LGBT: Why should I feel guilty about some facebook jerk harassing this couple I'm sexually involved with?
I'm a 21 year old gay guy and I created a facebook page two weeks ago. That same day, I received and accepted a friend request from this gay guy(lets call him "LOSER"). He looked so familiar and I realized that he was an old myspace friend of mine. I deleted my myspace page in September 2008. Me and LOSER used to message each other on myspace two years ago talking about hooking up and stuff. I admit he is hot and he's about my age but we never ended up hooking up. We never met in person at all. Anyway, for a while now, I've been sexually/romantically involved with a gay couple named Luis and Sergio(I posted many yahoo questions concerning them). Luis and I are actually in love. Sergio and I have feelings that seem to be progressing into love. I'm living with them now and we're discussing the possibility of having a three-way relationship(not just a threesome) and moving to Florida this summer. Anyway, the day after I created my Facebook page. LOSER left a rude comment on several pictures of me, Luis and Sergio together(it turns out that he's been on their friends' list for a while though they've never really spoken). Right away, Sergio and I blocked him. But Luis simply told LOSER to stop leaving rude comments on our pics. LOSER said he didn't mean any disrespect, so Luis accepted his apology and left it alone. Two weeks passed with no issues but today Luis was pissed off because LOSER left another rude comment. When Luis confronted him about it, LOSER called him an "old f*ck" and trashy. Well, Luis turned 37 years old yesterday but let me to tell you something he is still sexier than many guys MY AGE. He often gets mistaken for 25(sometimes younger)! Sure, his facebook has a lot of half-naked pics of himself but he's very classy nonetheless and very intelligent. Anyway, Luis told the guy off and blocked him. But he is pissed. But what concerns me is this text message that Luis sent to me: "Im gonna punch ur stupid little friend in the F**king face if I eva meet him. It seems like eva since he saw u in pics with me and Sergio thats when he started leavin those stupid comments." Why is he referring to LOSER as my "friend" just because he happened to be some **** I used to talk to on myspace? Like I said I never even met the guy once. So, I don't know why this guy is acting so stupid. Does it sound Luis is accusing me of something or is he reacting this way out of anger for the moment? I'm pissed myself and I can't talk to Luis right now because he's VERY pissed and I don't want us to end up arguing. What should I do?
Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgendered - 4 Answers
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1 :
He'll get over it. He is just mad and has to blame someone or say nasty things to other people. It's the way a lot of people deal with anger. I would just let it be.
2 :
He is upset. Give him time to cool off. This LOSER could just be hating because of the fact that you are doing better than he is or you are happier than he is.
3 :
I would say let him cool off and he's just upset about this situation and you were in the line of fire. But it's probably out of the moment anger. With this "LOSER" who knows if he's a stalker and doesn't understand the difference between reality and fantasy. I would steer clear of this LOSER.
4 :
leave it alone for a while, let him cool down and forget it. i think you should forget the whole thing too, as long as the "Loser" no longer has anyway of commenting or contacting you or them.
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