What should I do about my girlfriend?
I recently about 2 months ago broke up with my girlfriend. We dated for about 4 to 5 months and it was completely amazing. She always stayed over and we did everything together. It actually became really serious really fast and I took as a serious relationship. I met her family they loved me and she loved mine. In December she will be moving back to Texas where she is from. She is only attending school here. Talks of me moving to Texas to be with her were also discussed. I really fell for this girl. Well the week we broke up she had a girls night out of town she had to go to. None of the girls ended up going (which I knew would happen.) and she ended up going out on the town with her ex all night and staying on his couch. Well her ex turns out to be one of my best friends from HS that she had no idea. Rest assured I was very angry and didnt trust anything had not happened. Nothing did of course and we decided to be friends after the break up and made the mistake of hooking up and still seeing each other. Now she admits that was her trying to hold on to me and work things out. Which I had no idea that's what she was doing. Well now 2 months later she is sleeping with one of my best friends and wont talk to me or anything and deleted me from facebook. Heres the thing.... I was very very angry all the time and did things like texted her in the middle of the night cussing her out for me feeling betrayed. Now she doesnt want a friendship and is sorry for hurting me and is sorry for dating my friend. I still really care about her and feel bad about the text and anger. I realize that I took it all too serious and she just wanted someone to hold her at night and just be there for her. She was really just lonely. She actually cared about me but didnt mean to make things so serious. Should I forget her or write her a letter? Should I feel bad or apologize to her. I know I will run into her intentionally again. Ill be in Texas in the Airforce. I love her what should I do? My friends don't understand why I can't get over here but I think it's because everything came crashing down at once. I'm also very sensitive to this subject. I didn't want a girlfriend and I've slept around a lot I'm 24 and I've slept with 31 women in the past 4 years and I'm just tired of it. As soon as I met her I was like ok this is something I would love. I've never had more fun with anyone and never wanted to take care of someone so much. When she left I felt like I lost a part of myself. My mom killed herself when I was 8 and my stepmom of 10 years left in the middle of the night and moved to Alaska and never talked to me again. I can't loose her.
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I'm sorry for what you've been through, i also lost my mother in a similar way. If you truly care about this girl as much as you say you do I think you should meet with her face to face and talk about it. Don't blame all of the mistakes on you, or her. She shouldn't have done what she did, and you shouldn't have reacted the way you did. Let her know that it's obvious that you both need to work on some things. Which is fine! No relationship is perfect. If she wants to move on, don't push it. Maybe a few years down the road, she'll come back. Maybe she won't. Accept the answer that you're given. I don't believe that there is only one person out there for each person. usually, people come across several people in their lifetime that they fall for, very hard. Heartbreak is apart of life. Some people are fortunate enough to not have it happen, but it is very rare. If you made it through what you've been through already, then buddy, you can make it through anything else that is thrown at you. You will find someone to be with for the rest of your life. And if this girl doesn't want to be the one, its not meant to be and you WILL find someone else eventually if you keep your eye out and don't give up. Good luck :)
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