So stressed out what should i do?
im 17 [will be 18 august 24th] and im 8wks pregnant. I just graduated frm high school && moved frm va tu florida right after bt the father still lives in va...i told him and we were discussing me getting an abortion and when it felt like the right thing to do i couldnt do it. So i decided to keep him. The father was all kind when we decided to get an abortion but right when i told him i was gonna keep the baby he started getting distant. So ever since i decided to keep the baby ive been looking around for jobs and apartments and everything but the father is still going to parties smoking weed and having fun with other girls [oh by the way he recently just found out he has chylmidia; but i got tested and i dont have it] He says he wont abandon us or the baby but everytime i try to talk about the baby to him he says im bitchin or blows me off; his phone recently got cut off then he got a new number and didnt give it to me. So i was stuck talkin to him threw facebook telling him he really needs to get a job and he says "leave me the f*** alone" I havent told my parents yet and dont really plan to until i have a job and get everything ready for the baby [such as an apartment etc] because if i tell them right now they'll just kick me out . I'm really scared and i dont know what to do about my babys father...any suggestions?
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1 :
You should be prepared to not count on the father for any help. Prepare for the worst and hope for the best. Also, retain a lawyer so you can sue him for child-support, if need be. Good luck!
2 :
would it made more sense if you just had your baby normally from a husband within a normal life condition?
3 :
he sounds like a total loser, & your father doesn't sound like much help either. i'd try and get a job, or goverment help right away. i'd say, keep the baby and raise it alone.. you don't need the father, but that baby is going to need you. you're going to have to grow up alot and make some tough decisions that are best for the BABY first.. guys aren't everything, but i know how it feels. good luck!
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