Whats wrong and whats going on with him?
This random guy added me to his Facebook account about 6 months ago and started flirting with me on Facebook like he would comment on my pictures, status etc. So, we became friends and exchanged numbers. In our conversation, we discussed about our past and whatnot. We came to realized we both been through same stuff etc. To make it long story short; he confessed to me his feelings and asked me to visit him; which I denied. ( he’s in Mexico and I am in USA ) He was pretty honest about everything about his past like he told me he was into drugs and have tried to commit a suicide etc and also he helped me with my resume. Since, I told him that I would not visit him he has stopped talking to me and I tried to talk to him through emails and text message. He would reply back text message but that’s about it and would not continue conversation. I asked him what’s bugging him he would say “nothing†and that’s it. I emailed him three times to break the ice and get him talking but still there’s no response from his side. My question is: His birthday is coming up- Do you think I should write him an another email and call him or just ask him again about his behaviour ? Please be positive and sensitive while providing advice. Thank you in advance for reading.
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First you need to answer some questions to yourself, starting with do you think you are in love with him? Or is it just one of friendship? Answering that to yourself will make it easier. He might be acting this way because: 1) He really liked you in a romantic way and he got hurt when you refused to see him 2) He was into you but when you refused to see him he thought meh...and moved on. 3) He was looking to get into United States...and since he no longer thinks you're the key that will get him in, he is not bothering with it. You know him better, so it will be easier for you to determine which option is more possible. However if you feel you're in love with him then give him a call, and talk to him and express your feelings for him as well. And maybe invite him over or something. If what you feel for him is just a good friend...then message him and let him know how much you miss talking to him as he was a very good friend and wish him all the best in life. However if he does have feelings for you and you think of him as just a friend then it's best to just let things be, that way no one's feelings will get hurt in the long run. All the best!
