I know men love the chase, so how do I make it more exciting?
This is by far one of the most unique challenges of my life haha. I'll give you some quick facts to make this easier: -met the guy, age 20, on interpals.com -every other day we would message each other until one day he didn't message back, and I removed him from my friends list (I probably overreacted) -I requested him again & he accepted and things went back to normal -we both like discussing athletics since we are both very active (I run cross country, he practices many types of martial arts), school, and we've both hinted that we find each other attractive -we moved onto Facebook and thing got better from there. -he photoshopped a picture to make it look like we standing next to each other on the beach (which I initially found to very odd but I learned to appreciate it) -I then suggested we send private videos to each other since I don't have a webcam. He'd show me his home, neighborhood, and always adds a little humor which shows he really puts effort. I do the same and in my last video (there's only been an exchange of about 3 videos each) I asked if we could mix it up by one person asking a question and the other films a video response. -he hasn't sent me another video in about 3 days and at first I thought he must be busy but no, he's frequently posting up other video clips and doing other things on Facebook -I didn't want to appear desperate but I instant messaged him in french (i used an online translator) saying "I miss talking with my french friend!" and he responded "lol" and asked why I wasn't in school while my friends were and I told him that they're still in HS and I don't start college for another 2 weeks. He said "ok" and that he's tired. I wrote back "ok I'll let you sleep but I'd appreciate if you'd msg me tomorrow because I have to show you something." He asked what but all I said was byeeee. -That message was about 2 hours ago and I log in again and notice that he created a new photo album Bleh. I was thinking of not messaging him for at least a week. Would that be the best thing to do? ...wow that's a lot to take in and if you read the whole thing, thank you! Please give me any thoughts or advice. If you need more information just ask! Additional Details I did send him a video asking a question and he even "liked" it on youtube. But yeah, I should probably wait like 2 more days. Btw, I live in California and he lives in France, so texting is out of the question!
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"Btw, I live in California and he lives in France, so texting is out of the question!" Nothing else you said really matters except that. Long distance makes the heart grow fonder, for someone else. Find someone in CA, don't waste your energy with someone so far. Unless you have a reason to move to France. It's actually quite nice there. Put your time into a local guy. CA guys need a sweet girl like you. :)
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