gave her cell number to her ex bf.Some times we used to chat in skype. one day i found her online e, knocked her, she told me she is busy with her friends. but we had a important conversation.but she didnt care that. i checked out her account and find that she catted with her ex. I told her, she told me she couldn't forget him, when her ex knocked her, she couldnt control . she felt sorry for me. she wanted some times and told me it will be ok.i trust her a lot.i am starting prepare my papers to go Canada. But i could understand she always give priority and importance to ex bf than me. 3 days ago she told me she cant continuing our relation. coz she fells her ex bf,, and they contact regularly.She said sorry, request me to forgive her. I was crying that time. coz i love her a lot. i did a lot of things for her.Her ex bf very bad guy.he used to torture her.I am passing very hard time. i want her.:(
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Unfortuantly there goe's a saying you want what you can't have Applies to people, items, and various wants.
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