oes she have a right to hate me?!? ...And what did I really do that was so wrong?
Cassie: Dating Austin, used to hate Danielle, now she's okay-ish with her. Austin: Dating Cassie, used to date Danielle. Danielle: Used to date Austin, used to hate Cassie, now she's okay-ish with her. Nichole: (me) Best friends with Cassie and Danielle. Can't stand Austin because she knows that he is a cheating liar. So, Danielle sends Austin some pictures of a naked girl (she's a girl from school that nobody likes and they thought it would be funny to send the pics to everyone in Danielle's contacts). So Austin flips out about it to Cassie, telling her that it's absolutely 'vomit' and disgusting. Cassie texts me and says that she's super p***** off and that it's because of the pictures. She thinks that Danielle is trying to screw up her relationship with Austin. I text Danielle to see if she really sent the pictures. I'm friends with Danielle and I'm not going to just let her get thrown under the bus if she didn't really send them. She sent them. So the next day at school I get into a screaming match with her. Turns out, it was supposed to be a joke, and Austin thought it was funny....at least that's what he told Danielle. So Danielle showed me the text messages that they shared back and forth. I even checked the number to be sure that it was his. In the messages he was saying things like 'You're the best ever Dannybabe' and 'You know...we would still be together if it weren't for your parents.' and 'Ive been thinking about you a lot lately...and how you're doing. Don't ask why though, lol.' He also lied to Cassie, because he told her that he thought the pictures were gross, but he told Danielle that they absolutely made his day. So, trying to be a good friend and watch out for Cassie (You see, Austin has cheated on her, left her for other girls, and lied to her before) I decided to tell her about these things. She gets mad at me, saying that I'm bringing up something that she doesn't want to hear about and etc. So I got defensive, asking her if she would rather just ignore it until her screwed her over for real...AGAIN. She would never answer that particular question. She just kept telling me that it was hard to believe and that she didn't want to hear it because every time things were good between her and Austin, something bad came up. So, she wasn't really talking to me. She hadn't texted me all day. So (yeah I really didn't need to) I texted Austin and asked him why he was lying to Cassie and flirting with Danielle. He, of course, denied everything and tried to lie himself to hell...it didn't work on me. But then he accused me of calling Cassie a s***** a** friend ....that tore it. I've never said that and I would never say that. I've always been a great friend to her, always there when she needed me, offered her a shoulder to cry on, and picked up the shattered pieces of her heart when he stepped on them and ground them into the dirt. So...she didn't talk to me at all the next day. She was in school, but we didn't talk. Even though I knew that she had heard about my texting Austin. Apparently she and Danielle had discussed it on Facebook the night before. So at the end of the day I posted a tweet on twitter.com about how we were just going to ignore this too...and she finally texted me. We ended up getting into an argument. I thought that she needed to confront him about his lying and flirting with his ex. She wanted to forget about it. So eventually she told me that she didn't need my bull**** and that she was done with me. To delete her number from my f******* phone and delete his too. ....So honestly? What the h*** did I do? I tried to be a good friend. I made sure that what I thought he was doing was true before I told her about it. I let her know that her boyfriend was lying to her. I let her know that her boyfriend was flirting with his ex-girlfriend. If I had hidden this and he had hurt her later on, and she found out I had known and not told her, I'd lose a friend because of that....so what should I have done? Stand by and let her get hurt and then lose her because I lied by keeping it from her? I'm not that kind of person. Now she wants nothing to do with me and she hates me. She refuses to even look at me let alone talk to me or acknowledge my presence. So, honest opinion....what did I do that was so wrong? What did I do to deserve losing a supposed best friend?
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1 :
ooyyy people grow uppp...
2 :
What you did was you opened up your mouth said what you had to say ( right or wrong) and then wouldn't stop . ITS ONE THING TO BACK A FRIEND UP, ITS ANOTHER STORY ALTOGETHER TO TRY MARCHING THEM INTO BATTLE AGAINST THEIR WILL. But personally, I'd start looking around for friends who had more self respect, or respect for others, as all three sound like overly self centered people.
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