What is the point in even chasing women anymore?
Well, I had been chatting to a girl that was in my Spanish class in college over Facebook and sending texts between each other. Here's the story: We were good friends, like she was very quiet and shy in class but I was the only one besides her female friend who had any time for her, but I enjoyed her company. We used to walk home from college and talk and laugh about stuff, at that time she had a boyfriend so I thought, "OK, we will remain friends, no problem." But over the Internet and the phone, we chatted deep about things, so I thought that we must have had a good rapport because some of the things she was telling me were very sensitive issues. I told her how beautiful she is and so we planned to go out together on the Saturday night two days ago. I suggested why not a restaurat; she suggested going out together for a drink, well, fair enough. After getting ready and knocking at her house, she opened the door, and she was just absolutely stunning! I was surprised by how much effort she put into her appearance, you know, going out as friends and all. So, we talked and laughed, she knew anyway that I fancied her. The night well was going really well. I grabbed a bite to eat first because I had no dinner, and then we hit the bars in town; we bought each other drinks, so I knew that we were going out as friends. Throughout the night, she was talking to me about how much of an ar*sehole her ex-boyfriend was, and she wanted to cut all contact with him, so I reassured her that she was too good for him. However, I then stated, "You know all you women, you come moaning to people about the bad guys in your life, whether it be your boyfriend, your ex, your dad etc, so why don't you lot ever try a honest, straightforward guy for once. Look, I'm no angel, but with me, you know where you stand." From then, we still had fun together throughout the night, but she was letting me hold her and we were close together, almost like the chemistry was building between us. Then, she was getting quite drunk whilst I was still relatively sober, she didn't even know where she was for God's sake!!!!! Because she was drunk, I became very weary of other guys trying to take advantage and use her just for sex. One guy drunk and high on cocaine then started grabbing her. She didn't really respond, but didn't tell him to get away either. I went in between them as if I was waiting at the bar, and got punched in the face!!! So, we left. Here's where it really hurts deep. We walked to the police officers on patrol in the street, and she was saying to me that it wasn't my place to protect her and under the supervision of the officers, scuttled off and got a taxi home without asking if I wanted a lift home. Because the police are horrible bastar**ds, they just let her go and told me to go home. I had no money left for a taxi, so I had to walk 8 miles back home!!! Feeling angry, I knocked at her house, at about 4:30am, and discussed with her mother about the night out; she was just drunk and asleep. Her mum and dad came across as decent, law-abiding citizens, so I had a lot of respect for them. Even her mum said us two going out as friends was a bad idea, so she didn't even have a biased view of the situation. The next day, she had deleted her Facebook profile, and hadn't even said sorry! I know that if I knocked at her house to try to discuss things between the two of us, I would probably get harrassment charges put against me. Basically, she's just being a coward and protected. Even my mum and her boyfriend haven't given me much consolidation, they're just pointing out at my faults! I'm only 19, never had a proper girlfriend before, have Asperger's Syndrome, so social situations are extremely difficult for me anyway, and she was the only girl with who I felt that I could be my nerdy, cheeky self around. I'm so fuckin'8 depressed.
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Why don't you try to see her again because you still have the chance to see her. I don't think she would press harassment charges on you because you are good person and I hope she knows that.
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