Friend blocked me on facebook and is trash talking me, for no reason??? please read?
So yesterday i was updating my wedding website to include my cousin who I asked to be a bridesmaid, and i went to get her picture off of facebook to add with a discription and i found she had blocked me, and i was shocked because i hadn't done anything to her. I asked her sister to check and she was still included on her friends list and so were a few other people. I had talked to her a few days ago and we were fine. I had even sent her a blackberry curve under the understand she would pay me on the 25th for the phone, anyways her sister came to stay at my place friday night and went out saturday night, I found out friday she had suffered a miscarriage *she has two older kids*, anyways i offered my moral support and stuff, but for no reason at all i see she was bad mouthing me to her sister and her sister told me all the things she says about me, I was quited shocked because she always so nice to me but she has been knowen to fib and talked trash about her own family so as shocked as i am i am not suprised. (anyways before people go well she had a miscarriage who cares about a phone i know its just a phone but we made an agreement that also cost me 600.00 dollars, and i basically gave it away,)\ so her sister messaged her and asked if she is not going to pay for thphone to please send it back to me she messages back i did not get the phone, and then she started on this rant about her sister being selfish and that she was being mean, and that she was not offering her moral support when she was we all were and then told her she waso nly being this way because she was with Amanda the fking btch, i was shocked because i truly have done nothing to provoce her in anyway, i know that her husbands family is very controlling and in her head she thinks she is friends with good charlotte *no joke she tells me all the time* and she really has an amazing imagination, and i understand miscarring can be a tramatic event but why take it out on me and, for another thing could she be jealous that i am getting married and have support her, she has no one where she is but could jealouy really act so out of character when i tried to call her to discuss these things she hangs up on me before she says anything, please advice form mature adults
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1 :
I would go to her house and talk. Or attempt to talk. She's acting like a 3 year old. I know miscarriages are hard, but she's being mean to you for no reason whatsoever.
2 :
She i problly menatly unstable thats what it sounds like to me if she thinks good chrlotte is her friend shes gotta be crazy hello!?!?! ko co ko co and she shouldnt be talking like that she needs help asap!
3 :
to be honest she sounds like she might need some professional help, maybe you could suggest to a family member some counciling or get a doctor to check her out, (i've had experience with a person with a mental illness and they can act in the most unpredictable ways and no matter how hard you question the motives behind their actions they may never make sense.) and then deal with the buisness of the phone afterwards, people do things that make no sense whatsoever when they are under extraordinary amounts of stress which could be brought on by controlling inlaws and the miscarriage. she'll probably be experiencing all kinds of emotions on account of the miscarriage that she may not understand properly if you get what i mean, if jealousy is the one emotion she can get her head round then that could explain why she is taking it out on you, hope this helped xx
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