Will He Ever Get Over It?
I've been seeing D for a few weeks, although he's liked me for years. He's funny, smart, and sooo fun to be around. I'm smitten. That is of course, until I ruined everything. I hadn't seen D in over a week because we're both really busy. I was so excited to see him, but he cancelled on our beach date and instead just came over to my house later. I was disappointed, because it started to feel more like a booty call than a date, and I was awkward and cold until he left. I later realized that I was overreacting, he still came to see me, we haven't slept together or anything (so it OF COURSE wasn't a booty call). We had plans to hangout the next night, but he blew me off for being too tired. I instantly was livid and assumed he must be over me. I had an ex who lied and cheated. I know these things (or so I thought). In my fury, I text D and say that I'm sorry for acting weird the other night, BUT if all he wants is a f*** buddy, I'm not it and I don't like wasting my time. To make a long story short, my best friend took matters into her own hands and posted this SUPER old picture of me kissing our guy friend (the picture was a joke - the friend surprise-kissed me for the picture, we've never hooked up) on Facebook to make D jealous. I didn't hear from D for three days (when usually he texts me all day long), so I texted him and asked where he'd been. He was furious about the picture (which surprised me because we never talked about being exclusive), and said that I called him a waste of time. I explained that the picture was not only a TOTAL joke, it was from forever ago. He thought that the picture had been from a night when I was supposed to go to D's house - which I don't even know what he's talking about! I then explained that I love hanging out with him, and I would never call him a waste of time! I just meant that I didn't want to waste my time if all he wanted was sex, and I don't think he does (I was just being insecure). He didn't believe me, would barely discuss it, and told me he "had to go". I miss him and like him more than ever and I'm furious with my friend for posting the picture, and even more mad at myself for allowing insecurity from a bad ex ruin things with D. What can I do? It's been a week since I'd tried to explain. He hasn't contacted me since. =( Help!
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Move on get over it he doesn't trust you and wont believe you relationships are built on trust
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