Facebook Love . . . .?
This random guy added me to his Facebook account about 6 months ago and started flirting with me on Facebook like he would comment on my pictures, status etc. So, we became friends and then exchanged numbers. In our conversations, we discussed about our past experience in relationship. We came to realized that we both been through same stuff . To make it long story short; he confessed to me his feelings and asked me to visit him; which I denied. (he’s in Mexico and I am in USA ) He was pretty honest about everything about his past like he told me he was into drugs and has tried to commit a suicide etc and also he helped me with my resume. Since, I told him that I would not visit him he has stopped talking to me and I tried to talk to him through emails and text message. He would reply back text message right away but that’s about it and would not continue conversation. I asked him what’s bugging him he would say “nothing†and that’s it. I emailed him three times to break the ice and get him talking but still there’s no response from his side. My question is: His birthday is coming up- Do you think I should write him an another email and call him or just ask him again about his behavior ? or totally ignore him and wait for him to come and talk to me?
Singles & Dating - 3 Answers
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1 :
Break it off, didn't you go to all those cyber-safety lectures in school? for all you know he could be a 50 year old creeper using like his nephew's photos or something. Plus think about why he was so pissed you wouldn't visit. Sorry I'm lecturing but I don't think it's safe. I don't care if your an adult adults still can make dumb decisions.
2 :
Here's some Irish advice for ya :) If this guy went cold on ya just because you said no to visiting him, then he's just not that interested in you. Or at least not enough to fight for you to come or for him to bother himself to see you! If he truly cared he'd fight for you or make the effort to visit you instead and in all honesty you met over facebook he can't expect you to be so blind in all of this. I'd say take it as a blessing in disguise because I have the feeling with all the drugs and stuff that he wasn't exactly a full bag of marbles..... if its the right guy there will be no doubt or hesitation. Move on and upwards! Best of luck though...whatever you choose xxx
3 :
he will come back to you i promise
